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A Tribute to My Aunt, Marie Lowrey, A Survivor

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A Tribute to My Aunt, Marie Lowrey, A Survivor

 

Whenever you think you can’t, think again, and remember this story.  We lost Auntie on February 3, 2015.

 

Marie was born in the Sudetenland of Germany in the small, picturesque village of Unter Wekelsdorf, on July 13, 1929, as the youngest of four children born to Alois and Francesca.

 

Marie's school was beyond one of the surrounding mountains and access required a long daily hike or a cross-country ski back and forth over the mountain pass.

 

Her father, also my mother's father, was the mayor, fire chief and all round handyman who repaired virtually everything for everyone.  Her and my mother's mother, Francesca, was a gentle-spirited, servant-hearted blessing to all. Marie quoted her mother’s wise counsel all through her life even though she lost her to cancer at 42 when Marie was only 10 and my mother not much older. 

 

Marie then moved to live and work on the farm and fee mill business of her aunt and uncle.  Marie’s excellent schoolwork entitled her to attend business school with a small group of classmates.  However with the beginning of WWII in Germany in 1939, her difficult life became even more challenging.

 

Friends and family were killed or disabled, and property was seized by the invading forces.  The social fabric of the community was forever destroyed. 

 

At the end  of the war, many including Marie were deported to either East or West Germany with a single suitcase, and Marie was separated from her sister (my mother), their brother and father in East Germany where she was subjugated to working in a textile mill with enough food, clothing and shelter to keep her alive.  She also suffered from typhoid fever that she contracted from a drinking fountain at the mill.  She was hospitalized and put into a room to die.  But, she struggled to remain alive for three days at which time a nurse decided to begin feeding her again to make her well enough to return to work.

 

Marie decided that there must be a better life and contrived with a friend to escape somehow to West Germany.  They followed railroad tracks to avoid detection and not to get lost in the forests.  At one point they were turned back by armed Germans and told never to try to escape again.

 

The next morning, however, they were relieved to find that by doubling back and moving in the direction they had tried the first time, they had actually crossed into West Germany.  Still not out of danger and fearing a return to the East, with threat of imprisonment or death, they decided to board a train going further into West Germany.  Alone on a large train station platform in the middle of the night, they anxiously discussed the confusing train schedule options.  Suddenly, a little old man appeared out of nowhere.

 

To be continued…… and I might be able to get the voice recording of Marie telling some of this story in her own words.  Her grandson has it and promised to share it with me.

 

Best, Ron

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Ron,  I am sincerely sorry for your loss.  Part 1 of your tribute makes it obvious she was one hell of a lady!  Looking forward to the next part.  Mark

Feb 07, 2015 06:58 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Ron, this is an amazing start to your story about your Aunt Marie.  We can't even begin to imagine what it was like to go through living in the war zone of occupying, retreating, and advancing armies in Europe in the 1940's.  You Aunt Marie was a fighter and survivor to overcome so much adversity, and sorry for your loss!

Feb 07, 2015 07:30 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Ron -  that is a story of courage.  I know a few who have escaped from East Germany.  I will look for the continuation tomorrow.

Feb 07, 2015 07:56 AM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Auntie was certainly a special woman, from her sense of humor to her faith, from her devotion to her family to her community, she will be greatly missed and long remembered. 

Feb 07, 2015 07:59 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

She had a full life...people like that are always missed.

Feb 07, 2015 08:45 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Ron Marshall  So many people had tragic lives in Germany during World War II It makes me wonder how they survived such tragic conditions . How would I have lived through that ,,So glad I was born in the USA

Feb 07, 2015 08:54 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

How very cool that you have a voice recording.  I have a cassette tape of my grands from the 70s.  I wish I had some video of them.  

I'm sorry for your loss, but this is a wonderful tribute to her life that will love on forever and it's obvious that a bit of her will always be in your heart as well.

Feb 07, 2015 08:55 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

I will continue this tomorrow on Serendipity Sunday...and I want you all to hug your loved ones and tell them you love them today!

Feb 07, 2015 09:27 AM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

Ron, your story gave me chills. My grandparents were also born in the Sudetenland in the 1920s and both were relocated to East Germany with their families. They settled there ... had children, my mom met my dad and that was the beginning of me!

Feb 07, 2015 09:57 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Andrea Bedard  I knew there was something when we started subscribing to one another....wow.  That is really a coincidence.   I remember you talking about being there recently was that where you were?

Feb 07, 2015 10:04 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. How are you doing?

I think it's great that you can tell this story so soon after your loss. I can't wait to hear the rest of it. 

Feb 07, 2015 10:09 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Ron, what a great tribute to your aunt, and sure she will be missed and remembered by many.   Prayers to you and your family. 

Feb 07, 2015 10:16 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Joan Cox  You will be amazed at the story that is yet to come....thanks for the comment!

Feb 07, 2015 10:28 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Ron, love this story/tribute to your ant,  and can not wait to read more.  Sending prayers to you and your family.  Your Aunt was a survivor!

Feb 07, 2015 11:55 AM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Ron,

 I read in Suzanne McLaughlin post that you had lost your aunt my sincere and heartfelt condolences. This is an amazing story and can't wait for more! Have a good Sunday!

Feb 08, 2015 03:42 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Ron -- sorry to hear of the loss of your aunt and the struggles of her early life.  

Feb 08, 2015 04:32 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Debbie Laity One of the best things about this is that we have had this story in our family for years....some of her grandchildren just learned of it this fall.

Feb 08, 2015 07:54 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I am intrigued and of course know the outcome that she was a survivor and lived a long life and made it to the States. Don't keep us waiting too long.

Feb 08, 2015 09:59 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert Thank you for your condolences.  Auntie was quite a woman, and we will all miss her warmth and generosity.

Feb 09, 2015 02:19 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Ron, Some how I started with part 2 of your Aunt's story and missed part one until now. Fascinating story of your aunt and if you get the recording of her telling the story i know I would like to hear it. 

Feb 11, 2015 06:22 AM