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Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance

Good morning everyone-In our world we are often judged by a number of things especially women. We are judged by our looks, our weight, our breast size, our booty, The list goes on. All these things don't make us a good person or a bad person. It shouldn't determine whether we are worthy of the same love as someone who has better looks, is slim and trim or has a bigger cup size or a shapelier behind. It is the type of person we are inside that truly matters.  Do you think someone looks at these sculptures of Dale Chihuly's and thinks these are bad works or art. I highly doubt it. So why do we judge others.

 

 

Next time you are tempted to judge someone unfairly because of how they look,

STOP!!!!!

INSTEAD LOOK FOR THE HIDDEN BEAUTY

AS THE SAYING GOES FROM HELEN KELLER

"The best and most beautiful things in life can't be seen or even touched-they must be felt with the heart"

 

 

Posted by

Sharon Lee

Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Good Morning Sharon. I know exactly what you are saying. I have been plagued with stereotypes my whole life because of how I look. It was one of the big reasons why I went ahead with all of my tattoos. I figured I might as well give them something else to judge me about. 

Feb 12, 2015 10:42 PM
Mary Douglas
United Country Ponderosa Realty, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado - Red Feather Lakes, CO
REALTOR, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado

That's very true Sharon and it goes well beyond all the things you mentioned, too.  It's sad that we can limit ourselves and our experiences with unfounded bias and opinion.

Feb 12, 2015 11:22 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

It is a shame, Sharon. I agree that we judge people too often based on appearance. It's the inner beauty that matters and yet, we still are a society hell-bent on getting smaller noses, erasing our wrinkles, sucking fat off of our thighs, bla, bla, bla.  If more folks worked on being loving and kind and stopped competing for attention - we'd have a much nicer world. 

Feb 13, 2015 01:16 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Ed-I think flower petals and they do indeed draw your eye and you can't judge a book by it cover for sure.

Nicole-I don't have patience for people that judge me on how I look.  My self worth is not based on anybody's opinion.  Good for you. There is a saying if they are talking about you they are leaving someone else alone. There will always be small minded people that judge us on anything and everything about ourselves,. We just can't let it define us.

Mary-I totally agree. That was a short list of things we are judged on. We allow others to put limits on us when we need to set our own or better yet. SET NO LIMITS

Debb-In this attention starved generation it is even more prevalent. It would be a better world if more people were kind and loving like YOU

Feb 13, 2015 03:19 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sharon,

I laugh at all that judgment, they just don't take time to really look beyond the obvious, and really what these folks are doing is reflecting the judgment of themselves, or how they critique themselves just as unkindly as they are to things they observe.  a

Feb 13, 2015 03:48 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Alexandra-That is so true and I will remember it. Thank you

Feb 13, 2015 04:11 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I love the Helen Keller quote!  Your post goes hand in hand with mine today!

Feb 13, 2015 05:34 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Sharon-So do I and I agree our posts do parallel each other. Have a great evening

Feb 13, 2015 06:29 AM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Good evening Sharon. I do like the quote by Hellen. I also like the photos.

Feb 13, 2015 09:21 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Hi Michael-So do and glad you like them. Thank you.

Feb 13, 2015 09:30 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

I always sense inner beauty Sharon. It is a gift I have been given.

Feb 13, 2015 11:07 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

I'one of those people that looks inside first. I don't event see the outside until I see the inside. You are a wonderful person. 

Feb 13, 2015 01:49 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Gary-That's good

Debbie-Thank you and I know that you are too

Feb 13, 2015 06:46 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Sharon, one of the most beloved women in the world is Eleanor Roosevelt, no "beauty" by most shallow standards. But, she was and still is one of the most quoted and admired people there will ever be. 

So! Happy V Day--and loving YOURSELF, warts'n all,is one of the best gifts God gives us the ability to do! 

Feb 14, 2015 06:05 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

P.S. What FUN this whimsical artist has, by the way!

Feb 14, 2015 06:06 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Thank you Gayle for your kind words. When I saw these chihuly pieces this thought popped in my head. I am glad you liked them. I got more pics. Loving myself has always been a struggle but I am getting much better thanks to friends like you, Debb, Peg and many others, Hope you have a wonderful V-day

Feb 14, 2015 06:55 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

You are so awesome. This is a wonderful message you've shared. 

Jan 27, 2016 07:31 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Thank you Debbie Laity -It is a message well worth sharing. Have a super evening my friend.

Jan 27, 2016 08:00 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

I agree with everything you've written. You are truly a beautiful woman inside and out. I know that just from talking with you and because of what you have been through and done in your life. 

Oct 21, 2016 01:00 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Debbie Laity -Thank you and friends like you and others have helped me to feel more beautiful with your kindness, support and friendship.

Oct 21, 2016 08:41 PM