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A Key Characteristic For Your Inner Circle People

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

They say in life if you find just five true friends you are blessed beyond belief. Counting them on just one hand. Doesn't sound like much but that is how rare these special gems people are in your life. I used to wonder what set them apart, and thought availability, integrity, loyalty to you, things in common, good communication, stuff like that. But the older I get I think there may be A Key Characteristic For Your Inner Circle People. Blessings

And it comes from this quote, "Never underestimate the value of someone who gets you."

This is not a subtle point, whether a business insider or a true friend, into your core somehow, they KNOW you.

It is an acceptance of course but more importantly an UNDERSTANDING YOU, as best another can in this world, is the true thing that sets them apart. Look for this. They are your on five fingers people!!

Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

True friends are one of life's sweetest blessings.  It's not easy to find even five people who truly "get" you.

Feb 10, 2015 01:10 AM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Gary,  There aren't a lot of people who GET me.  I have a funny sense of humor that not all appreciate.  My daughter is just like me.  She and I can sit and laugh over the silliest things while others look at us and shake their heads.  She is one of my five fingers people.

Feb 10, 2015 01:20 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Gary, I just reconnected with a friend that I have not seen in more than 30 years and it was like we were back then, we still had mutual admiration for each other. She is definitely one of those on one hand kind of friends!

Feb 10, 2015 01:26 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Gary, is it okay to go to my second hand? The BraPack alone (5 other women) totally "get" me--we've been a "pack" for over 30 years! And that doesn't even include my incredible sister, or any of my dear friends at Fishhawk Lake or those dear ones related to ActiveRain!!!

I LOVE this photo....gosh it was perfect. Truly. 

Feb 10, 2015 02:47 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Well Gary-I wonder which finger I am on, on your hand. Smiling

Feb 10, 2015 06:09 AM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Great blog Gary, It is really hard to find those 5 :)

Feb 10, 2015 07:31 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

This is something to think about.  If we dont' think highly about ourselves...when should anyone think good about us.

Feb 10, 2015 10:17 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

I may not have 5, but I know who my #1 is and He calls me friend -->. Jesus! 

Feb 10, 2015 11:31 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Gary, best friends, regardless of species, are just priceless.  And so is this post.

Feb 10, 2015 12:26 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Gary Woltal you don't need too many of them either!

Having 5 good friends is more than enough for you to grow professionally and personally.

Feb 10, 2015 01:23 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Gary, I love that quote: "never underestimate the value of someone who gets you." I'm lucky to be blessed by having one such person who gets me. If I were to have five? I might find it to be overwhelming. 

Feb 10, 2015 02:06 PM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

It used to be easier when we were all in our 20's.

Now, we're spread across the country, but still stay tight.

Feb 10, 2015 02:06 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

We all need to ourselves if our top five make us better each day we spend with them and so forth and so on.

Feb 10, 2015 02:07 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I had a good friend tell me that finding one true, faithful friend was a life gift

Feb 10, 2015 10:47 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

All of my inner circle have one thing in common...they have a good sense of humor. Life is full of negativity and laughing helps me deal with it. I surround myself with people who can make me laugh. 

Feb 11, 2015 12:41 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Gary, I would venture to say that most of us only need to count our best friends on one hand.

Feb 12, 2015 12:01 AM