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Take What You Need…….

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

Funny how life works. You get, you give, you win and you lose. In my life I have learned a few things that I share whenever and wherever I can. It took awhile but I have learned that it is important to take what you need, and then give what you can. There are times when it seems there is nothing to take and then times when it seems there is so very much. My view is when opportunity is available, take, but not more than you need, and be generous to those who are waiting for a time when they can take too. I think it is called paying it forward. I try to do this and it makes most of my days better. Hey there is no perfect. Try it......

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Comments (22)

Dale Bledsoe
Crown Key Realty - Tracy, CA
Realtor in Tracy, California

My mom told me early and often, "be a giver not a taker". That has servered me well throughout my life. Thank you for the reminder.

Aug 29, 2014 05:01 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good afternoon friends and thank you for stopping by and leaving your comments and offering your support: I really appreciate it.

Hello Suzanne. I not a hippie, sorry. I was raised before that and it wasn't my style but if the hippie code is to give more than you get: I'm in. Time is valuable and it is a real gift. Thank you.

Hi Liz. Your example is a good one. Moreover, I agree with you about  Suzanne's commitment. Thanks Liz, and I hope that this finds you well. Thank you.

Hello Dale. Your Mom is/was a very wise woman. Thank you for affirming her thinking and now mine.

Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 05:20 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Take what you need, but need what you take!  And to add the old adage: Better to give, then receive.

Yes, I agree with you on this one whole heartedly.  

Aug 29, 2014 06:05 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Carla. Have a great weekend.     Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 06:18 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Love the photo of the dogwood flower.  And your message today is a good one.  Take what life gives you when it gives it to you.

Aug 29, 2014 06:19 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

If the inhabitants of the world all shared your attitude what a wonderful place it would be.

Aug 29, 2014 06:22 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh Norma. You are very kind. Thank you and have a great weekend.    Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 06:31 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks so much Chris Ann. I appreciate your support. Have a great weekend.   Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 06:35 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I've been truly blessed in my life and I try to pay it forward.  I was helped by others so many times just when I needed it most, most times without asking. And sometimes when I am doing something to "give back" I find I'm richly rewarded in giving as well.  An example of that is the wonderful young people I've gotten to watch become adults that were my Sunday School babies.  My life is certainly better for knowing them.

Aug 29, 2014 06:39 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Tammy. You story is great and your gift obvious. Thank you.     Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 06:57 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Sheila there is enough for everybody and I am one that loves to share.  I don't need so much stuff like I thought I did in younger years.  When I'm not using it I pass it one. It will make somebody else happy and then it's enjoyed twice. Seems like the perfect solution to me!  Enjoy your weekend!

Aug 29, 2014 09:41 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

My husband and I often marvel at how lucky and blessed we are, so it is only natural for us pay it forward as often as we can. 

Aug 29, 2014 09:42 AM
John Meussner
Mortgages in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, GA, IN, MD, MN, MT, NC, NJ, NV, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WI - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

If everyone thought this way, not many out there would be wanting.  Great mindset Sheila.

Aug 29, 2014 10:07 AM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Sheila,

Paying it forward is a blessing to both the giver and the receiver!

Aug 29, 2014 10:20 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Anaa. I hope you are feeling better. You know I agree with less as we grow. Letting someone else enjoy is the way to go. Thank you.

Hello Susan. What a nice reflection and I appreciate your sharing it. Thank you.

Hi John. I really appreciate your kindness and support. Thank you.

Hello Lisa. Indeed. It is special Thank you.

Sheila

Aug 29, 2014 10:30 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Sheila. Thank you for sharing your message this morning, I promise, I will only take what I need.

Make it a great weekend!

Aug 29, 2014 08:24 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

So sad everyone doesn't take that approach Sheila.  If they did just imagine what this world could be

Aug 29, 2014 08:28 PM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Sheila, first of all, what a beautiful flower, and second, if we follow your advice, there would be less Wall Street greed, fewer fights over land, and more peace on earth.  Thank you for a great reminder!

Aug 29, 2014 10:10 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Joe. I appreciate the support.

James, you are very kind. Thank you.

Hi Ron. Your recognitition gives me pause and joy. Thank you.

Aug 29, 2014 10:49 PM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566

I have been in free flea mode to clean out closets. I point to what I have not used and do not need. Then my pals box or bag it up to enjoy!

Sep 01, 2014 02:26 PM