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The Ying and Yang of Business

By
Home Inspector with Complete Home Inspections, Inc. TN Lic#050

     I believe that we can all agree that as business owners we all have three things in common:
          1) We are in the marketing business. This is what keeps the pipeline full.
          2) We are in the sales business. This is what keeps food on the table.
          3) We are all in the people business. It is our personal relationships with others that make people like us and want to do business with us.
     That being said, most business owners are great technicians. IMHO, this is the Yang or masculine, left-brained side of the business. Technicians are good at what they do. They make sure all the "I's" are dotted and every "T" is crossed. In other words, they possess great technical knowledge, they understand the system and they control the know-how. They exude an air of confidence. All great masculine traits. However, the technical side of the business is only 50% of the of the equation. It is the personal relationship or Yang side that many technicians struggle with. It is this part that balances the equation. It is this side of the business that makes a huge difference as to whether a business will survive or fail.
     Statistics have shown that the vast majority of real estate agents are "amiable" or people people. They relish in the Ying or right-brained side of business. They often employ the "healing touch" aspect. They are creative, playful, spiritual and intuitive. These qualities allow them to be very effective at engaging the "touchy feely" or administering a nurturing treatment. This also makes them vulnerable as some folks tend to want to take advantage of them.
     So where is the balance? I found mine when I began to surround myself with folks who had a similar vision and employed my opposite (Yang) side. In doing so, I now have a balance, both Ying and Yang. There are many out there who do not or are not in a position where they can have or hire other people on their team. In this case, talk with a trusted adviser, spouse or significant other. They are often your opposite. Hopefully, the two mindsets will blend and create the perfect balance for your business.

The Complete Home Inspections Team

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Complete Home Inspections, Brentwood TN 615.661.0297
 

Comments(19)

Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

If 2 people constantly think the same, one is expendable! You are right Michael, seek balance! Enjoy our day!

Dec 17, 2014 07:14 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Michael. I have surrounded myself with very diverse and different human being, as a result that add so much to my life and hopefully I do the same to them.

Dec 17, 2014 07:20 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Michael.  Isn't synergy a wonderful concept when it works?

Dec 17, 2014 07:26 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Some never find that balance and keep flailing along in spite of themselves.

Dec 17, 2014 07:59 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

So that's why the wife and I agree to disagree.  Not true we agree on most things but not always.  It's a great combination.

Dec 17, 2014 07:59 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning Michael Thornton it always wise to have a good balance within a team.... I have that and they each have their worth.... but as a group, it's powerful....

Dec 17, 2014 08:12 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Balance must be done with all around us, Michael.  It is so important to recognize it in all of us.

Dec 17, 2014 08:42 PM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Michael, you hit on what makes for success--balance. It's a beautiful thing when it all comes together.

Dec 17, 2014 09:04 PM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Good morning Michael Thornton .  It's true we have to have balance in all things of life including our business.  Without life can get too crazy.  I know 2014 was one of those crazy unbalanced years.

Dec 17, 2014 09:18 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Balance is so important - and remembering in Karma. What goes round eventually comes back around.

Dec 17, 2014 09:28 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Michael,

Love your post! A wise business owner will want to create a balance. I agree totally with Barbara Todaro comment "it's always wise to have a good balance within a team.... I have that and they each have their worth.... but as a group, it's powerful...."

Dec 17, 2014 09:38 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

My hubby and I  balance each other out quite nicely, although sometimes I wish he were more type A LOL!

Dec 17, 2014 10:59 PM
Pete Xavier
Investments to Luxury - Pacific Palisades, CA
Outstanding Agent Referrals-Nationwide

The different professionals in a partnership or team make all the difference in the resulting strength.

Dec 17, 2014 11:50 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Michael Thornton - I have a great balance with my husband and I. I am the more creative and personable of the two of us and he is the better marketer and "business" mind of us. It works very well 

Dec 18, 2014 12:40 AM
Fred Hernden, CMI
Superior Home Inspections - Greater Albuquerque Area - Albuquerque, NM
Albuquerque area Master Inspector

I like the people side the most. There is nothing better than seeing the smile on a clients face after my walk around with them or getting back remarks like "WOW" or "Thank you" or getting a new client that has been referred by a past client or agent I have worked with before. It is very gratifying!!

Dec 18, 2014 01:02 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Michael even in marriage there needs to be a balance, so it only makes sense that a balance exist in business as well.

Dec 18, 2014 06:31 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Putting together a great team to me is the secret of being a truly successful business person. 

Dec 18, 2014 06:57 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

I could listen to you or read your posts for hours! I would call you 2014 most fascinating People on AR. You truly are more balanced than many people I've known in my life time!

Dec 18, 2014 11:12 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

The very idea behind the Ying and Yang thing is balance.  That is something you learn a lot of in self defense classes.

Dec 18, 2014 09:15 PM