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There are Gracious Ways to Voice Displeasure

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Real Estate Agent with Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker DRE #00697006

As my husband drove me to Sacramento International airport last week to embark upon my month-long journey wandering about the South Pacific, he related a story about the macadamia nut lady and Korean Airlines. A Koren Air executive, and daughter of Koren Air Chairman, was furious because the flight attendant handed Ms. Cho an unopened package of macadamia nuts instead of serving the nuts in a bowl. Not only did she throw a hissy fit and swear at them, but she made the pilot turn the plane around so she could kick off the fired flight attendant at the gate. Inconvenienced every passenger on the plane.

This is such excessive entitlement and so completely over-the-top, that I will forever remember this story and hold it up as an example of how no dissatisfied customer in a million years would ever want to be perceived. I am not about to complain about a lack of in-room slippers or Greek yogurt when I have a fabulous view at the Moana Surfrider and a beautiful spacious room in Honolulu. It wasn't the desk clerk's fault that I was not entirely happy with my room upon check-in, and he helped me out. I could not be more grateful for the assistance. Granted, it's not the Four Seasons, but it's acceptable and quite lovely. This is a historic hotel in Honolulu. Too many people for me, but I'm only here for a few days. It's still an adventure! You can read more in my personal blog today about Culture Shock Moving from Manele Bay to Moana Surfrider.

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Elizabeth Weintraub is co-partner of Weintraub & Wallace Team of Top Producing Realtors, an author, home buying expert at The Balance, a Land Park resident, and a veteran real estate agent who specializes in older, classic homes in Land Park, Curtis Park, Midtown, Carmichael and East Sacramento, as well as tract homes in Elk Grove, Natomas, Roseville and Lincoln. Call Elizabeth Weintraub at 916.233.6759. Put our combined 80 years of real estate experience to work for you. Broker-Associate at RE/MAX Gold. DRE License # 00697006.

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Comments(10)

Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Elizabeth,

glad you are doing great in Honolulu:)

How is the weather there?

It is a crazy story about nuts and a nutty person:)

Dec 16, 2014 02:37 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Elizabeth, I have never been one who feels entitled to anything. When things do go wrong, I try not to impose on the workers who are trying to help, but do try to find out who was the responsible party to let them know of my dissatisfaction.

Dec 16, 2014 02:37 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Have a wonderful vacation.  And isn't the majority of the world over entitled these days?

Dec 16, 2014 10:52 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

It seems the globe has an epidemic of those who feel excessive entitlement.  I hope the board of directors at Korean Air does a little cleaning house on their executives, which will allow Ms. Cho to experience  a little attitude adjustment! Funny thing about Honolulu.  It's one of my favorite places.  But, I also like going there when I have energy.  If I need to totally chill and regroup, I head for the outer islands.

Dec 16, 2014 11:14 AM
Ranee Bray
TCP Real Estate - Cedar Park, TX
North of Austin Homes

Have a great vacation.  What a fantastic way to spend the holidays. 

Dec 16, 2014 11:49 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Hi Inna: Honolulu is OK, not complaining, but I'm really looking forward to Australia.

Hi Troy: I find it helps to think of something pleasant and cheerful before voicing a complaint. And always have a remedy at hand, is my secret.

Hi Tammy: Yes, I have noticed that, and it's a disturbing trend. I was feeling guilty for asking the hotel to change my room but it's all my fault actually -- it's like trying a new computer that is faster and better, suddenly yours is the pitts.

Dec 16, 2014 11:49 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

You and my mother are polar opposites.  Her sole purpose at this point is to be irritated and let everyone know about it.  It is embarrassing to be anywhere in public with her.  She would totally turn a plane around and let everyone suffer if she was unhappy...though her hot button is limp bacon.

Dec 16, 2014 12:20 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

I agree with Tammy Lankford . I do think most of the world feels entitled these days.

Dec 16, 2014 01:47 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Elizabeth I'm so glad you're enjoying the trip.  For those people sooner or later they will get theirs.  

Dec 16, 2014 07:27 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Elizabeth.  Isn't it wonderful the way we are herded in and out of places.  Just mooooooooving along as you say.

Dec 17, 2014 04:43 AM