Heres a great story that's circled around the internet a few times.  Its a bit long, but well worth the message. I thought I'd post it for inspiration...

The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. 

I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being. 

She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"                                                                                                                   

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze. 

"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked. 


She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..." 

"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. 

"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me. 

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. 

We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. 

Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up. 

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. 

Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know." 

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, " We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. 

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. 

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! 

There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. 

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight. 

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. 

The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets." 

She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose." 

She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. 

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep. 

Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be. 

 
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10 Comments on My Name is Rose

What a wonderful story.  Many of us give lip-service, but few of us use the lips.  I am sure Rose is in heaven with few regrets. 

04/16/2008 09:59 AM by Kathryn Tharp ~ Rancho Cucamonga Real Estate Specialist (Realtor)


Kathryn - Thanks for commenting.  It made me smile when I read it today.  Kinda makes you think and thinking is good, doing is better.

04/16/2008 10:06 AM by The Mortgage & Property Connection


Dorene, thank you very much for sharing this.  I am in tears.  I thank God for people like Rose because she shows the rest of us what life is really all about.  I am going to make a conscious effort to live up to my full potential.  Great Post.

04/16/2008 10:12 AM by Sonya Rosser (ERA Buckhead Realty)


Thanks Sonya - If we stop and listen to more experienced, older individuals I'm sure we could pick up some pretty important pointers!

04/16/2008 10:14 AM by The Mortgage & Property Connection


Great story, everyday you must take and make the time to do something you enjoy in life. For me it's spending time with my horses and getting out to do a trail ride.

04/16/2008 10:18 AM by Jeff Thompson (Thompsons Home Inspections)


Dorene,

Living to your potential is all that God wants us to do.....this was a very good life lesson.

04/16/2008 10:20 AM by Dan Brudnok - Realtor, e-PRO, ABR, CSP - Chester County RE Professional (Keller Williams - Exton - PA License Number #RS225179L )


Thanks Jeff - I was in a seminar yesterday.  The speaker mentioned one important aspect to our personal lives we should think about...everyday find one thing good whether is landscape, a family playing together in a park, just something you think is good or great.  Record this everyday.  You will keep your sense of well being.  I decided to start this today!

04/16/2008 10:21 AM by The Mortgage & Property Connection


Dorene, I had seen this before, but it's such a powerful story that it's good to read it again. Very inspirational that someone with a passion and a purpose can influence those around them.

04/16/2008 11:32 AM by Steve Hoffacker - Real Estate Sales & Marketing Consulting and Strategies (Hoffacker Associates)


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