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Why We Turn Away 90% Of Our Opportunities

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How to market small businesses.A few years back, I was doing business with someone who was paying a boatload of money on a monthly retainer.  There was nothing like cashing that check every single month.

Until that sneaky little gut feeling hit me.

I had no evidence that he was doing anything wrong.  At the time, he wasn't.  Just a bad, bad feeling.

So I terminated the contract.

Two years later, the guy is in some MASSIVE trouble with the law and burned a whole lot of people.

The lesson?  Trust your gut.

Know When To Say No

In the state of Connecticut alone, there are more than 750,000 businesses.  Now multiply that across every state and every country.  And that's just for B2B businesses.  Now think about the sheer volume of clients if you're B2C.

So why do we sell our soul?

It doesn't have to just be a sale of your soul when it comes to ethics.

Do you take on clients that are going to be a huge headache just to get the cash?  What about clients that you know you'll never see eye to eye with?

Or here's one for you - how about clients that you know won't be able to get out of their own way... or those that fail to recognize that they have competition?

Real Life Rejection

A couple of months ago, we met with the owners of a soon-to-open coffee shop.  They're single-source origin and have some grandiose plans for expansion, including franchising and a 501C3 that they support.  They were ready to sign a check and get the marketing party started.

The challenge?  They have a Starbucks and a Dunkin Donuts a half block away - and they don't consider this to be competition.

We thanked them and moved on.

How about a spa we worked with?  HUGE destination location ... struggling to be relevant in 2014.  They insisted that social media should be used to SELL, SELL, SELL.  We disagreed.  They also thought it was ok to swear at customers.  

We thanked them and moved on.

How To Market Your Business

What do you need to be able to succeed in marketing?  We insist that our clients be able to answer these questions.

1.  Who are you and what is your unique selling proposition?

2.  Why would someone use you over your competition?

3.  Who is your competition and why are you better than them?

Once these questions are answered, we can move on to begin developing and executing a marketing strategy for the businesses we work with.  Until they can answer them... there's only so much we can do to help.

What about you?  Can you answer these three questions - and do you have what it takes to be a part of the 10% that crush it with your marketing?

 
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Kyle Reyes is the President and Creative Director of The Silent Partner Marketing, a boutique marketing firm focused on helping businesses grow in an age of exploding technology.
 
Reyes is an acclaimed Keynote Speaker on entrepreneurship, leadership, marketing and social media.
 
The CEO is a former Producer of News and Special Projects, having worked in broadcast journalism for nearly a decade.  His team offers a marketing one-stop-shop, filling the role of a Chief Marketing Officer and support staff at a fraction of the cost of having to worry about the payroll, taxes, benefits, etc.
 
Reyes has appeared in multiple media outlets including Aol.Com, Yahoo and Bloomberg Business. 
 
You can find him on FacebookTwitter, Instagram and SnapChat (@dasilentpartner).  And he wants to connect with you on LinkedIn, so send him a request!
 
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Trusting your gut is so important in business, and in life. 

Nov 27, 2014 07:45 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

These are good points, Kyle.  We've definitely been more choiceful w/ the appts we take and the projects we take on.  The headaches aren't worth it.

Nov 27, 2014 08:02 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Greed motivates some people and they just don't have enough sense to trust their gut and say "no".  

Nov 27, 2014 08:50 PM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good morning Kyle,

Sounds like trying to make advertising that is different from other real estate agents and staying away from "pick me"; Sold Xamount of $$$$ etc.

Always play the gut as it does not go with all the what if's.

Make yorself a great day.

Nov 27, 2014 10:22 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Thanks, Kat Palmiotti - agreed!

Debbie Gartner Advil is getting too expensive.

Absolutely, Roger D. Mucci

Nov 27, 2014 10:26 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

The gut knows better than the brain, Raymond E. Camp

Nov 27, 2014 10:26 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Yes, I will refer a buyer or seller if and when I don't think they will work well with me or my brokerage. I don't need the hassle or headache and the money lost won't be missed.

Nov 28, 2014 12:23 AM
Nina Rogoff
Boston, MA
Wix Websites for Real Estate Agents

I not only like those questions to ask about ourselves, I think it wil also be useful to ask sellers, "What does your home have that the competition doesn't?" After showing them the comps, of course! It may help with those clients who need to better understand realistic market value! Thanks, Kyle!

Nov 28, 2014 12:42 AM
Alexa Sanchez
Bushkill, PA
Realtor Extraordinaire

I like these questions, we should be asking ourselves these on a regular basis. I know I will, just to keep myself in check . Great post

Nov 28, 2014 05:54 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Nicole Doty Gilbert Real Estate Expert the Advil and Vodka bills would eat into the commission :)

Thanks so much, Nina Rogoff - good points.

Alexa Sanchez thanks so much!

Nov 28, 2014 09:13 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Kyle. I learned a long time ago, never to fight my intuition and that comes for a history on letting greed getting in the way. You were smart to follow your gut.

Make it a great weekend!

Nov 28, 2014 08:36 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Joe Petrowsky glad I followed my gut and got to know you!

Nov 29, 2014 02:14 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

You can always find the devil hiding behind a set of wings.  I learned many moons ago to trust my gut... only after firing myself twice and telling a family member to go to HE... Double L ;-)

The reward for doing the right thing is often the 'feel good' sense that one gets from making another smile.

It's obvious... you're cut from a 700 thread cloth Kyle!  Smiles ;-)

Nov 29, 2014 07:05 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Kyle~ Great questions to ask and necessary to have an effective marketing plan.

Nov 30, 2014 09:16 AM