Are you paddling as fast as you can upstream to try to make things happen? I have been using The Law of Attraction principles with my clients, in my class, Relax and Attract and with my own life. The concept of going WITH the flow instead of fighting it is very compelling for me. I love being able to relax and trust that I am doing what I need to do to have all the things I want. And I can't tell you how much fun it is to see things show up in ways I'd have never imagined and maybe, even have missed, if I hadn't stop trying so hard.
One of the important components in The Law of Attraction is being attractive. And, yes, while being pretty is good, that's not what I am talking about. What I mean is getting the stuff OUT OF THE WAY that drains energy and keeps me in a state that attracts little or nothing that I truly want and, sometimes, actually repels! So, my attention is on clearing the stuckness so life becomes easier. What practices do you have that get you unstuck?
COACH'S TIP>>>>> This week, spend some time every day being selfish. Not the bad selfish that hurts others, but selfish (AKA self-care) that nurtures you. Spend time doing those things you LOVE to do. Spend time with those you love and who make you feel great.
And then on the other side of this:
- What self-limiting beliefs are in your way?
- What are you doing that is out of integrity?
- What are you wasting energy resisting what is?
- Where are you not taking care of yourself?
Others won't give us the respect we want and deserve if we don't give it to ourselves. Take an honest look at how you are treating yourself and, if need be, make some changes. Be very, very selfish this week and watch what happens!
You definitely need to be relaxed and confident when you are interacting with others. Those who hold on too tight will not have much success.