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How To Ask For A Raise...From Your Employees

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How to ask for a raise...from your employees.I'll never forget the first time I asked my boss for a raise.  My palms were sweating.  I was trembling a little.  I had been working hard, damnit, and I deserved a big fat raise. 

I sat down with my manager and listed all of the ways I had gone above and beyond.  I talked about what I brought to the table for the company.  I went on and on.

Finally – he cut me off.

“What exactly is it that you REALLY want to talk about today, Kyle?”

Well THAT messed up my plan.

“Well, I think I deserve a raise,” I said.

“How much of a raise do you think you deserve?”

“At least $.25 per hour,” I said.

“And how exactly is that going to help the company make more money?” he countered.

Checkmate.  The question I wasn’t prepared for.

In the end, he explained that they just couldn’t afford it at that point.  It was, after all, a small company.  McDonalds doesn’t have an endless budget, he pointed out.

And so, at the wise old age of 16, I shut up and ran to the front to stop the fries from burning.

I learned a lesson that day and it’s stuck with me ever since.  What was I, Kyle Reyes, going to bring to the table for all future companies?  How would I justify not a raise based on past performance, but rather a guarantee of future performance?

Today, I’d like to share with you some tips on how to ask for a raise – from your employees.

  1. Give them skin in the game.  Doesn’t it make sense that in the world of sales, the better someone performs…the more money they should make?  Set up a strong comp program.  It shouldn’t just be about giving them a percentage of the sale or a residual commission.  Tie in a retention bonus.  Tie in a sign-on bonus.  Tie in a referral of a referral bonus.  The more an employee benefits financially from the growth of the company, the more motivated they will be to help the company to grow. 
  1. Help them to see how the success of your company will help them succeed as well.  One of our clients had a young guy on their team who was innovative and creative.  As a result of his actions and hard work, the company was able to score a very prestigious multi-million dollar contract and some significant media exposure.  It was spectacular for the kid’s resume.  Sometimes the reminder of what success will mean for the EMPLOYEE can go a long way.
  1. Allow them to make you more money.  Enough of the bureaucratic red tape.  Enough of the whole “we can’t do that because it’s not our policy”.  If your employee wants to take a risk to grow the company by breaking the mold…and the risk is minimal to the company…give it a shot.  Want to know why so many large insurance companies didn’t even have a website that was mobile friendly until recently?  Two words: red tape.  Cut it – or let them do it for you.  Reward them for success and allow failure to be a growing opportunity…not a firing opportunity.
  1. Don’t force them to do something they don’t want to do or are not good at.  My video editors are great at editing video.  My writers are great at writing.  My social media guys are great at social media.  Would I have any of them handle the web development?  Hell no.  Why not?  Because not only would they not want to do it…they’d stink at it – and most likely because they don’t have a passion for it.  I’m sick of hearing people say “double down on your weaknesses”.  No.  Quadruple down on your strengths.  Let your employees follow their passion and their productivity will soar.
  1. Cut out the cancer.  I once worked with a woman who did nothing but whine and complain.  The management team couldn’t make her happy.  Her teammates couldn’t make her happy.  Why not?  Because she was just a miserable person.  You know what came out of it?  Her misery spread.  Her complaining was contagious.  She couldn’t be appeased and she was crushing morale.  The owner decided to cut out the cancer.  They fired her without remorse.  Guess what happened?  The productivity for the rest of the staff grew tremendously.

Sometimes the whole “asking for a raise” thing goes both ways.  Just make sure that when you do it, your goal is to grow the company…AND your team. 

Coming up in the next blog…Meerkat vs. Periscope.  What’s hot…what’s not…and are those of us who gave up LIVE television for Netflix and DVR’s somewhat…ironic…for using them?  

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Kyle Reyes is the President and Creative Director of The Silent Partner Marketing, a boutique marketing firm focused on helping businesses grow in an age of exploding technology.
 
Reyes is an acclaimed Keynote Speaker on entrepreneurship, leadership, marketing and social media.
 
The CEO is a former Producer of News and Special Projects, having worked in broadcast journalism for nearly a decade.  His team offers a marketing one-stop-shop, filling the role of a Chief Marketing Officer and support staff at a fraction of the cost of having to worry about the payroll, taxes, benefits, etc.
 
Reyes has appeared in multiple media outlets including Aol.Com, Yahoo and Bloomberg Business. 
 
You can find him on FacebookTwitter, Instagram and SnapChat (@dasilentpartner).  And he wants to connect with you on LinkedIn, so send him a request!
 
Shuchi Agrawal
Kanam Realty Group/Kanam Commercial - Flower Mound, TX
Serving Dallas / Ft. Worth

Great blog.  Thanks for sharing this - these are great tips for asking for a raise.  In asking for one, if you show the employer the benefit of giving you extra money, they're more likely to grant you one, than if you just whine and complain.

Apr 08, 2015 10:52 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

You bring up some very good points in the employment relationship Kyle Reyes .

Apr 08, 2015 11:20 PM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good morning Kyle,

Too many looking for the easy way out and don't think how much one mistake may cost the company. 

I always told my employees there are two sides to every equation and if you do ot like mine you may buy my company from me and make the changes you want.

Make yourself a great day.

Apr 09, 2015 12:45 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Kyle - this is so important.  You have written a perfect article on employee engagement.  It is all about what's in it for me.

Apr 09, 2015 12:48 AM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

Kyle, As I started reading this I thought you were promoting an MLM.

But I guess marketing is the same across all industries.

I like your quadrupling on your strengths rather than worrying about your weaknesses.

Bill Roberts

Apr 09, 2015 01:30 AM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

I like the idea of retention bonuses. Agents leap from brokerage to brokerage depending on who will give them the biggest commission splits but offering them a "loyalty" or "retention" bonus every year for just simply staying with the company is a great thought. 

Apr 09, 2015 02:13 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kyle, funny selling real estate we never really get a "raise", but the home values are sure increasing. 

Apr 09, 2015 09:43 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

I like that you point out salaries and benefits are a 2-way street, Kyle Reyes ... and they must flow both ways.  That's overlooked way too often ...

Gene

Apr 10, 2015 04:12 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Nice story.

Of all your points, the 2 that most speak to me are to allow your people to take risks, and to know when to cut someone lose/out.

Apr 10, 2015 10:48 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Kyle. Great job with your post and a topic should get lots of attention. You have addressed some important steps that should be taken into consideration when asking for a raise.

Make it a great weekend!

Apr 10, 2015 07:52 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kyle,

I came over from Grant Schneider 's re-blog and so glad I did. This is an important topic and you made some excellent points especially the one about retention raises! A good approach..giving them some skin in game!

Apr 10, 2015 10:15 PM