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THE LEARNING CURVE OF PROBLEM SOLVING

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

You know, to be consumed by your problems is not a good use of any-ones talents or skills. What people forget or don't know is that learning to navigate through problems has a learning curve to it. Complicating the procedure is our failure to find neutral, calm, flat ground to re-start the re-building process...Let's discuss this a bit

AUTOMATIC "COME TO YOUR SENSES" KICKS IN

There is life anew waiting, and it begins after the SHOCK wears off. BTW, the shock is a survival mechanism that the body uses to temporarily stabilize the person until they can reach objectivity and come back to their senses. If you do nothing correctly during this period, recovery presents itself no problem. How remarkable the human being really is.

SINKING IN YOUR THINKING

I am not alone in telling you that I have been in situations where you wonder how it will all turn out. You think it is game over for sure. But, the first clue skips past most people....it is your thinking that not only stands in the way or your recovery, but it got you into this mess to begin with. The mind, emotions and five senses were not designed to rule, only assist and support. 
                                                                 DON'T FEED THE PROBLEM...STARVE IT!
 
Resist the temptation to fixate on your circumstances because it just feeds the problem and keeps you blinded and in the dark with worry. Seek objectivity, a neutral ground also known as your center and that is where the fresh start and you will meet up. The circumstances will pull heavily on you but, don't give in to them.
 
                                                                       LET THE ANSWER PRESENT ITSELF
 
In time, all will pass and you will be shown what to do. My fellow sojourners, you are not the first to travel this way, nor the last..take heart, have courage, and learn to believe without seeing simply called faith...Let it do the work. It is wise to sometimes willingly take time out....and just look around and become aware. It is as simple as that. No more and no less
 
                                                                                             LIFE BRAKES
 
Some people get so caught up in the DOING and HAVING...that they neglect the BEING...which is the self.  When you look to your left or right and see that the other guy is caught up in it too it sobers you quickly. Perhaps that is why the Universe applies "life brakes" (problems, reflections, and pauses) in a persons life so that they can garner the value of life instead of the perfunctory doing of it..Get off automatic and start guiding your own ship and its direction
 
                                                                                     OKAY...WE GOT ONE (problem)
 
Next time a problem presents itself...Fasten your seat belt and ready yourself to take command. You will find out what you already know...This too will pass and you will help it do so...travel well and deep...I'll see you on the way
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I come from a long line of anxiety ridden people. I've done well dealing without meds....that's something. I understand the process of surviving panic and stress, and I understand what a huge waste of time it is.  Practice will make perfect, I pray!

Nov 10, 2014 05:04 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello Sharon...you have an awareness and you also found your way here...Your journey is underway...travel well and know that it can be yours if you want it

Nov 10, 2014 05:52 AM
Joy Daniels
Joy Daniels Real Estate Group, Ltd. - Harrisburg, PA

Good morning Richie,

Having been in real estate for a long time, I have dealt with all kinds of people.  I try to remember when I am dealing with "drama" type people not to indulge them.  :)  Have a great week!

Nov 10, 2014 11:10 PM