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I am Frustrated My Husband will not Open up to Feng Shui!

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I am Frustrated My Husband will not Open up to Feng Shui! ....Take a Breath

 

Email:

My husband is not open to Feng Shui. I have made changes, noticed a lot of great energy coming into our home but my husband is not participating with the changes. I am Frustrated my husband will not open up to Feng Shui!

K from Vermont

 

Response:

Feng Shui is teaching us patience (self awareness) with the process of life and it is never encouraged to push change onto another or even force it onto yourself. When that action is done, the opposite will come to the forefront. This is extremely important to take note of for is a base principle in the practice of Feng Shui. During the process we are taught to be present with what we can change in that given moment and take it day by day.

It’s important to keep in mind, just because you change the decor of your home and business does not always mean things will shift automatically. Yet for some, sometimes it does and that depends on the inner work they have been doing prior or simultaneously. You are working with your inner alchemy, emotions, mental energy and spiritual energy. Feng Shui is assisted healing to help you along your journey. There could be other steps, other people or other transformations (within yourself and/or others) that may need to happen before you can reach the intended goal(s). Its about being present with your journey. This is very important to understand and be open to.

Just take a Breath and keep moving forward.

Blessings, Laura Cerrano

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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 

 

Comments(14)

Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

We cannot force our own beliefs on anyone else; everyone needs to find their own path in their own timeframe -- frustrating though that might be!

Jan 24, 2015 08:04 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Most of the time I find one party of the relationship is more attune to Feng Shui until the other lives in a house the incorporates the idea. I find it doesn't take long for the spouse to be enlightened Laura Cerrano 

Jan 24, 2015 08:17 AM
Rob Thomas
Prestige Homes of The Tri Cities, Inc. CALL....423-341-6954 - Bristol, TN
Bristol TN-VA & Tri Cities Agent, ABR, GRI, e-Pro

Laura Cerrano ....it's all about being open minded to different things ...I learned this a long time ago! It can be a really good thing if you open up to it ....

Have a great weekend!

Jan 24, 2015 08:17 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I am always open to things in the universe. My Donald, thankfully, is pretty open as well.

Jan 24, 2015 09:13 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Laura,  Attempting for force anything is never a good solution and likely won't produce the outcome we want.  Breathe and move forward is all one can do. When hubby is ready he will open.

Jan 24, 2015 10:35 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

I think as the environment changes, hubbie may change too!  I liked your answer.

Jan 24, 2015 11:19 AM
Trumps Elite
Keller Williams Realty Acadiana - Lafayette, LA
Realtors/Career Consultant

I think everyone has the rights to thir own beliefs, so I think he has the right not to be open to it. But, sometimes, when we allow others time to discover things in their own way and without itt being forced upon them, they are more receptive. So, maybe that could happen with hubbie! Good Luck!

Jan 24, 2015 12:55 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great response Laura, often when we try to push someone, they will just push back and resist in every way.

 

Jan 24, 2015 03:30 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Laura it reminds me of Political preaching....as well as Religious preaching the harder you push the least likely people will come around to your way of thinking, Endre

Jan 24, 2015 04:12 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

There are some that are open to it; others need time. Being open is like cracking open the door and inviting someone in, but they don't have to like it; just be open and be kind. It all begins with respect. Yours was a great response to the question.

Jan 24, 2015 06:17 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Great advice Laura Cerrano I would imagine much negative energy would b e evidenced if one in the couple insisted and one was closed minded to it. Not wise. 

Jan 24, 2015 09:41 PM
Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Hey Laura:

I is tough to open a closed mind but patience and love often work given time. 

Jan 24, 2015 10:35 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

So beating your husband with a stick is not in keeping with the Feng Shui principles Laura?? 

I guess harmony can't be force upon other.

Jan 25, 2015 01:45 AM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Some folks insist on denying the reality of God even when he answers their prayers. The best advice is to open yourself to loving him fully as he is.

Jan 25, 2015 07:39 AM