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I hate loaded questions - Does this dress make me look fat?

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Does this dress make me look fat? I hate questions like that because there is NO correct answer. 

If you say NO the response is."you are lying. The result is you have to eat your dinner out of a bowl on the back porch for a week.

If you say YES, you have to wear a hard hat to bed and sleep with one eye open. Not very restful I might add. Did I mention I hate loaded questions that have NO CORRECT ANSWER?

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Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

Kristen: At least I am not alone.

Rosemarie; Tell him to get writing I'm sure it will be a seller maybe even a movie deal!

Jul 19, 2015 03:45 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Rob - I have a real problem answering loaded questions because I really don't know what the right answer is. I guess I need to speak with Rosemarie Heindel's husband for some assistance.

Jul 19, 2015 10:29 AM
Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

Troy: Hopefully Rosemaries husband can write a book that goes to a movie deal!

Jul 19, 2015 10:54 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I said to my husband once "don't let me go out looking like that" (referring to someone we saw) and he looked me in the eye and said "uh, you can't make me responsible for that".  So no loaded questions and no crazy demands.

Jul 19, 2015 01:31 PM
Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

Tammy: Maybe your husband could get in on the book/movie deal we are talking about here in some of the comments. LOL

Jul 19, 2015 10:52 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Ha - there's no winning on that one. You're right, it's best to plead deafness. You make me laugh. Happy Tuesday to you Rob. 

Jul 21, 2015 12:15 AM
Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Rob D. Shepherd 

Sometime the best way to answer the question is with a question ie...How does it make you feel?

Jul 22, 2015 02:47 PM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

It's true Rob, you can't win for loosing.

Jul 23, 2015 12:16 AM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Rob D. Shepherd 

Loaded questions should be banned...thanks for the cute post, made me smile!

Jul 24, 2015 12:34 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

I am still laughing, I have always taken the politically incorrect approach and have paid for it dearly:)) Here is the Loaded answer "Now do you want me to lie or do you want me to tell the truth?" generally that is followed by "you know the old saying if you have to ask you know the answer?":)))Endre

Jul 25, 2015 10:16 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

There are plenty of wrong answers, but some more diplomatic than others.

Jul 26, 2015 02:23 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Maybe best to answer a loaded question with a question, then change the subject!

Jul 26, 2015 09:39 AM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Exactly why i turned down a request to run for city Alderman,  I would be wrong half the time no matter what i chose. Therefore i do not need half the people calling to yell at me. 

Jul 30, 2015 08:21 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

You look at life a lot like I do Rob D. Shepherd! I guess that is why I've decided to follow you and your wisdom  

Jul 31, 2015 01:39 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Avoid those loaded questions and have an outstanding weekend.

Jul 31, 2015 10:10 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Rob  - I agree.  I hate those loaded questions.  How about answering with "What do you thin?"  Answering a question with a question is always easier.

Jul 31, 2015 10:44 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Tell all husbands, it's a trap!! I think my husband would have answered, "I love you. You complete me". Which is what he says when he's in trouble. (Thank you Jerry McGuire the movie...)

Can't wait to hear about your Prospect Hotel experience! 

Aug 03, 2015 02:16 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

This is very funny. I love to see the look on my husband's face when I ask a questions like that. His face says Is this a Trick Question?

Aug 03, 2015 11:26 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

It is  trick question . You should know how to answer it.

Aug 10, 2015 09:30 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Always say "No'':) Just to be on a safe side.

I think, it is not a lie. It is called ''survival skills''. Happy wife: happy life! Right? ( will work for any woman in your environment).

Aug 16, 2015 04:54 PM