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Why must there be SO many Butt Heads?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

It's not like me to write a blog post to complain about this business.  It's probably not a good idea for me to write this one. But some days I just can't keep it all inside ANY MORE. Today is one of those days.  I've been a little under the weather. Anyone who knows me well, knows I run of out patience with misbehavior really quickly when I don't feel well.

So what is I want to complain about today?  Lack of the respect of others for how real estate agents make a living, fake registrations on my website, and people behaving in a manner that is very unprofessional.

I'll start with the lack of respect. Some 9 months ago we had someone who wasn't even committed to our Lake Sinclair want to see some property. One of my agents happily showed the couple a few homes to get a feel for the area. Gave them information and registered them on our website to continue to get homes in their price range. Occasionally they would ask a question about this or that and my agent was always on top of getting them the information, but never once did they say they had decided to buy in this area. Well yesterday my agent got an email thanking them for sending the info and answering the questions on the house they are UNDER CONTRACT to buy on our lake with the sky in agent from another lake they looked at.  Thanks, we really appreciate that lack of respect.

Now on the fake registrations.... some are worse than others with really vial and foul language sometimes.  For the love pete folks, if you don't want to register, DON'T register. But honestly I really should not have to wake up and find dirty words in my email. Because hey person ... you really ARE a Butt Head and for those words I can't dare display in my blog you people are those things too.

Now on the the unprofessional-ism.  Hypothetically if you had a client with a terminal illness you would tend to feel a little extra protective of them if you are an agent right? And for those consumers reading this you wouldn't want someone be "funny" to a friend who was selling and moving because they were about to die right? Sometimes humor just isn't appropriate. A home inspector that I have never met did an inspection for buyers I have never met and their agent who wrote the offer on my listing sent it over with a list of requested repairs.  All good right? 

This face had been photo-shopped on the refrigerator in the home inspection. Now some of you might find it funny or amusing, that's fine.  I am not here to judge your sense of humor. But I AM here to protect my clients. And those clients have their own wagon already full of rocks right now and they were NOT about see this photo. I called the agent, got voice mail, left message. I called the phone number of the inspector right from the actual report and it was no longer in service. I checked to make sure I got the number right and tried again, yup, right number and yup no longer in service. In my opinion that inspector won't in be business for the long haul.  Oh and I will also ad that the inspector gave the buyers an "estimate" of repair costs of 4 times higher than the contractor bid we did. Guess he would have LOVED to have gotten to do those repairs with his estimate. I just shake my head sometimes. I think it's a conflict for an inspector to be even doing estimates for repair. That's NOT their job.

Writing this post did NOT make me feel better. But I would like to ask anyone who happens to read it to please please please respect people in the service industry. If we are working hard for you and treating you with respect, honesty and fairness please give us those same things back.

Now I have to get back to work. My day started early and I have an appointment to meet with a buyer to get a signed contract where the seller requires an overnight of original documents at 8:45 p.m. an hour away from my lake tonight, so it's going to be a long day too. But for those buyers and sellers who are respectful and treat us well I will always go way above and beyond to make their purchase a smooth, easy and pleasant experience.  I feel that's my job. So could all the nice people continue to call us, it's a pleasure to work hard for you.  But if you're a butt head, if you don't mind, call someone else, and find houses on zillow.

And to add insult to injury at the end of the day I find myself consoling my daughter when my X husband can't be bothered to attend her college graduation family dinner. So if you please say a little prayer for my Abigail, I would appreciate it a big bunch!

 

 

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Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

It almost seems to be an epidemic recently of strange and unprofessional behavoir. Somedays it's hard to rise above it.  Hope today is a better day.

Apr 29, 2015 09:42 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Tammy, I hope you will have a good day today. Have a good day.

Apr 29, 2015 10:02 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Tammy, it's good to vent on occasion. I find that if I give myself 15 minutes to vent, I get over it more quickly. With a title like that, of course, I had to read your post. And stay in this business long enough, we'll all come across our fair share of butt heads! They're all over the place (not just in real estate)! Meantime, I'm sending good thoughts your way regarding Abigail.

Apr 29, 2015 10:11 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I have a thing against graffiti where total public disrespect and regard is at work. It invokes a sense of sadness for the ones doing it. In regards to your posting, factor in human nature and all its defects making the necessary allowances for poverty of spirit.....

Apr 29, 2015 11:41 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Joan Whitebook I certainly don't mind working my tail off for folks who appreciate it.

James (Jim) Lawson, DBA Thanks for the well wishes and they must have had a really bad experience with that agent.

Inna Ivchenko I really get upset when brokers don't appear to care what their agents do

Debbie Gartner perhaps the closing this afternoon will make things a little better :)

 

 

Apr 30, 2015 02:12 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Kat Palmiotti the two of us made it through a lot, this too shall pass.

Cindy Jones nice closing today with out of state sellers who a a total pleasure to work for so yes, it's getting better.  Hopefully things will settle down.

Gita Bantwal thanks, me too

Nina Hollander they are among us aren't they?  Thanks for the sweet thoughts about my daughter.

Richie Alan Naggar author PEARLS FOR THE SOUL.com Books on me too on the whole graffiti thing.  There is no accounting for standards sometimes.

 

 

 

Apr 30, 2015 02:16 AM
Dan Tabit
Keller Williams Bellevue - Sammamish, WA

Some days there just isn't room for one more straw.  "This too shall pass" is the phrase that comes to mind.  Overall we're blessed to have problems like most of these.  That inspector doesn't deserve to have a phone number anyway.  On to better days, you're due.

 

Apr 30, 2015 04:18 AM
Jerry Lucas
ABC Legal Docs LLC - Colorado Springs, CO
Notary Training, Consulting. Colorado Springs, CO

Yes, I have seen bad behavior with lack of respect, lack of courtesy and lack of honor.  Selfish behavior seems to be a growing problem in our society. If you speak up, you risk triggering some hothead to give you a flaming negative online review.  So, I try to forget it and move on.  I can only control my own behavior.

Apr 30, 2015 06:03 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Dan Tabit you're right... first world problems. LOL  and I am due.  

Jerry Lucas but if no one speaks up what becomes of our society? I figure I can overcome a hothead bad review with the number of good ones I already have.

Apr 30, 2015 07:00 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Unfortunately, the Butt Heads will always be with us.....even the ones we were once married to.....it happens.

Apr 30, 2015 08:58 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Tammy Lankford 

You had a horrible day and hope tomorrow is better. Perhaps your ex will have a change of heart and decide to come to the graduation. He is the Butt Head.

Apr 30, 2015 01:27 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Step away from the ledge Tammy Lankford! We all have those pet peeves and butt faces were created just to make us feel better about ourselves. 

Apr 30, 2015 04:01 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

The butt heads are there to tell you what you don't want to contrast with what you do want in life. See the lesson in the moment.

Apr 30, 2015 04:53 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Pages will happen to unfold as they will setback will occur, but we carry on and move forward as Paul just said.

Apr 30, 2015 04:54 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Again, go back to the previous post and see what I wrote if you need some inspiration and comforting to know that I'm always here.

Apr 30, 2015 04:55 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

I can feel your frustration Tammy, it can be overwhelming at times. This feeling will pass!  

Apr 30, 2015 10:50 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

What a rotten set of circumstances that came flying at you! Poor Abigail. My daughter's dad is one of the flakiest people on the planet. He comes and goes in and out of her life when it's convenient for him and Josh and I are left to pick up the pieces when she crumbles because of it. 

May 01, 2015 01:03 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I feel that most of us can relate to this. Whenever there are people involved we will experience the people-factor, butt heads and all. Sorry you had such a frustrating day.

May 01, 2015 08:31 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

You get butt heads.  I get Mickey and Minnie Mouse.  I guess we are less foul-mouthed in the Midwest!  Hang in there.  It always gets better.

May 01, 2015 10:41 AM
Chrissi Chapman Topoleski
Coldwell Banker Realty - Woodbridge, VA
Helping agents live an exceptional life!

Oh my gosh, your story truly takes the cake! I can't believe a "professional" would photoshop anything into a report. I love the Butthead registration, too. People must think they are being funny, but they know a person is on the other side of it, don't they??

Jun 02, 2016 11:26 PM