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Who sets the tone?

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Services for Real Estate Pros with ActiveRain

I probably call 10 members a day (give or take) every day. I do it for a variety of reasons. Some of the time it's because I have read something particularly moving they have written and I want to say thanks. Sometimes it is because I see something they are doing in their blog they could be doing better and I want to offer advice. Sometimes it's because I am lonely and I need someone to talk to (haha, that last one was a joke, not to make light of the plight of the lonely, but this job doesn't really make that an option).

Almost every time I get ready to pick up the phone, I am faced with a decision. Call them at the office or on their cell phone. If it's someone I have spoke with prior, I will generally go straight to the cell phone. If it's the first time I am calling someone, I usually use the office phone first. So on a daily basis I am greeted by the person that answers the phone at your office a couple of times. 

My interaction with them sets the tone for my interaction with you.

 On occasion, the person answering the phone in your office is bright and cheery. I can't help but take the same tone. They leave me with that warm and fuzzy feeling. I like that feeling. I'll venture a guess that your clients would like that feeling too. When we start our conversation, most often without even realizing it, I feel good about talking to you. I become more engaged in our conversation. I want to talk to you.

You all know the flip side...........

Every so often I get that person that answers the phone and their attitude stinks. It isn't what they say of course, it's how they say it. I'll bet they are busy. I'll bet there is another call coming in right behind mine. I'll bet they got up on the wrong side of the bed. Well guess what.......if I'm your client, I don't care!!

"Thank you for calling XYZ Realty, can you please hold?"

"I ha...click (....ve no problem holding")  (cue elevator music or canned marketing message)

Really? Not even four seconds to confirm that I will in fact hold and that I'm not his son with an emergency?

 That's the example I had just ten minutes ago. But I come across different variations of that A LOT. The person's tone when returning to the line was no more friendly, simple concerned with getting me out of their hair. It doesn't leave me in the best frame of mind to start our conversation. I deal with it way more than your clients do, I would imagine. Because of that, I can rebound A-OK and we can still have a great conversation. But can your client? Does that first abrupt voice leave them uneasy and chagrined?

More often, I get somewhere in the middle. But wouldn't you rather I get passed to you with that infectious warmth and cheer? 

Agents......who is setting the tone for your initial conversations with your client? Are they setting you up for a great interaction? Brokers.......does the person answering at your office even consider how I feel once I'm passed on? Should it be their job to care? 

I say yes. That person answering your phone is your clients first interaction with you. It sets the tone. Hang out of sight today and see what that tone is...... 

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Bob Stewart
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Jackie - computer-training-atlanta.com
770.498.7333 - Atlanta, GA
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Bob - this is an apropos post. The front line person can make or break your business. When I come across someone who is exceptional, I try to let the "higher ups" know.
Apr 05, 2008 10:17 AM
Jackie - computer-training-atlanta.com
770.498.7333 - Atlanta, GA
Learn to leverage technology to get more done.
Bob - this is an apropos post. The front line person can make or break your business. When I come across someone who is exceptional, I try to let the "higher ups" know.
Apr 05, 2008 10:19 AM
Jessica Horton Jessica Horton Realty
Jessica Horton - Jessica Horton & Associates - Griffin, GA
Jessica Horton: I'm not #1... You Are!


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Apr 05, 2008 10:21 AM
Bill Herold CRS, GRI,"Your Man on Lake Chatuge"in GA
Charlotte Ledford Realty - Hiawassee, GA

Bob,

 After reading this post yesterday, spent this day concentrating on answering both office & cell phones with a smile and courteouse reply.  It is so easy to forget to take time to do this in the high speed world we live & work in that is very easy to give and create a wrong impression which might be the last one we get from a particular caller.

Thanks again for the wake up call.  Back to practice & back to basics!

Apr 05, 2008 11:43 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Bob,

We are fortunate to have two great ladies at our office that do an excellent job with the phones. I know, because I often call to get connected to another agent in the office, or to have one of them look in a file for something. They are pleasant and professional.

As to the comment made about answering a cell phone. I never answer when I am with a client, in a meeting, or at lunch. I want to be able to give the caller my full attention, so I return calls when I am not distracted or busy.

Also, if you just up and called and said you were from ActiveRain, my first thought would be ... "I knew I had to pay at some point, AR is way too cool to be free!" Cheers

 

Apr 05, 2008 02:03 PM
Marlene Scheffer
Realty Station - Bremerton, WA
Realtor to Kitsap County, WA
Not a problem!  We are such a small office that we don't have a receptionist.  We answer the phones ourselves when we are in the office, and we routinely give out our cell phones rather than our office phone.  At least for now, and I actually really like it this way. :)
Apr 05, 2008 05:42 PM
Alex Inskeep
HomeSmart International - Chandler, AZ
ABR, REOS - Bilingual
good reminder to fire the girl at the front desk :)  Being silly of course...
Apr 05, 2008 06:00 PM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic
Very timely post. It all comes down to attitude. The "front" desk is our first line of defense. It can make or break a deal.
Apr 06, 2008 03:30 AM
Fran White
North Kansas City Real Estate, Reece and Nichols Residential - Kansas City North, MO
Kansas City North Real Estate, 816-682-3897

We have a REMARKABLE woman on our front desk.  Anyone who calls gets the red carpet treatment.

I'm glad you wrote this because there are so many times that people do not understand the IMPORTANCE of the front desk!

It's the most important thing in ANY company, large or small.

But for you Bob, just call me on my cell like you always do. :)

Apr 06, 2008 10:14 AM
Lisa Friedman
Alliance Realtors - Bedminster, NJ
Central New Jersey Real Estate
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Being friendly and cheerful goes such a long way in sales. I would fire anyone with a bad attitude.
Apr 06, 2008 11:06 AM
Esko Kiuru
Bethesda, MD

Bob,

What a crucial point. A call to the office, mortgage, real estate, any of them in the industry, is just a simple call but can have a huge impact on the caller, usually the consumer. It's a small and often overlooked thing among a bunch of big things, but it really should be getting much more attention.

Apr 06, 2008 11:09 AM
Natalie Langford
Realty Negotiations - Winchester, VA
Winchester, VA Real Estate
I have so many posts to write which I am overdue on due to not having access to my computer (damn that Disney pirates online), but now I am seriously going to have to come up with one that moves you...And if you ever call my office and get any b.s., I will gladly go straight there, put it on speaker phone, and give that person hell!  Ha!  (secretly hoping if he calls he'll get that warm and fuzzy reception)
Apr 06, 2008 02:20 PM
Robert Hammerstein -
Christie's International Real Estate - Hillsdale, NJ
Bergen County NJ Real Estate
Bob -  I always prefer to have my cell phone called first. I know that I'll be the only one to answer it. And I'm always pleasant and as accommodating as I can be. First impressions are the most important in this business. That's my two cents from another Bob H.
Apr 08, 2008 04:43 AM
Ron Tarvin
Residential, Investment properties, rehab projects, property management, luxury homes, new construction! - Katy, TX
Broker, Katy, Houston, Cypress 77450,77494,77095

I agree.  This is the main reason why all my marketing is designed with MY contact number and not my office contact number.  Not that the person at the office will do a bad job but because it brings so much more uncertainty into the equation.  " Will they answer and be nice even if they are having a bad day? " "Will they make sure that the call is properly directed?"  "Will they make sure that the customer calling is given OPTIONS on how to reach me, not just my voice mail automatically?"

In our office, it's not hard to remember that we own our OWN businesses.  In other offices, the fact that you are a contractor and hence are the REAL business owner is harder to keep at the forefront of your mind and so I think some don't think like that, but it is a critical area that can KILL your business if you do not think FOR your OWN business.

Apr 09, 2008 12:05 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional
Bob - Thank you for this post. I was once the 1st point of contact in a real estate office prior to going into sales. You are so right about how the agents and the company in general is perceived by the voice on the phone. Most of our clients would remember my name and greet me when they came into the office as if they were my friends due to a good initial contact.
Apr 09, 2008 12:39 AM
Lisa Lambert
The Law Offices of Elisabeth A. Lambert - Fresno, CA
Esq. 1031 Exchange Expert

Bob:

This is an excellent post.

One of my biggest pet peeves with ANY type of business let alone the highly competitive real estate business is poor front line performance.

In my continuing ed seminars for realtors, as part of adding value, I discuss marketing and how to brand one's self and their office. You'd be amazed at how many people are surprised by this conversation.

I hope to get a phone call from you because I've written something that you think has added value to the AR community. I'd also be open to suggestions on additional comment. 

May 04, 2008 03:02 PM
Steve Homer
The HBH Group (Keller Williams affiliate) - Round Rock, TX

Bob:

It is hard sometimes to keep our priorities straight in this business.  Thanks for an excellent reminder that customer service is everyone's full time job in a business - every employee; at every level...  Call my 877-268-1877 number today and see what kind of response you get and let me know.  Thanks for spying for me!  ;-)  Steve

May 14, 2008 02:01 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Father of Kelan...

I had to come all the way back here to see who wrote "Who Sets The Tone"...

Yeah. Yeah...I'm getting old :)

TLW...ROAR!

May 14, 2008 03:55 AM
Steve Harless
Resolution Realty - Las Vegas, NV

great article

May 14, 2008 04:41 AM
Steve Harless
Resolution Realty - Las Vegas, NV

great article

May 14, 2008 04:41 AM