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The Sensei and the Grasshopper--Which is which?

Reblogger Praful Thakkar
Real Estate Agent with LAER Realty Partners

It's always a pleasure meeting another 'Rainer! 

Whenever I am out of town, I plan to meet someone,

This was a special meeting - as it was just not meeting face to face, it was also for learning from Lottie Kendall who described our meeting in this re-post.

Thanks a lot for being my Sensei, Lottie.

Original content by Lottie Kendall CA DRE# 01215160

Until the middle of May my real estate life, coupled with a surgery my husband had, had me hopping from morning until night - and then some. It wasn't until the middle of the month that I posted about the Sensei-Grasshopper challenge and said I'd be happy to share some of the time management forms that I used in an attempt to keep all facets of my life in check, see what's out of kilter, and then alter plans to get back on track.

Two of my favorite Active Rain members contacted me and said they'd like to chat about the forms and see if they could learn a tidbit or two to help balance their lives, Praful Thakkar and Bob Crane. I emailed forms to both of them, and suggested times to talk. Bob Crane is out in the field most of this week, with spotty cell reception, so we're hoping to talk tomorrow or Sunday.

Pacific GroveBut Praful Thakkar and I connected, and in person no less! Praful happened to be in Monterey, California, this week, attending a seminar and had Wednesday evening free. While it didn't make sense for him to drive the 2+ hours to San Francisco (I know how intense motivational seminars are) it happened that my afternoon was free, so my husband and I drove to Monterey, and enjoyed a walk together along the gorgeous Pacific Grove coast, and then met Praful for dinner at a delightful, little tucked-away vegetarian restaurant.

Praful, Lottie and GeneOver dinner we chatted about all sorts of things; how San Francisco was his port of arrival in this country, how his IT career took him to New York, and now he's enjoying a new career in real estate. A big fan of Brian Buffini, Buffini and Company, we talked about the principles he's learned from them.

We also talked about how he has a problem saying "no" and that time gets away from him too easily. I mentioned how balance in life is important to me, which is why I structured my forms the way they are, and that reviewing our weeks and where our time was spent is as important as planning them in the first place.

I'm hoping that, perhaps on his travel back to New Hampshire, he can see how he might modify my forms for his use, can call me to discuss anything in particular that he might find helpful.

So which of us was the Sensei and which the Grasshopper? I'd say a bit of both. And isn't that the way it usually is on Active Rain?

 

--- Just another benefit of living in and around San Francisco!

Lottie Kendall, Realtor

Today | Sotheby's International Realty

San Carlos, California, 94070

CA BRE#01215160; 650-465-4547

Lottie@LottieKendall.com;

www.LottieKendall.com

www.SFCondosForMe.com

 

 

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Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Yes, it is always a bit of both. How delightful that you met Lottie and her husband and discussed the all important balance in life. " That's a tough one to master." ;) 

Jun 02, 2015 02:24 AM
John Meussner
Mortgages in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, GA, IN, MD, MN, MT, NC, NJ, NV, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WI - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

Great meeting - I often find that sometimes I'm the sensei and more often the grasshopper.  Looking forward to a meeting of our own next time you're in SoCal Praful!

Jun 02, 2015 06:22 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Praful Thakkar 

How cool that you met Lottie. I have been to SFO multiple times but it seems that it's generally with little time to spare or I am spending time across the bay in Oakland. SOME DAY I will meet Lottie, too. Sounds like a wonderful "meet-up" and time for learning and sharing, plus some good food (and SFO has an abundance of that)

I, too, have a tough time saying NO. I have a NO button near my desk and a note on my laptop "just Say No!"

Jeff

Jun 02, 2015 10:46 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

It must be the generous nature of Real Estate Agents to want to be helpful! So happy to read about your meeting and helping each other to be better.

Jun 02, 2015 12:14 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

What a nice meetup. Active Rain is the place to meet people learn and grow.

Jun 02, 2015 12:50 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Good morning Praful. Sometimes I think we are both. We learn from others while they learn from us.

Jun 02, 2015 06:33 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thanks all for stopping by - and your comments. 

Will be back soon!

Jun 07, 2015 04:46 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thanks all for stopping by - here I am - back to respond.

Aug 07, 2015 03:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Yes Debb, meeting Lottie was a pleasure. She drove all the way from SFO to Monterey.

Aug 07, 2015 03:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

And yes, getting that balance in life is challenging.

Aug 07, 2015 03:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

John Meussner I will be in SoCal from August 16th to August 18. Will you have some time? (Most likely the only day left is August 17th as I am flying back on August 18th evening.)

Or I can meet at lunch on August 17th or 18th - will be in San Diego, though.

Aug 07, 2015 03:57 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Jeff Dowler CRS - once again in San Diego for Brian Buffini's Mastermind. May be we can meet on August 17th?

Aug 07, 2015 03:59 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Meeting another ActiveRain member is always a pleasure.

Aug 07, 2015 03:59 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Evelyn, I am sure we will meet some day at some Brian Buffini's event...

Aug 07, 2015 04:00 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

It always feels good when I meet another 'Rainer - in Boston area or away from Boston.

Aug 07, 2015 04:00 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Goes without saying Rebecca Gaujot, the GO TO REALTOR - we learn a lot from each other.

Aug 07, 2015 04:01 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Michael Thornton - we always want to learn - and yes, we also want to teach. That's the way it is....learn and share.

Aug 07, 2015 04:02 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thanks all for stopping by - really appreciate it. See you in person - somewhere sometimes soon.

Aug 07, 2015 04:02 PM