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What 5 Things Are You Grateful for Today? Let's Begin the Day with Gratitude.

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Real Estate Agent

Written by:
Darleen McCullen, REALTOR®, Broker
Keller Williams Realty
Phone: 919.454.8864
Email: darleen@darleenmc.com

 

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity.... It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow. ~ Melody Beattie

Instead of complaining about how terrible the real estate market is - or how something didn't go quite the way that we wanted it to today or yesterday, or whenever - let's try something different.

What are 5 (or more!) things for which you're grateful?

I'll start: I'm thankful for:

1) Good health. This is thing that we sometimes don't appreciate until we no longer have it. It's an ongoing challenge for me to remain disciplined to exercise and eat right all the time - but my body is a Temple that must be maintained.

2) Great parents and a loving family. I am so blessed to have been born into my family. The older I get, the more I appreciate them. My parents have loved me through thick and thin. I'm sure there have been times when I've done things that they thought were absolutely nuts (like the time when I left my stable marketing job after 13 years to follow my passion of being a REALTOR®!)

They didn't criticize - but instead have remained supportive of me and any goal I've pursued. My parents have always said, "You can do anything you put your mind to. Believe that you can, and you can!"

3) Being surrounded by wonderful friends. I have also been so blessed to have what I believe are some of the best friends on the planet. Friends who would go to the ends of the Earth to be there for me. These are people I can any time of the day or night -and they would come running to my aid if I needed them. My parents once told me that sometimes in life, if we have one or two true friends, we should consider ourselves truly blessed.

4) A career that I love.  (At least most days).LOL. Real estate has its "moments" like any other career, I suppose. But I can honestly say that I JUMP out of bed to get to work in my business each and every day. I have to force myself to take a break. (Now, that's love!)

5) I am thankful for beautiful surroundings. If I wasn't a real estate broker, my next career would probably be as a public relations professional for the State of North Carolina. I just love my state! We have an incredible number of days when the sun is shining, the climate is relatively mild (with the exception of the hot, humid summers :-) - and it's just so beautiful here.

Here in the Raleigh area where I live, we're 4 hours from the Blue Ridge Mountains; only hours from several beaches including the Outer Banks; 4 hours from ; and approximately 6 hours from . In other words, we're centrally located! Who wouldn't love this beautiful state?

God has really blessed me! I could go on for days and days.

These are my 5 items for today - Please share yours!

Here's John Demartini on Gratitude

 

Darleen McCullen, REALTOR®, Broker
Keller Williams Realty
Phone: 919.454.8864
Email: darleen@darleenmc.com 
Website: http://www.darleenmc.com/

 

Disclaimer: Opinions expressed by those who are part of the ActiveRain community, including those providing comments relating to this blog, are their opinions and their alone - and do NOT reflect the opinions of Darleen McCullen and Keller Williams Realty. Darleen McCullen and Keller Williams Realty are not responsible for the accuracy (or lack thereof) or content provided by others. 

Comments(42)

Will Merritt
TampaBayLoanOfficer - Pinellas Park, FL
Tampa Bay's Most Trusted Lender
We all forgot about what truly are the important things in lfe. I am grateful for my loving wife Sarah and my beautiful baby girl Sydney she is so smart she teaches me new things daily. Please keep the positive mood. God bless you and peace be with you and your family. Will Merritt
Apr 16, 2008 07:36 AM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate
Will ~ Thank you for your well-wishes. I do what I can to remain positive. Trying to stay in a place of Gratitude definitely helps!
Apr 16, 2008 03:58 PM
Will Merritt
TampaBayLoanOfficer - Pinellas Park, FL
Tampa Bay's Most Trusted Lender
I am reading a great book The science of getting rich. This book talks about the mind set and most important in chapter 8 being grateful for the things we do have and the poeple that are in our lives but always for the things amd people that will be on our futures. Please get a copy of this great book it is tranformational.
Apr 17, 2008 03:31 AM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate
Will ~ I'll have to check out the book. Thanks for the mention.
Apr 17, 2008 04:49 AM
Will Merritt
TampaBayLoanOfficer - Pinellas Park, FL
Tampa Bay's Most Trusted Lender
Darleen let me know if you have problems finding it I think I have on my laptop at home I will see but if not I can get another copy and send it to you then. God bless and peace be with you, Will Merritt
Apr 17, 2008 07:06 AM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate

Will ~ Hi. Thank you.

Apr 27, 2008 04:08 PM
Will Merritt
TampaBayLoanOfficer - Pinellas Park, FL
Tampa Bay's Most Trusted Lender
Darleen the book Science of getting Rich is written by Wallace D Wattles. I will see if I saved it on my desk top at work. Talk to you soon Will. Also I want to speak with you about another opportunity one night this week. What night is best for you Thrusday or Wednesday night?
Apr 28, 2008 01:09 AM
Kathy Torline
ERA Herman Group Real Estate - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Real Estate Blog 719-287-1049

Darlene:  Thanks for the post.  

I try to start each day to remind myself of all the things I have to be thankful for.

My list includes:  (1) my health (2) my husband for his unconditional love and support (3) my sister and my friends (4) my faith in God (5) Living in the state of Colorado which continues to inspire me.

Apr 28, 2008 01:14 AM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate

Will ~ Hi. I sent you a private email.

Kathy ~ Colorado is beautiful - and I can see why you're inspired. I've only visited one but would love to return.

Apr 28, 2008 04:35 AM
Joseph Ayscue
Examiner Home Inspections, LLC - Burlington, NC
 I AM THANKFUL FOR GOD!  WITHOUT HIM, NOTHING IS POSSIBLE!
Apr 28, 2008 08:03 AM
Joseph Ayscue
Examiner Home Inspections, LLC - Burlington, NC
 I AM THANKFUL FOR GOD!  WITHOUT HIM, NOTHING IS POSSIBLE!
Apr 28, 2008 08:03 AM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate
Joseph ~ Exactly.
Apr 28, 2008 01:32 PM
Patty Ledford
RE/MAX Town and Country - Blue Ridge, GA
Your N. Ga. Mountain Agent -The Ledford Team-Blue
Darleen-I 'm always thankful for having a "new day", for my wonderful husband, family and friends, to be able to live and work in beautiful Blue Ridge Ga, and I'm so very thankful for this glorious relationship that I can have with our God!   
May 05, 2008 03:31 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel
Great post. I always think of things I should be thankful for when I feel like complaining about something.
May 05, 2008 11:07 PM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate

Patty ~ I am with you there! Each new day brings with it a new opportunity.

Gita ~ Great point. Today was "one of those days" for me - However, I must always remain in a place of Gratitude.

May 06, 2008 01:03 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

I am grateful for life - God - family - health - career and many more things -- way too many to count.

Jul 08, 2008 01:10 PM
Linda Jandura
Raleigh Cary Realty - Apex, NC
Realtor, North Carolina Buyer & Seller Specialist

Darleen, I'm thankful for another realtor in our area who's into The Secret!

Today, after surviving a Step Aerobic class yesterday, I'm grateful to feel those muscles I have never used!

Jul 09, 2008 01:52 AM
Michele Kurelich
Triangle Home Staging & Design/Lasting Impressions - Raleigh, NC
Raleigh Home Staging and Design

Darleen, Narrowing it down to 5 is hard, but here goes:  I am thankful to (1) God who watches over my (2) family and provides us our (3)  health and (4) happiness and leads us to make the right decisions with what (5) life ups & downs bring our way!

Jul 10, 2008 02:08 PM
Darleen McCullen
Raleigh, NC
Broker - Raleigh, NC Real Estate

Norma ~ Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Yes, we all have so many blessings - too many to count.

Linda ~ I'm definitely into The Law of Attraction! Aerobics classes are quite challenging, to say the least! Great - you survived!

Michele ~ It is difficult to narrow it down to 5, most definitely!

Jul 13, 2008 12:27 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Just re-read the blog ---- I am so grateful for LIFE!

Nov 11, 2011 10:54 PM