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A Rough Night

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A Rough Night

As many of you know Geno surprised me with a trip to get away to celebrate 2014! I had no idea where we were going other than it was going to be cold. It turned out we had reservations at the Chatwal on 44th street in NY City (right around the corner from Times Square). What a treat!! I’d highly recommend this boutique Hotel for its charm, friendly and warm staff and location.

He secured excellent tickets for Wicked at the Gershwin Theater on W. 51st street. His dinner choice was a home run at IL Gattopardo on W. 54th street. Following the steps down to this charming restaurant we found it to be intimate, the food delicious and the service excellent.

After a day of checking out Central Park and the Ground Zero 911 memorial we enjoyed a delightful dinner in Tribeca. We were anxious to check out Mr. Chows newest (opened in 2006) and hippest location on 121 Hudson St. The upscale Chinese food was mouth-watering delectable! The black and white lacquered look complimented by dazzling original art works by Julian Schnabel and Andy Warhol created a pop, sophisticated, hipster environment. The food was fantastic and the service impeccable.

The next morning we received the call all parents never want to receive….a son was taken ...his time was up.  Now we belonged to a club we never wished to join (Grieving the loss of a child). It really is true a piece of yourself is lost and your future is forever changed.

You’re probably wondering what these shoes in the back seat of our driver’s car on our way to the airport have to do with this post. We spotted these when we first got in as he was a little late picking us up. He had to stop for a car wash because the couple he chauffeured around New Year’s Eve got sick 1 block from their Hotel and the wife fled the car leaving her shoes behind! We couldn’t help but chuckle about Jeff our son who had done his share of picking up the pieces for friends as a designated driver.

Life can change in the flick of a second..be sure you make time for all that life has to offer and take time to remember even a rough night. The loss of a child is the most devastating experience a parent can face. Missing that child never goes away.

 

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George Souto
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Dorie I could not even begin to imagine the emotions I would go through if I lost one of my boys.  Hope it is something I never have to experience, and so sorry you were and your family were not spared this.

Jan 08, 2015 07:41 AM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Evening Dorie:

The trip to NYC had me dreamy. But then the sorrow set in. It will be impossible for the reader of your blog not to feel your pain.

And you are absolutely correct. We should show our loved ones our deep affection whenever we can because life can change in a blink of an eye.

Jan 08, 2015 07:51 AM
Judith Parker
ProStead Realty - Charlotte, NC
CRS, GRI, CMRS, Charlotte, NC

Good evening Dorie .. I am so very sorry.  Prayers and thoughts to you and your family.

Jan 08, 2015 09:18 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Thank you one and all....your comments help us get through another day!

Jan 08, 2015 10:18 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

I am so sorry for your loss Dorie, my prayers are with you and your family.

Jan 08, 2015 06:43 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Very touching post, Dorie. NYC is my hometown and I love hearing how people enjoy the city--I'm just sorry that your memories of this great time are now obviously colored by the sad news of your son's passing.

Jan 08, 2015 08:11 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

I'm glad you had a chance to enjoy NYC, Dorie.  And once again, so sorry for your loss.

Jan 08, 2015 08:48 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Dorie Dillard I'm in shock....I'm so sorry for your loss.... how did I miss this post... hugs from here for you ....

Jan 08, 2015 09:22 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Dorie, After reading the post and then the many comments, it struck me just how fortunate we all are being a part of something made up of the kindest and most caring people. Besides all the close friends and family, this extra support group is simply priceless. Blessings to you and yours.

Jan 08, 2015 11:49 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Dorie -- as William Johnson commented, I also read the comments and your post.  I must agree with him that AR is much more than just a social media forum to discuss real estate.  It truly is a community that cares greatly.

My thoughts are with you and your family.  

Jan 09, 2015 12:13 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Hi Dorie - sending you prayers and hugs. So, so sorry for your loss, and I cannot imagine having to endure this. And I am sure your NYC trip will be one to remember. Blessings to you.

Jan 09, 2015 12:23 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Dorie, I'm still so saddened at this news. Sending good thoughts your way.

Jan 09, 2015 10:22 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Dorie, after reading this, I just said to myself out loud, "Oh, MAN." I  love you both and how really great you are together, LOVE EVERLASTING. And that takes care of you both during heartwrenching times like these. I don't care if it's a child, or a parent, the immediate family members that you lose seem to be EXTRA TOUGH. And, no it never goes away. There are times when the crying sneaks up on you--something touches it off. Alone or with someone, it doesn't seem to matter--except the apologies if it happens and they don't know why you're crying suddenly. But, it's genuine emotion and being raw is real life. 

Time....that's all one can hope for.

 

 

Jan 09, 2015 10:26 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Dorie-You know, I'd remembered that you'd said that your very sweet and romantic Geno had surprised you with a trip.  When I read the news about Jeff on FB, I wondered about the trip.  You two are amazing and while I know that your family is grieving, I also know that your family is full of love for each other. Thinking of you.

Jan 09, 2015 12:25 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 Good morning Dorie. You're so right that life can change so quickly. It said that your trip to New York was cut short by this tragic news of your son.

Jan 09, 2015 05:53 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning all:

I've been reading through all these comments and William Johnson and Michael Jacobs you are both so right. I am so fortunate to be a part of Active Rain because it is made up of the kindest and most caring people. Besides all our close friends and family, this extra support group is simply priceless. is much more than just a social media forum to discuss real estate.  It truly is a community that cares greatly. Thank you all for your support, prayers and care for us as we go through through this healing process.

Jan 09, 2015 09:36 PM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Dorie,

 I am so sorry...I cannot imagine your loss or pain. You are right life can change in a second! I will pray for you and your family as you go through the grieving process! Dorie Dillard I am truly sorry my heart is heavy for you!

Jan 10, 2015 05:11 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi Yolanda: Thank you very much..I appreciate you.

Jan 11, 2015 09:58 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Dorie ... VB is so sad and what a touching post, I hope you don't mind if I feature your post to the group:

EXPRESS WITH VIDEOS AT ACTIVERAIN

Jan 13, 2015 10:26 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi VB: Thank you so much!!

Jan 13, 2015 09:25 PM