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They Just Want Someone To Talk To

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Executive Realty in Franklin, Ma. 9033022

They Just Want Someone To Talk To!

I don't typically blog about anything but real estate but I had to switch things up today.  

I get so many chat requests from random people through my google+.  Many of them are request from men that are strangers.  I typically block them after they make a couple of attempts that I refuse.  I started to research some of the profiles of the people requesting a conversation only to realize that most of them are currently deployed soldiers.  

Today I decided to respond to one that I researched and confirmed that he was a legitimate soldier on active duty.  It just turned out that he was lonely and missing home.  He has a 16 year old son and he is on the other side of the world.  Of course it is important to do your research before entertaining conversations with "just anyone".  

There was nothing off color about our conversation at all.  He just talked and I listened.  Of course I don't share my personal info but then again, he didn't ask for any.  He really just wanted someone to tell his stories to.  

I can't imagine how difficult it is to be on the other side of the world with no family or friends.  The things I complain about as I lay my head down on my nice comfortable pillows every night just don't seem half as bad after hearing how these soldiers life.  How these men and women tough it out in their horrific temporary homes.  

It was such a good feeling knowing that my response made this man's day.  

Don't forget about our soldiers.  

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Comments (6)

Mike Rock
Complete Design - Granite Bay, CA
Granite Bay Luxury New Construction...For Less

I too cannot imagine, my daughter is a hour away and it seems like the other side of the world. im going to call her right now:) thanks

Jul 13, 2015 11:52 PM
Tammy Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty in Franklin, Ma. - Franklin, MA
The Todaro Team Leader

Mike, I can't relate to you. My third child will be going off to college in a few weeks and I'm already crying when I do his laundry. He will only be an hour and a half away but the first child to move further than ten mins away. 😞

Jul 14, 2015 12:16 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Tammy unfortunately I know what it is like to be on the other side of the world without family or friends.  That was a good thing you did.

Jul 14, 2015 07:25 AM
Tammy Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty in Franklin, Ma. - Franklin, MA
The Todaro Team Leader

George, you can never be too careful these days. It's hard to know when someone is being honest online but I'm glad I took my chances with this conversation.

Jul 14, 2015 08:09 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

Tammy, I'm from a military family. I have several relatives who have served and others who are now serving. Some don't want to talk at all and others feel like no one really wants to (or should have to) hear their story.

It's a personal project of mine to document stories of those who serve.

Thanks for understanding the need- and voicing it. It's a great message.

Jul 15, 2015 08:26 AM
Tammy Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty in Franklin, Ma. - Franklin, MA
The Todaro Team Leader

That's a beautiful thing you're doing Chuck. 

Jul 15, 2015 11:53 AM