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SENSE NO SENSE and NONSENSE

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

Why do these three have permission to co-exist? The simple answer is so that we can choose one and discard the others. However, what appears to be sense to one may not be sense to another. The subjective sense while allowed has to be tested and found not wanting. It will eventually lead to neutral ground or the common sense

MAKES NO SENSE

Interesting to note that when we come across someones personal sensing and we don't agree, it always takes the shape of an argument to be. Why? That is how important this little dynamic we call "sense" is. If it is working properly, it remains self-evident even to the point of not being mentioned by name. If not working, it makes itself known in an obvious way

TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE

When I see or hear someone who practices a wholesome and non-assuming way of going about their business, it remains worthwhile and memorable even adding to the pleasures of the day. It helps to bring out everyone's sense and confidence. The "it takes one to know one" is happily about and at work

NO-SENSE EXAMPLE

Where you get a large dose of "No" sense at work maybe with people who having to deal with hormones, peer pressure and lack of identity and purpose find themselves quick to go-along with anything that comes their way with sense having no place in it. Safety in numbers even if it is foolish, has its day. The herd mentality is at work until one breaks away using common sense

IT CONNECTS US

The common sense is in everyone. The problem is bringing one to the common ground so that they may see it for themselves when they are not in it. Until then, authority guidance, laws, regulations and rules keep the best order they can until one activates the personal sensors within themselves

INSIDE... NOT... OUTSIDE

Proof of ones inner common sensors at work can be found when we experience the moral compass in a person. This says that they now travel with a purpose and a direction that is not random but relevant and meaningful. The inner compass must direct and not the outer or emotional go-along influences

QUESTIONS ACTIVATE THE SYSTEM

My common sense likes to ask questions when I meet something that doesn't make sense to me. Many times I have come across something that shouldn't be yet it is and that prompts the question why (?) in me. The answer may be some new frontier of sense I know nothing about. I remain open but inquisitive

IT TAKES EFFORT TO OVERRIDE

Common sense and its inner self-guidance principals requires little or no effort to use and is self-correcting. By contrast, the opposite or non-sense requires quite a bit of maintenance, explanation and energy to help it exist. That's why many come to their senses when they are still, calm and in some cases even restrained. It is your default position or center of operation when objective

LET ME REPEAT THIS BACK TO YOU

When I come across something that looks like it doesn't make sense and I question it and the person I am talking to remains unbudgeable in their way, I repeat (with eyebrows raised) their position to them asking if I understand it correctly. In the doing of that, they get to hear themselves without an argument.

TAKES TWO TO REASON

That's how I leave some folk for that time and place. At some point, they may see the folly of their un-common sense position and hopefully adjust accordingly whenever that is. Wanting them to do it in my timing makes things worse even if I have a responsibility to act. How to do it is often the challenge.

LET'S BE REASONABLE

To find a mutual, fair and common ground (reason) until we both agree is worth the effort over arguing. This helps to nudge a persons common sense toward the common grounds if that is what it takes to find the answers. The wild card in the process is if one doesn't care holding to indifference as their answer

COMING TO YOUR SENSES

When one visits with their own "senses", it is recognized easily and immediately by others. Why? That's the common ground in us all and when we all go there willingly and conduct ourselves within in it, the world and whatever we are doing starts to make more sense....of this we can all agree