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Feeling Old…….

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After a freak accident in my new old home two years ago I felt vulnerable, and in fact I was. When the unexpected happens things can change in a heartbeat. I was immobilized for many months. When I was finally well enough to drive a car again, I was afraid to. I was lucky to have a friend encourage me. During that time I had physical therapy and so many people less than my age appeared lost and very much older. I felt lucky to have the strength and wear with all to move out of my own way and into the world again.

Yesterday I saw a woman who was 110, yes believed to be the oldest in this country, anyway. She was celebrating her birthday and looked great. I know a man who ushers at Tanglewood at 95. His posture and gait is better than mine, and he is one of the brightest and most active people I know. I also know people who are done at much younger ages and whose attitude and physical appearance convey nothing but a lack of interest in life.

I think that if we are lucky we want to always be engaged, busy and active. I am young yet, but wish to always have the drive to want more, seek more and be more. And for now.........things are really good.

 

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

You are right Joe ans I work on this daily. Thank you.    Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 09:33 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Marco. I remember you talking about your Dad before. Don't sit: I like that. TY.   Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 09:34 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi James. Me too. :)    Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 09:35 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Conrad. That is the goal and what I try to do. Thanks.     Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 09:36 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Sheila, as active as you are, I can't imagine you ever feeling old. I admit to feeling old once in a while, but I usually get over it pretty quick.

Aug 03, 2015 10:00 PM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Sheila Anderson Keep going and thanks for sharing your stories along the way.  I have enjoyed popping over periodically.

Aug 03, 2015 10:03 PM
Donald Urschalitz
Lubeck Realty Group - Jupiter, FL
P.A. Realtor ABR RSPS North Palm Beach County

 This is all I can say about that!

Aug 03, 2015 10:06 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Mike. You are right but a momentary thing can happen to anyone. TY   Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 10:07 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Mary.     Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 10:08 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Donald. I love this.     Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 10:09 PM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Good Tuesday morning young lady Sheila Anderson -

Yes aches and pains come our way but any day I wake up on this side of the grass is a great day :)

Aug 03, 2015 11:18 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you John. I agree.        Sheila

Aug 03, 2015 11:20 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

My dad was very active until the end. When he was so sick I asked him if he was tired and ready to go. He told me no he liked living and had more to do. I liked his attitude.

Aug 04, 2015 07:15 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Staying active as we age is very important.  If you don't "use it" you do in fact "lose it."  My Mom has no muscle tone left and can barely stand to grocery shop.  It's so sad.

Aug 04, 2015 07:17 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello again Debbie, You Dad sounds like a very special man. Thank you.   Sheila

Aug 04, 2015 12:34 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Sorry Chris Ann. It is very sad to fade away.    Sheila

Aug 04, 2015 12:35 PM
Melanie Cameron
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage - Wilmington, NC
The Cameron Team

The people who continue to be active and enjoy life are the ones who live the longest. I know a woman who put herself into a senior living community at the age of 62, because she just didn't care anymore. She didn't live very long after she "gave up". Keep moving and keep smiling!

Aug 05, 2015 10:58 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Melanie. I too have seen this and I agree. Thank you.     Sheila

Aug 05, 2015 11:00 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Sheila, what you went through is not unusual in terms of post-traumatic reaction. Obviously, the trick is to work hard to not let that run your life. As one of my clients likes to say "old age is not for sissies!" And he's right. And I've found out that it's often mind over matter, as well.

Aug 10, 2015 08:59 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Nina. I think what you say makes a lot of sense. I love the expression your cclient used too. Thank you.    Sheila

Aug 10, 2015 09:20 PM