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If You Don't Ask the Question, The Answer is Always No

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If You Don't Ask the Question The Answer is Always NoWhy are you afraid to ask the question...any question?  The worst thing that could happen is their answer would be "no".  But if you never ask the question, the answer will always be "no".

Your Job is to Negotiate

One of the primary skills real estate agents are hired is for their negotiation ability.  Webster's dictionary defines negotiation as; "a formal discussion between people who are trying to reach an agreement".  According to this definition, negotiation is the heart and soul of a real estate transaction.  Real estate agents help "people" reach an agreement.  It doesn't matter which side you are working with...buyers or sellers, the ultimate goal is to reach an agreement.

Negotiating With the Seller

Often times the first encounter with negotiation is when you are at the listing appointment and the seller wants to list their house for more than you think it is worth.  Do you simply agree to the higher price or do you help the seller understand why listing at a lower price may be more reasonable?  If you choose to remain silent on the issue, this could cause both you and the seller grief in the long run.  The house may just sit on the market or if you do receive an offer, the property may not appraise.  When a seller states a price you feel is unreasonable, they are exercising their right to "ask".  They aren't asking because they know it's unreasonable, they are asking because they don't understand why their house isn't worth that price.

Negotiating With the Buyer

On the buyer's side you begin the negotiation process when it comes time to make an offer on a property.  The buyer may love the house, but they don't love the price.  As their agent, you review the comparables with them to see if the list price is reasonable.  But it would be far too easy for the buyer to simply pay the list price because the comps showed that the price on the house they love was in line with the market.  Every buyer wants to think they got a "deal" and will make an offer that is lower than the list price.  Naturally this thought process will depend on the type of market you are in, but even then, buyers want to feel as though they got something from the seller.  The buyer decides to make a low offer, although you may not agree with their decision, it is your responsibility to present that offer in a positive light.  The buyer has exercised their right to "ask".

Ask the Question

As a real estate agent our job is to help our clients buy and sell property.  The key words here being "our clients".  When it comes to an offer, we don't know what a buyer or seller will or will not accept, but it is up to us to ask the question.  We can't be concerned with one of the parties feeling "insulted" or "annoyed" because it is all a part of the process.  We simply represent our client and ask the questions they want us to ask...even if we think we know the answer.  As my father used to say, "you can't G-E-T if you don't A-S-K".

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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Richfuscious say: the questions are what drives us. The answers make it worthwhile

Jul 06, 2015 11:21 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Candy. Your title says it all. I think your analysis is great.

Jul 06, 2015 11:24 PM
Candy Miles-Crocker
Online Real Estate Agent Training - Chevy Chase, DC
Realtor - Real-Life Real Estate Training

Thanks so much Sheila!  Make it a great day!

Jul 06, 2015 11:27 PM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good morning Candy,

Or sometimes we won't KNOW!

Questions make every ones job easier!

Make yourself a great day.

Jul 06, 2015 11:48 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Your title line words say it all. 

For years, I'd pray to win the lottery.  Finally, God said in a booming voice, "Help me out here, Blondie. . .Buy a ticket!"

Jul 07, 2015 08:22 PM
Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
Getting results w/ knowledge & know-how!

So true!  As a reminder, there is a reminder in my work space that says, "You have not because you ask not".  ;)

Jul 07, 2015 09:52 PM