Sometimes positive posts and articles absolutely annoy me. Have you ever had one of those days? Some days you feel down and you just want to be left alone. I'm here to tell you, THAT'S OK!! You know what? That just means you're human.
Crying is very good for us. Yes, men too. Sadness envelopes us from heartbreak. Deep tears flow from the death of a loved one. No one wants to be around a chipper person when YOU are really out of it. Crying helps us. Think of all the events in life that make you cry. Being hurt by someone. Death of your dog of 13 years. Death of a loved one, brother or sister, parent, close friend or relative. Someone who meant the world to you.
But a good cry or multiple cries over time are good for us. It leads to healing. As children we tend to cry easily and then bounce back. I've toured homes where the child hurts herself and immediately cries and then five minutes later is back ok with Mom's reassuring hugs.
There just is something as a process that crying allows us to go through. It is emotions at our rawest nerve. We also cry out of joy and moments of great happiness too. If we all, mainly men here, would allow tears to flow more freely, like in sappy love stories or moving moments in movies, we'd be much better off. Why we hold back I think is a culture thing. But you know me, I don't dwell on being down, but remind everyone to move through this process or flow we call life. If you need permission,
GO AHEAD AND CRY
You will feel much better afterward and you know what?
Talk to the sun and know THE BLUES WON"T DEFEAT ME. Be Happy!!
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