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Life is Better with Cheers & Chuckles!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Cheers & Chuckles

I spent the last week visiting my BFF in Colorado preparing a Memorial Service for a dear friend.  Losing a loved one is never easy.  Although, even in the midst of pain and sorrow, there's always room for cheers and chuckles.

My best friend and I shopped till we dropped, ate all the bread and goodies we wanted, and stayed up late laughing our pants off watching old SNL videos of Will Ferrell and his Spartan Cheerleading Squad (of two).  For a simple moment, our lives stood still, and we became two teenagers again without a care in the world.

There's seriously nothing better than true friendship.  Our's is one that has endured many trials and withstood the test of time... some 38+ years.  Life is so much better when filled with cheers and chuckles.  Luv you Terrie!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Posted by

Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

 541-659-1620

 TheOregonDream.com

 

 

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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mel,

Ron and I live to make each other laugh and laugh on a daily basis.  How is that for a fun goal!  We just spent the weekend laughing with great friends, it was so refreshing and restful.  A

Oct 06, 2014 05:39 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Mel, Those kind of friendships are priceless. I have one from NY that has been in my life for 48 yrs. Glad you had a grand time. Life is about love and relationships.

Oct 06, 2014 06:08 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Mel, I have a friend like that. We have know each other since kindergarten. She has always been there for me.

Oct 06, 2014 06:32 AM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

How fun!  At least we had pretty decent weather here last week other than some very chilly nights!

Oct 06, 2014 06:35 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Mel, you're very fortunate to have a friend like that! Maybe it's just me, but I do believe it's tougher for guys to have close friendships like that. Treasure it!

Oct 06, 2014 07:13 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Spending time with best friends is the best.  Sorry it was under sad circumstances, but glad you got to spend the time together.

Oct 06, 2014 07:18 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Maybe 3 times a year I visit with my 4 best friends from high school.  We always have a wonderful time.  Talking, laughing, and a little wine...late into the night.  I look forward to it.  This reminds me....we are due for a visit!

Oct 06, 2014 09:04 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Awwww this is great Melinda!  Sad times for sure...but you two BFF's made time for having some fun.  Love those old SNL skits....too fun!

Oct 06, 2014 09:56 AM
Steve James
Standard Real Estate Marketing - Richmond, BC
Online Marketing for the Real Estate industry

These moments can be the most unexpected. Have more fun, people, like this Okotoks Realtor does with her site.

Oct 06, 2014 09:58 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

     The Bible says that "laughter doeth good like medicine".  Even at a sad time, you had the chance to reunite with a friend, and love and laugh and enjoy yourselves.

   RIP and farewell to your Friend, and my condolences to the family and friends. 

Oct 06, 2014 11:57 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Don't you love Colorado in Autumn? It is an unfortunate fact of life that some of our best memories are made in the wake of the death of a loved one. Glad you were able to share.

Oct 06, 2014 02:15 PM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Keep on cheering, those kind of memories never go away and become even more special with time.

Oct 06, 2014 09:06 PM
Dale Bledsoe
Crown Key Realty - Tracy, CA
Realtor in Tracy, California

Excellent post. The thought that for even a few minutes that you can in fact turn the clock back is inspirational and thought provoking. Sorry for the sorrow, but you two handled it very well.

Oct 07, 2014 03:25 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Mel~ I have a BFF like that. We've been friends for about 8 or so years, but nobody gets us like we get us. We LOL all the time when we are together. We're planning a girl's weekend later this month and we just can't wait!

Oct 07, 2014 12:00 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Mel, checking in is always thought provoking with you...just resurrected a long ago galpal friendship from 40 years ago, with my high school bestfriend when I went back to my 40th high school reunion. She picked me up at the airport and we had the BEST time!!!!!! We took off where we left off. So many great memories, past and present. Our girlfriends are the BEST. And your dear departed friend gave you two the impetus to create more cheers and chuckles...a good parting shot.

Oct 09, 2014 01:21 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Having a special friend is a gift. We all need to have experiences like you described and keep our friends close in our hearts, especially when there is a loss or hardship. I get tired of people talking about negativity and staying around positive people. Positively, something positive came out of the time you spent with your friend after the Memorial services. I get it.

I won't even tell you or anyone else what my two friends did for me after my husband's funeral services. All I can say is you are right in what you did.

Oct 19, 2014 07:01 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Laughter is such a healing gift - recently, dear friends ( you know them too) reminded us to watch something funny - often. Bring on the comedys and SNL routines.  Glad you had a healing time in Colorado - I just got back from a trip - surprise for Kelsea's birthday. 

Oct 20, 2014 03:09 AM