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A little dose of humility

Conflict is inevitable. It can destroy and it can create. Both danger and opportunity are present in a conflict situation, but the result obtained depends on the management and resolution of the conflict. The outcome of the conflict depends on how each party responds to the negative and emotional charges of the situation, and the third party role could be critical. With skilled intervention, conflict has the potential of developing better communication, more effective solutions, and greater empathy.

How can one avoid conflict? By thinking of the other person's feelings. Take on some humility.

I sure could use some in times like these. Lord, help me to love others like you do.

Posted by Lu Kalaj on 04/11/2008 01:10 PM

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5 Comments on A little dose of humility

Most of the problems we have today are because we are too concerned with our own shoes...and lord help up us if we step on someone else's shoes...

Can't we all just get along?!

04/11/2008 01:37 PM

by Jeff Shatswell (Goldwater Mortgage)

Lu, I like that part about both danger and opportunity being present in a conflict setting. The conflict can just be a difference of opinion and doesn't need to be a real serious one. Good post and attitude.

04/11/2008 03:50 PM

by Steve Hoffacker - Real Estate Sales & Marketing Consulting and Strategies (Hoffacker Associates)

Jesus , last words to the disciples was to love others as He loves. Agape Love.

04/11/2008 06:04 PM

by Hugh Krone Sussex County NJ Century 21 Realtor (Century21BillSemmens)

I will feature this as a prayer request, Lu......

May the Lord answer your prayers to become
more like Jesus our Messiah!!

=-)

04/11/2008 08:15 PM

by Central Florida real estate - Alexander Harb PSEM®, E-Agent® (Beach and Luxury Realty Inc.)

In the heat of the moment it can be extremely difficult to exercise humility, all the more reason to consciously strive to set emotions aside when conflicts arise.

04/12/2008 08:17 PM

by Rosario Lewis, GRI ~ DDR Realty, Orange County, NY (DDR Realty)

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