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FATHERHOOD

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential

I write this post, sipping on my second cup of coffee this morning.

As I was in our kitchen, preparing my delicious hot Dunkin Donuts coffee (mmm good), I saw a picture of my little girl Erin.

I smiled.

She is upstairs sleeping now.  The house is quiet.

Soon, she will wake, and our little home will transform into a chaotic mess.

I can't wait.

She will be 2 on April 30.  She is cute, smart, funny, wonderful and BOSSY.

I love her for all of those things.

My wife and I were not sure we could even have a child.  We tried for awhile, and then looked into fertility specialists, which seem to be the craze here in Naperville.

Our "specialist" said we would not be able to have a child, the normal way.

But if we signed up today, we could save money on Invitro treatments.  I felt like I was buying a used car.

Needless to say we were uncomfortable.  So we talked about adoption.

There are so many beautiful babies needing good homes.  Black, white, brown, yellow, red, green and pink babies.  Does it matter the color, we thought.  No.

We just wanted a child to love and call our own.

But then, almost three years ago now, it happened.  Nicole was pregnant.

Our life has never been the same.

Fatherhood is wonderful.  Challenging.  Hard. 

But wonderful.

I have to go now.

I here my little girl.  I don't want to keep her waiting.  She will yell at me.

Ken

www.kensfeaturedhomes.com

 

 

Comments(9)

Steve Hoffacker
Steve Hoffacker LLC - West Palm Beach, FL
Certified Aging In Place Specialist-Instructor
Ken, your life will never be the same - and that's good. Enjoy kids while they're young. There are trying moments, but you get through it.
Apr 17, 2008 01:01 AM
Clint Miller
Real Estate Pipeline, Inc. - Missoula, MT
I have a 3 year old boy...and a 3 week old boy.  Ive been through all of these once now...and looking forward to round 2!
Apr 17, 2008 01:15 AM
Ken Tracy
Coldwell Banker Residential - Naperville, IL
Helping clients buy and sell since 2005

Hi Steve and Clint.  Thanks for reading.

We do enjoy it as much as possible.

I hope you both have a great day.

Ken

Apr 17, 2008 01:27 AM
Ken Tracy
Coldwell Banker Residential - Naperville, IL
Helping clients buy and sell since 2005

You are a wonderful father. Erin is so very lucky to have you as her Daddy!

Nicki (Erin's Momma)

Apr 17, 2008 05:19 AM
Kathy Passarette
Creative Home Expressions - Mount Sinai, NY
L.I. Staging/Decorating
Ken ~ That was lovely!  What a lucky little girl you have.  She has you wrapped around her finger already and, as I can see with my own daughter and husband, it is a bond that continues to grow to this day (mine is 21!).  Enjoy every moment!
Apr 17, 2008 06:17 AM
Ken Tracy
Coldwell Banker Residential - Naperville, IL
Helping clients buy and sell since 2005

Hi Kathy and Nicki.  Thanks for reading.

We are pretty lucky too!

Ken

Apr 17, 2008 07:39 AM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)
We have a bossy two-year old girl in our house, too.  Great stuff, Ken.  I am including this post and another one of yours in the Family Ties recap tonight.
Apr 21, 2008 04:13 PM
Carol Judd
New Star Real Estate - Vernal, UT
Vernal Utah Real Estate
I left the home of one of my almost two year old granddaughters. So silly.  I have 3 granddhildren born that same year.  What a delight.!
Apr 26, 2008 06:00 PM
Ken Tracy
Coldwell Banker Residential - Naperville, IL
Helping clients buy and sell since 2005

Hi Carol and Jason.  Thanks for reading.

We had Erin's two year birthday yesterday.

I think she had a great time.

Ken

Apr 27, 2008 04:24 AM