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There's a good post coming in the future. Have some sympathy for. . . . .

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Real Estate Agent with Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate 303829;0225082372

Have some sympathy for. . . .

 

I'd like to say for me, but that's too simple at this point.  Fact is, I've not moved many times in my adult life.  As a child, my family moved far too many times, never owning but moving around as is not uncommon with renters. 

For home owners, however, moving is not that often.

 

I KNOW WHY!!!

 

It's become far too complicated and time consuming. 

 

Wildblue doesn't give spit that you can't remove the transponder from the dish.  So you mail the box back and wait for their unreasonable response.  Shucks.  What's the worse they can do?  They can't reposses your latest great grandchild.  So there!

 

In the future, I'll be far more helpful to folks moving.


Been there.  Done that. 

 

HOW CAN I HELP??

THAT is what I'll say.

 

 

 

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Comments(27)

Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Lenn, my wife and I have been married 16+ years. We have movrd 11 times. Four of these were to a different state. MISERY!!!!

Jun 30, 2015 05:47 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Lenn I hope you move went well, and you find a new place to settle into quickly.

Jun 30, 2015 07:09 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I have a list of issues from my other sellers that I share with all new sellers.

Jun 30, 2015 09:16 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Lenn, moving is disruptive no matter how prepared you are! Enjoy your day!

Jun 30, 2015 10:13 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lenn- I've moved a lot as an adult and have the greatest empathy for sellers and buyers because of it.  I'm organized when it comes to moving but it's still a PITA. 

Jun 30, 2015 11:47 AM
Fred Cope
Reliant Realty in Nashville, TN - Nashville, TN
Looking For Homes With A Smile

Lenn, my poor wife lived in the same house from birth til marriage, nearly 20 years.  In that same period of time I had moved seven times, but thought nothing of it: I was an adventurer (then).  We married while I was in the military, and did the mobile home park shuffle in between my TDY [temporary duty] assignments.  While I was off to see the world, she was packing and unpacking.  Upon discharge, I returned to college, and then into the ministry: the gal had become expert in packing and unpacking.  By our 17th Anniversary, we had moved 13 more times (April 1984).  We had owned a mobile home and two houses, but after 3 more moves, we purchased our current home in 1987 (20th anniversary).  Since June 1987, we have watch sapplings grow into large Maple, Oak and Bradford Pear trees, plus our Ginko tree (grandkids' favorite).  The longest either of us have retained the same address and phone number.  I had invisioned this being my retirement home, and even joshed with the kids that "when I die, dig a hole at the foot of the deck steps and roll me in--I am here to stay."  My wife has lost both parents, and inherited 32 acres.  She wants to go home, and I owe her that.  I am a country boy, love my time on a tractor, sitting in the shade, and the prospect of having running room for nine grandkids.  Working on our last move, but there are so many roots to pull up.  I want to take the Ginko with me, but it is now about twent feet tall and ten inches in diameter.  I'm stubborn, so the poor tree may get a taste of what my wife has experienced.

I hope you enjoy your new roost, and grow long & deep roots.

Jun 30, 2015 01:28 PM
Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

I've moved 24 times in my life, lived in 3 different countries, finally am settled in two states with 2 homes.  Did I enjoy my moves? Absolutely, there was always something new to go to. Until my last move 6 years ago, the home was never as important as what brought me there. 

Jun 30, 2015 07:14 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

I've thought about you and this move many times.  Did you end up where you thought last time we talked?

Jun 30, 2015 08:33 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Lenn.  Moving is such a pain even if you are very organized.  Stay tough.

Jun 30, 2015 08:54 PM
Women of Westchester Working Together
Women of Westchester Working Together - West Harrison, NY
Women helping Women get ahead

Yes, this is one of my least favorite activities and try to avoid it.  5 or 6 yrs ago I moved my office.  I think that might have been even worse.  - Debbie

Jun 30, 2015 10:12 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Michael.  I have helped buyers move in the past.  I'm glad I did.

Jeffrey.  Worse.  I can't find my bras.  I'm washing the one I'm wearing every night in the motel.

Bill Spear.  My experience is that military families have moving down pat.

Gary.  I was surprised how complicated things are today.

Sharon.  I believe I will too.

Kathleen.  My listing agent Jeff Pearl has been a rock. 

Dick.  I believe my nightmare has a way to go. 

Tom.  My goodness.  That must have been rough.

George.  HA!  I haven't even settled on a state.

William.  Good for you.

Wayne.  I'm trying.

Kathy.  It isn't getting any easier, but I'm a stubborn old goat.

Fred.  A tree?  A tree?  I'm more concerned about where to sleep.

Hella.  Good for you.

Jay.  HA!  HA!  I haven't yet even ended up!!  I'm meeting my daughter in Fredericksburg on the 20th for lunch.  She's visiting from Maine.  Who knows.  No.  I'm not going to Maine.

Conrad.  I thought I was organized.

Debbie.  Not unless you sleep in your office.

 

 

Jul 01, 2015 01:57 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Wow, I did not know you are moving. My last move was exactly across the street. But it was a full scale move, and a full-scale disaster. 2 years later I am still missing some stuff, it is sitting somewhere in the storage...

Have it easy... as easy as possible.

Jul 01, 2015 09:13 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Your phone(s) no worko.  Call me!

Kathy Streib called me yesterday in a fitful panic.  Okay, may not quite that, but she assumed I am my Lenn's Keeper, and called me.  And I couldn't help her!

Jul 01, 2015 10:21 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Jon.  You have my sympathy too.

Jay.  I'm at the library now using their trusty computer.  I'll call shortly.  I don't know why Kathy is in a panic.  I've posted to AR every single day since moving out of the house.  I'll call her.

Jul 02, 2015 01:37 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Tom White and I have been in this house for 8 years. We plan on being here for 10 - 15 more years. By then, Tom will be ready for the old folks home.

Jul 04, 2015 04:22 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Tammie.  At this point, after the hassles of moving, I would welcome a rest in an old folks home.

Jul 05, 2015 03:18 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Lenn, move is after all a 4-letter word.  And there's going to be one in my fairly near future.  Not looking forward to it one single bit!

Jul 05, 2015 10:20 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Lenn Harley - I believe it is a nature of Internet socializing/friendships that we know only what we are let to know. Life is way more than what we see on the virtual surface. On the one hand it makes it easy,a nd we love it because of it, as it does not have the weight of real friendships.

But the other side of the coing is that there might be something happening behind the scenes, and even if we could help in some way, we are not aware. there is some unsettling feeling that you are not comfortable at this point, and I only can say that if I could help, I would. Simply wanted you to know.

Jul 10, 2015 12:54 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Patricia.  My goodness.  That wonderful house that you've been in for many, many years.  As for moving, there is absolutely nothing enjoyable about it.

Jon.  Some of us, myself included, are far more reclusive than it might appear.  Fortunately, I have absolutely wonderful friends who have opened their home up to me if that was what I wanted.  It's isn't of course.  That said, this quest for a permanent abode is coming to fruition in many ways, thank goodness.  I just have to be patient and accept that little occurs with folks when they are out of town.

 

 

 

Jul 10, 2015 01:57 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Lenn Harley,

I knew you were moving but didn't realize you didn't know where you were moving! I hope things materialize and a clear picture is a reality soon. We've  lived in our house for 21 years and not expecting to move anytime soon. We love our single story with a pool and are staying put. Over the years we have not been afraid to discard items we are not using. We remodeled several times and love our home! I'm sure I'll feel the same way when it is time to move:).

Jul 18, 2015 11:10 PM