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You're Dead - Now What? How To Be Immortal On The Internet.

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Services for Real Estate Pros with The Silent Partner Marketing

You're dead - now what?  The ultimate guide to being immortal on the internet.Forget about the whole cryogenic freezing thing. You can now live forever, thanks to social media. 

Today we’re looking at life after death. Turns out you can be even more social than Casper. Let’s dive in.

Facebook

Facebook has created a new feature called Legacy Contact. What this feature does is allow you to select someone to:

  • Write a final post to display at the top of the memorialized Timeline. Usually about when and where the memorial service will take place.
  • Respond to new friend requests from family members and friends who were not yet connected on Facebook.
  • Update the profile picture and cover photo. 

Your legacy contact can't:

  • Log into your account.
  • Remove or change past posts, photos and other things shared on your Timeline.
  • Read messages you've sent to other friends.
  • Remove any of your friends.

Cool. Helpful. But not exactly the mess with people factor we were looking for. Let’s move on.

Google

Google also has a system set up for when you pass away. It has a much more generic name than Facebook does: Inactive Account Manager. You can set the account the delete the data from all your Google accounts including e-mail, Google+, YouTube, and Blogger. You can change your account settings to delete either after three, six, or 12 months after being an inactive user. If you want someone else to receive all your Google data you can do that too. Before Google deleting your data, Google sends a warning message to a secondary e-mail address or phone number if you provide one. Clearly, this doesn’t do much for you if you’re dead, but you could provide a loved ones e-mail or phone number to get that warning.

Now, if you’re creative enough, you could always schedule out emails for the future if you know your time is short. For example…that client that just never seemed to pay up. Imagine getting a VERY personalized email from you demanding he pay up to your estate or you’ll haunt him forever. That might just be the motivation needed. Let’s move on.

Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, Vimeo

These four social media platforms are a bit more complex when it comes to getting rid of a deceased person’s account. You can’t simply let someone deal with your account through your account settings. Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, and Vimeo will only deactivate your account if contacted by someone authorized to act on your behalf. There needs to be some kind of evidence that you are authorized to deactivate the account. Contacting the social media platforms usually happens through email but can also be done by fax. The person needs to provide a death certificate or an obituary of the deceased. Many times they also need to provide a brief description of the user to prove that it is their account since a lot of people use fake names on these platforms. 

Using some of the scheduled posting services like Hootsuite, you can continue with your creepy legacy for years to come. But your most utilized social media platforms aren’t the only way to keep the messages coming. 

Check these out – thanks to The Digital Beyond. 

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Now on to the goods.

Afternote

Founded: 2013

Afternote is an online service that allows you to plan for the unexpected and ensures your unique life story lives on. It gives you the opportunity to make your funeral wishes known, manage your digital legacy and leave goodbye messages to loved ones. 

Afterwords.cc

Founded: 2012

Afterwords.cc is a secure online tool for leaving posthumous messages. The free version allows up to 3 messages to individuals or groups, while a small subscription enables unlimited messages. Invite two or more trustees to activate your account when you die, whenever that happens to be. 

Boxego

www.boxego.com

Founded: 2013

Boxego is a private journal that can be shared privately and socially, now and in the future. the unique Future Share options allow Boxego users to capture and keep the moments that matter to them and choose when to share them – if they want to share them.

Dead Man’s Switch

www.deadmansswitch.net

Founded: August, 2008

Dead Man’s Switch is a simple posthumous email service. Users can create an account or log in via OpenID. Once logged in they can create messages to be sent after their death. Dead Man’s Switch asks that users log in periodically to verify that they are still alive.

Dead Man’s Switch (.org)

http://deadmansswitch.org/

Founded: 2009

The service is simple. Type an email and optionally attach a few files. Every few days we will send you an email with a link that verifies you are still alive. If something does happen we will send your emails 30 days after we last heard from you. 

Dead Social

deadsocial.org

Founded: 2012

DeadSocial provides a range of free tools and tutorials. The service helps users plan their digital death and have an active influence in their digital legacy. DeadSocial launched their initial ‘goodbye’ tool at South by South West (SXSW). This enables users to create a series of messages consisting of videos, text and images. 

Deadman

http://www.deadman.io/

Founded: 2012D

Deadman is a service that will contact you by phone, email, or text-message to make sure everything is OK. If you don’t respond, Deadman will email, call, or text any number of people that you define and send them documents, photos, or any other electronic file.

Death Switch

deathswitch.com

Founded: 2006

Death Switch sends out emails after you die, or at least after it stops hearing from you. You get one email with no attachments for free, or 30 emails with attachments for $19.95 a year.

Eterniam

eterniam.com

Founded: 2013

Eterniam enables you to create your digital estate. It preserves all your digital assets: photos, videos, documents, your content from other services (such as Facebook) and more to come. You can bequeath each asset to chosen beneficiaries. Security and privacy are integral to the service. 

Knotify.me

knotify.me/

Founded: 2014

Knotify.me is a free application that answers to your question “What happens to all my online accounts if I get amnesia, Alzheimer’s or if I leave from this world?” You can set future notifications to be sent to your family and beloved people or to yourself, ensuring that nothing of your digital life will be lost.

My Wonderful Life

www.mywonderfullife.com

Founded: 2010

My mywonderfullife.com is a planning, messaging and memorial site with loads of features that will help you plan your own passing. You can leave letters, document your wishes, make sure your pets are taken care of, write your own obituary and even design your own headstone.

MyGoodbyeMessage

www.mygoodbyemessage.com

Founded: 2013

MyGoodbyeMessage is an online, interactive service that gives you the opportunity to write beautiful personal letters to be delivered either after a predefined period of time, or after you passed away. We could say that it sends your words and emotions to your family and friends after you are no longer able to.

Perpetu

https://perpetu.co/

Founded: 2013

Perpetu is a prize-winning and innovative service that allows you to control what would happen to your online accounts upon your ‘departure’. We carry out your last wishes without asking for your passwords or requiring you to upload any document. 

The Voice Library

www.rememberedvoices.com/

Founded: 2008

Record, save, and share the sound of your voice through The Voice Library, a secure online archive that you can use by phone and online. Record a story as soon as you hear it – listen anywhere, even without internet. Guarantee that your voice will be preserved for future generations.

ThoughtsBeyond

thoughtsbeyond.com

Founded: 2010

ThoughtsBeyond provides individuals with a cloud-based solution to email text and/or video emails your loved ones after they die. Imagine if your grandchild could get an email sent directly to them from you? 

ToLovedOnes

tolovedones.com/

Founded: 2013

At ToLovedOnes we specialize in delivering your letters to the right person at the right time after your passing. Our comprehensive scheduling system allows you to schedule your letters for any conceivable date even those yet to be determined life event dates like the birth of your first grandchild. 

Vuture

www.myvuture.com

Founded: 2013

Vuture is an iOS application that allows you to capture priceless memories, thoughts, or secrets today, which can be shared at a specified time in the future. The Process is easy: Record, Schedule, & Save. It’s that simple. 

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Kyle Reyes is the President and Creative Director of The Silent Partner Marketing, a boutique marketing firm focused on helping businesses grow in an age of exploding technology.
 
Reyes is an acclaimed Keynote Speaker on entrepreneurship, leadership, marketing and social media.
 
The CEO is a former Producer of News and Special Projects, having worked in broadcast journalism for nearly a decade.  His team offers a marketing one-stop-shop, filling the role of a Chief Marketing Officer and support staff at a fraction of the cost of having to worry about the payroll, taxes, benefits, etc.
 
Reyes has appeared in multiple media outlets including Aol.Com, Yahoo and Bloomberg Business. 
 
You can find him on FacebookTwitter, Instagram and SnapChat (@dasilentpartner).  And he wants to connect with you on LinkedIn, so send him a request!
 
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

The coming and going of life is always at work everywhere. Lots to learn here

Jul 07, 2015 11:06 PM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

OMG Kyle, This is just too spooky for me.

Bill Roberts

BTW When I'm gone my family will have other things to deal with. They don't need to be "updating" my social media as well.

Jul 08, 2015 12:42 AM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good morning Kyle,

Barring an accident I would like to delete all my accounts and save some spam!

Make yourself a great day.

Jul 08, 2015 01:05 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Richie Alan Naggar author of books on Life-Love-Intimacy-Purpose Bill Roberts and Raymond E. Camp Gents my favorite takeaway, although not stated in the piece, is that we have a wonderful opportunity to capture living memories online with loved ones who may know in advance that their time is limited...

Jul 08, 2015 05:14 AM
Joy Baker
RE/MAX Insight - Salem, NH
So NH RE & Short Sale Specialist

"For example…that client that just never seemed to pay up. Imagine getting a VERY personalized email from you demanding he pay up to your estate or you’ll haunt him forever. That might just be the motivation needed."  I love that!  I'm making a list right now of the people I'm going to digitally haunt when I'm gone...LOL.

Jul 09, 2015 06:48 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

I have all my pass words saved in a safe place. I am going to tell my granddaughter to take care of that for me when I am gone.

Jul 09, 2015 03:38 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Kyle Reyes - I think I can be immortal on ActiveRain - as I can schedule the posts here -- forever....lol!

Yep, all my membership info is known to my wife and children - so hopefully, they will take care of my 2 Million ActiveRain points.....lol!

Jul 12, 2015 01:32 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Praful Thakkar put my name in the will for the points.  I can use them ;)

Jul 13, 2015 10:04 AM
Kathryn .
Rentec Direct - Grants Pass, OR
Rentec Direct

Thank you Kyle for the positive inspiring blog. ;)

On a serious note, I actually haven't thought about what to do with my social media account upon hitting the death button.

Jul 24, 2015 12:10 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kyle Reyes  just read this on Google they asked me who I wanted to pass my account on to in case of death

Feb 10, 2016 08:28 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

I think this is well intentioned, seems like there could be issues though. 

Feb 10, 2016 09:02 AM
Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

Thanks.  I've seen some of these services before.  I took a different approach though.  I have specific people listed in my will, along with my passwords to the services and specific instructions for what to post and what to do with the accounts.  That's of course assuming these services are still around in 90 years (yes, I plan on living well into my 120s).

Feb 10, 2016 11:14 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

my husband and daughter have my passwords and my legal authority to delete any facebook friends they see fit to delete. :)

 

Feb 10, 2016 12:36 PM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Kyle - I find this a little creepy actually.

Feb 10, 2016 03:01 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

I have a few friends who have passed on in the last few years and I do like going back to their FB page once in a while, especially on their birthday. 

Nice to reflect on memories triggered by pictures and read a few recent comments left by other visitors.

Feb 10, 2016 03:08 PM