You spent precious time looking for that perfect home, you have just moved in and recently finished unpacking all your possessions. You're finally starting to settle in! Then a chainsaw hacking, carving through a tree shreds your peaceful bliss. Oh, didn't you know? You made the mistake of moving next to the neighbors from hell. These people are awful. They let their lawn rot with junk, play obnoxiously loud music at random times in the night, never close their blinds while walking around in the nude, rake leaves into your once-pristine yard and give you a death glare if you mention these problems. But, don't fear! Selling or re-moving isn't necessary, just follow these tips on how to deal with these hellish people who dare call themselves your neighbors.
Don't Get Angry
If you feel like ferociously taking out your lack of sleep on the neighbor because they were blaring music all night through an open window, here is a tip: don't. Reacting hastily to any situation, especially tension filled ones, can simply make the problem worse. Do your best to approach your neighbor in a friendly manner. Maybe bring over a case of beer or bottle of wine to break the ice. Let them know in a non-confrontational manner that these issues are bothering you, and give them ideas on how to fix the issue. The second thing is to mention how their behavior negatively affects you, instead of attacking them for sloppy behavior.
If they're not willing to talk with you, then try to find a neutral mediator to oversee the discussion.
Help Them
Maybe your neighbor isn't really from hell after all, but they're super swamped with a hectic lifestyle and don't have the time to remove the rusting car parts from their yard. Instead of condemning them, lend a hand.
Document Everything
If the neighbor simply refuses to stop the derelict behavior, then the best option might be to bring the problem to the authorities. Be that a home owners association, the police or a lawyer. Before you can successfully do this, you'll need to accurately document your grievances. Make sure you keep a copy of any noise complaints you might file with the police, photocopy any letters you send (be sure those are signed by you), and take photographs of the property. These will all help your case against this unruly neighbor.
Source: Jaron Clinton/RealtyTimes.com
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