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My Buyer Sat On The Sellers Couch. It Went Downhill From There...

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Compass 0524642

I'm a pretty easy going guy. If my home were on the market I wouldn't be bothered if a buyer and his agent decided to sit on my couch. Relax, talk about my house. Get yourself a beer if it helps. I love to entertain. But this is my attitude and personality. I understand how some people can be more puckered than others.

When I was growing up I had a few friends who had that furniture you weren't allowed to sit on. I also had a friend who had plastic coverings all over his couches. I don't get that either. 

But what is considered appropriate when showing a house? Is it okay to plop yourself down on the sellers fluffy new recliner? Just how comfortable can you get? The subject of this blog may sound really nonessential when it comes to the home buying/selling process, but it actually is a lot more important than you think.

Here are some examples of what I have personally witnessed when showing houses:

 

1. A buyer sat on a sellers couch and his keys slid out of his pocket and into the sellers recliner. My buyer and I saw 10-15 homes that day and it took an enormous amount of frustration for him to retrieve his keys. I had to drive him home when we got back to the office. The sellers daughter found the keys a few days later in the couch and eventually I was called by the listing agent to see if the keys belonged to me or one of my clients. 

2. I personally sat on a lawn chair in the backyard and crashed right through it. I bought a new one. I also didn't eat much that evening. It can be quite a humbling experience for a chair to give right from under your own weight.

3. I watched a lady I was showing homes to sit on the bench of an antique piano and break it. It snapped like a twig. It held together, but it was clearly damaged and not meant to be sat on.

4. One of my buyers sat on the sellers couch and was stuck in the right-rear love handle with what he said was a sharp object. It turned out to be a pair of scissors. 

 

Be smart about where you sit and what you're sitting on. It's not yours.

 

Posted by
Greg Nino
Realtor
RE/MAX Compass 
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Realtor since 2004
Mediator & Arbitrator for the TX Assoc. of Realtors
Member of the Professional Standards Committee for the TX Assoc. of Realtors
Arbitrator for the Comptroller's office for the State of TX for Arbitration of Property Tax Values

 Member of the RE/MAX Hall of Fame & Platinum Club

 

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Comments(35)

Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

I'm so paranoid about these security systems in place that I don't dare move, sit, touch or say anything!  While on a broker tour, this house had this really stupid lighting system that changed colors and the listing agent was showing how it worked.  We all said pretty awful things and made fun of it, and then one of us noticed the security camera in the corner!

Jun 04, 2015 08:25 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

My original broker told me about one of his agents that let her buyers drink some champagne that was in a refrigerator of one of  his other agent's listing. They bought the house. But it really ticked off the seller. (And the broker!)

Jun 04, 2015 08:56 AM
Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

You never know who's watching these days so I'm pretty careful what we do in a Seller's home.  Using the washroom is pretty normal though, because if you've got to go, you've got to go!  Checking the plumbing is how it is phrased.

Jun 04, 2015 12:43 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

If I have to sit during a showing,I will always go for a very solid kitchen or dining room chair.  Very difficult to get hurt that way

Jun 04, 2015 01:27 PM
Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Greg:

Really good post and gives you pause for consideration when escorting your buyers. I have a few such stories as well, You are getting close to the million point moment in AR hopefully this helps. 

Jun 05, 2015 02:20 AM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good evening Greg,

Sitting on a chair or sofa to get a perspective should be ok; the paono is a definite no as most are expensive instruments.

Make yourself a great day.

Jun 05, 2015 09:30 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279
Jun 05, 2015 10:44 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Weird that my last comment said 1. Just trying to boost you to a million. 

Jun 05, 2015 10:45 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Woo hoo you are there Greg.  Congrats.  

Jun 05, 2015 10:46 AM
Michele Cadogan 917-861-9166
Fillmore Real Estate 2990 Av U, Bklyn , NY 11229 - Brooklyn, NY
Licensed Real Estate Associate Broker -

Coming to you by way of   - Just stopping by to say Congrats on reaching your 1mill milestone here on ActiveRain.  

Jun 05, 2015 11:02 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

Way to go, Greg!  

   The 1,000,000 ActiveRain Points mark is in your rearview mirror. 

     Sincere congratulations!

Jun 05, 2015 11:49 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Thanks Paula and Fred! 8 years later!!

Jun 05, 2015 11:55 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yay, congrats.  You're over the hump. Congrats on the million and welcome to the club.

Jun 05, 2015 12:42 PM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

I saw number three happen before. However, it was at a party and a lady with a pretty big behind decided to sit on an antique spindly chair and broke out the back. I felt so embarrassed for her. I think people should know better and not sit in something that looks like it belongs in a museum especially when your back side is way too big.

Oh! Congratulations on making Mr. Millionaire!

Jun 05, 2015 02:37 PM
Pete Xavier
Investments to Luxury - Pacific Palisades, CA
Outstanding Agent Referrals-Nationwide

Another ActiveRain legend hitting the one million mark, congratulaions!

Jun 05, 2015 02:59 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

That post was worth 1,000,000 points all by itself. I have not had these things happen and I will be more cautious in the future! At least I know enough to keep my hands off the champagne in the fridge!

Jun 08, 2015 10:49 AM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

... and congrats on making it to the 1M milestone. : )

Jun 08, 2015 10:52 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I remember taking a listing once and having sellers tell me that we needed a sign to not sit in the antique chair.  I suggested removing it because you can't be there every second.  And if the antique chair was that precious, best to get it out of harms way.

Jun 08, 2015 01:13 PM
David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

words of wisdom and funny memories in this one. I too had friends with furniture you couldnt sit on and others wrapped in plastic was like... are you kidding me????

Jun 08, 2015 01:16 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

If buyers in rural areas with well who are going to use the toilet, make sure the water is still on.

 

Jun 11, 2015 08:17 AM