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Real Estate Agent with Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area BR534744000 & BR540649000

I'm a sort of "live and let live" individual.  If it's not illegal and it's not harming me, I really don't care that much what others choose to do. 

I do anticipate that in a forum composed supposedly of professional adults, that the "norm" is going to be responsible, professional, behavior.  It's a shame, in a way, that Jonathan Washburn was compelled to write

ActiveRain Community Guidelines

to reinforce what should be obvious to any responsible, professional, adult.

Yeah, we're always going to have the cliques who shun those who aren't "in with the in crowd" and focus on public displays of backslapping and metaphorically grovelling at the feet of their most sacred VIP of the day/week/month (if the shoe fits....) - and that's fine - that sort of behavior might sway someone still mentally in grade school.

Special Interest Group

Here is a logic "flowchart" for all the SIGs (Special Interest Groups) to be found officially or unofficially on Active Rain, for their review, consideration and commentary:

Matt, Ben, James, Caleb and Jonathan make the decisions.

They decide to award points for activities they consider critical to the success of Active Rain and Localism. 

Points are awarded for more than "blogging" - and like it or not - that's the way it is.

Points from all avenues are included in one overall "bucket" for each member.

The more points a member has the more visibility a member has - not only in comparative internal Active Rain Member rankings - but most importantly, to the consumer. (The internal stuff really doesn't matter - at least from a business perspective).

Visibility to the consumer translates into additional opportunities to connect with that consumer, and to generate business and revenue as a result.  (That was a supposition on my part when I joined, and a real life after the fact observation).

Those of us here that are focused on visibility, connecting with consumers and generating revenue do not need, nor are they expected to, have a Masters in Journalism or to be able to write at that "level".

As a consumer, would I rather have a real estate transaction handled:

A. Excellently by a Broker who doesn't specialize as a budding author on the side, but is able to put an adequate string of words together to write sentences that are understood

or

B. Adequately by a Broker who specializes as a budding author on the side, and is able to put an excellent string of words together to write sentences that are understood, acclaimed, lauded, etc.

Personally, given a choice, I choose A.

And for those who would suggest:

C. Excellently by a Broker who specializes as a budding author on the side, and is able to put an excellent string of words together to write sentences that are understood, acclaimed, lauded, etc.

or

D. Adequately by a Broker who doesn't specialize as a budding author on the side, but is able to put an adequate string of words together to write sentences that are understood

I humbly suggest that while A or C is an excellent choice by any consumer for a real estate transaction, the ability to write like a budding author is irrelevant to the actual real estate transaction.

I see a significant amount of "subjectivity" here on Active Rain - "I like your blog, therefore I like you", or "I like you, therefore I like your blog". I refer back to the first paragraph:

I'm a sort of "live and let live" individual.  If it's not illegal and it's not harming me, I really don't care that much what others choose to do. 

I know we've seen some commentary recently about "what Bloggers shouldn't do in their blogs" - but we have many more comments that say "Great Post......." than we do that say "Horrible Post....."!  I suspect that most of us are in our comfort zone to praise in public, but hesitate to criticize in public.  Human nature. 

(This post is totally unrelated to Joe Zekas.  While I disliked his method of delivery, he made very specific and valid points. "And oh by the way" the EHO logo has been on my profile page since the day I joined - can you say the same?)

Why then are the folks who are so focused on the quality of Blog posts (subjectively in my opinion) so quick to criticize those that contribute (and earn points and visibility) to Active Rain and Localism?

Each time I ask this question, the silence is deafening.

So I'm going to suggest a generic answer. 

The folks that are focused solely on their perception of quality of blogs believe that Active Rain is their monarchy, and that anyone who chooses another path on Active Rain with a specific goal in mind should be shunned as a potential usurper and be treated like an outcast.

Agree?  Disagree?  Bite back your tongue?  Doesn't matter to me.  My mission has been to increase visibility to the consumer and be constructive while doing so, and thereby increase business contacts and transactions.  For the amount of time and effort invested to date in Active Rain and Localism, that goal has been surpassed by anything I could have hoped for.  The ROI is astounding!  I know others have seen similar results.  I hope more do.

IMHO we are not here to grade papers in an English class.

I am here to contribute, not criticize.  

I am here to help myself and others become more successful. 

I am here to connect with consumers and provide excellent real estate experiences in Arizona residential real estate. 

How about you?

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Comments(37)

Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty
Randy - I really enjoyed meeting you in Las Vegas and having the time to talk - not only about real estate but about chess as well!  On another note - did you hear that the boxes with the pre-registrations went astray on their way back to CRS HQ?!
Feb 17, 2007 10:20 AM
Tim Maitski
Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage - Atlanta, GA
Truth, Excellence and a Good Deal

Tony, maybe I'm missing something and not reading enough posts. Not certain what you mean:

So far - I haven't seen any of the "Usual Suspects" comment on this

Don't name names but could you tell me what problems you are referring to. 

Feb 17, 2007 11:15 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Tim,

There are some members out there who seem to delight in bashing other AR members for receiving points for activities other than Blogging.  I've seen it on a number of blog posts - and alluded to on many others.  Sometimes you'll see a string of comments which in the real world would come across as "snickers" - and I don't mean the candy bar!

It baffles me as to why the folks involved would think that any "good" would come out of that behavior - but am willing to listen - should they care to explain!  And - no - you are certainly not one of the "Usual Suspects" and I won't be naming names - unless of course someone is silly enough to send hatemail or hate-voicemail my way - then I'll just "publish" it!

Feb 17, 2007 11:26 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA

Tony- I'm not really surprised.. are you?  Not too long til the fireworks start at D-land

K

Feb 17, 2007 12:48 PM
Suzanne Marriott
Keller Williams Arizona Realty - Anthem, AZ
Associate Broker, CLHMS, e-PRO
Kaye - Not surprised in the least.  If only we could see the emails that went back and forth on this!
Feb 18, 2007 03:09 PM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Rob,

You hit the nail on the head - good job!  The behavior of the "in" crowd speaks volumes about themselves - not about others.  I don't think there is any personal likes or dislikes involved - just the issue they have with members earning points for anything other than the sacred "blog"!

Feb 18, 2007 03:18 PM
Karen Hurst
RICOASTALLIVING.COM - Warwick, RI
Rhode Island Waterfront!

Tony,

It has amazed me since the beginning (my beginning at AR:) to see all the hurt feelings, jibes, outright mean spiritedness that has transpired here and probably by the same people who tout all the "Good" ways to treat people!

However, I have also seen some amazing people write some amazing blogs. Friendships have been forged by people who would have probably never met if not for Active Rain. The Community style that is offered by Active Rain has allowed people who have never written a public sentence, the opportunity to develop themselves.

I must say, I am surprised this post wasn't featured. Must have been inadvertently missed and which is why I am here 3 days later reading it.

Anyway, Active Rain will go on and still award points for stuff. You have to admit it was a great way to get people on this site! And it's still working. Someone had a great idea!

Feb 22, 2007 10:49 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty
Karen - Sounds like you and I are on the same page here!
Feb 25, 2007 04:20 AM
Linda Davis
RE/MAX Home Team - Gales Ferry, CT
I found this from a link on your comment on Brian's post.  I'm amazed this was never featured.  With 20,000 people here, unless it is featured it is easy to miss.  I have a feeling, had it been featured, you would have gotten a ton of comments.  
Mar 24, 2007 04:57 AM
Christina Ethridge
The North Idaho Dream Team powered by SKE Realty Group - Coeur d'Alene, ID

Tony:

I've never understood who 'defines' the in crowd.  It's perception only.  Even in high school.  I must be obtuse, blind, dumb or all three.  I appear to entirely miss these things that happen.  I do have to say, I have made a comment that a blogger didn't like (here on AR) and boy was that person a BWA with a capital B.  People seem to like that persons posts too.  That person sure doesn't like to be contradicted though.  Too bad.  Instead they like to illicite sympathy (aka you have to love me) with posts about 'bad' things in their life.  BLECH. 

Mar 24, 2007 07:07 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty
Linda - I would venture to say you are correct.  Perhaps an example of the influence of the "in crowd"? :-)
Mar 24, 2007 07:45 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty
Christina - I agree to a certain extent - but behaviors are noticeable that can lead to valid conclusions!
Mar 24, 2007 07:46 AM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
I heard about the boxes and registered again.  That was so disappointing after all the work we did to sign up so many people.
Mar 24, 2007 07:51 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty
We missed the registration cutoff - couldn't do Suzannne's online as she had not attended this year - and no way to confirm Alii Tower was still available - will put on my list for the next couple of weeks.
Mar 24, 2007 07:52 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

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Jan 13, 2016 09:50 PM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

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Jan 21, 2016 11:50 PM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

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May 18, 2016 01:07 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

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Listed, Sold and Closed 100% of listings taken (dozens of them) since June 2011!

Real Estate.  It's What We Do. Best!

May 18, 2016 01:07 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Planning to sell your home in Scottsdale, Arizona?  Give us a call for a free, no obligation, consultation!  Haven Express

Listed, Sold and Closed 100% of listings taken (dozens of them) since June 2011!

Real Estate.  It's What We Do. Best!

May 18, 2016 01:07 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I'm the same way, i'm focused on my business. Yet, I love to congratulate others on their success and share my advice if i'm asked about it:) 

Oct 16, 2017 10:29 AM