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I don't care when you were potty trained as long as you are now.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

I'm a granddad, and I love it. Yep, my granddaughter will be 1 year old in a few weeks, and I couldn't be happier. I've always heard that having grand-kids is different, and it's more than the fact that you can hand them back when you get worn out. By the time our granddaughter arrived, we were both older, well experienced in life and had learned not to care what a lot of people think about a lot of things. 

Of course, I still hear the same old questions. "Is she walking yet?" "Is she potty trained." "Does she still have a nukie (what we always called a pacifier)?" "My daughter walked at . . . ." "My son was potty trained at . . ." You know what? I don't care. It doesn't matter when, it just matters "that" it happens at some point. My father-in-law always said, "God didn't call us to race them. He called us to raise them." Words of wisdom for all young parents.

What does this have to do with real estate? I recently had an agent who was irritated with me call to give me a lecture. He started his diatribe with, "I've been in the business for . . . . years, and I've sold . . . . houses, and I've won . . . . awards, and . . . . " It's potty training competition time.

When a baby is potty trained probably won't have any impact on when he gets his first job promotion. What will get that promotion is how well he does his job, how he interacts with others, how he communicates, how he gets things done. No one will care when he was potty trained when the deal is done. No, they'll be thankful that he was a professional with the skills to complete a task.

I really don't care when you were potty trained as long as you are now, and I don't care what you accomplished over the last decade as long as you can accomplish the task set before you today in a competent professional manner. Let's be grown-ups in business and make good things happen. 

Comments(30)

Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

A fleeting thought.  If a child recalls the potty training experience, I suspect that it took a tad longer than should heve.

Aug 14, 2015 12:28 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Mike - Only you could create an analogy between the agent bragging about years in the business and all their awards, WITH potty training.  Too funny!

That analogy gets funnier when you realize that kids who were forced into potty training too early, often end up wetting the bed for years, because of all the pressure!

Aug 14, 2015 11:35 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

 

Aug 15, 2015 10:50 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Mike, I'm sitting here LMAO.....I love this post and your sense of humor!  Well done sir.

Aug 15, 2015 10:31 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Mike Cooper ,

OMG..love this post! You are so right...let's be grownups and and make good things happen. No resting on your laurels......get it done! Caught your post in Kathy Streib's post this morning..grest choice to feature!

Aug 15, 2015 10:33 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Mike. What a cutey. I agree with your conclusion and comparison too. 

Aug 15, 2015 10:40 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Mike - Great perspective and I love the pictures!  I so agree with you.

Aug 15, 2015 10:43 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Mike, some things just don't matter as much as people think! Enjoy your day!

Aug 15, 2015 11:06 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

A terrific analogy, Mike, and a message some people really need to take to heart!

Aug 15, 2015 11:18 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

I can't imagine my thoughts or reactions if someone said I needed to be potty trained!  As Nina said, great analogy!

Aug 16, 2015 07:33 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Should have been featured!  So glad Kathy shared it!  EXCELLENT!

Those bragging parents will make you crazy and I love your attitude to it all....

you are right it doesn't mean a thing in the scheme of things!

By the way, I'm sure you hear it all the time, but that is one ADORABLE baby girl you've got there!

Aug 16, 2015 08:00 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Let's be grown ups...wow, what a concept!!!  Amazing that many in the business have not learned the lesson!

Aug 16, 2015 09:39 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great message here Mike, in parenting, in business and in relationships in the rain.

 

Aug 16, 2015 12:04 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Mike great post, and enjoyed seeing that beautiful granddaughter.

Aug 16, 2015 12:53 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Great photos, Granddad, and a wonderful message.  Thanks to Kathy for sharing!

Aug 16, 2015 01:23 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Mike Cooper 

As a granddad myself I think this is a most appropriate analogy. Some agents are still working on potty training and having some issue getting there. It's all about control!

Glad Kathy shared this, otherwise I may have missed your wise words!

Jeff

Aug 16, 2015 01:43 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I find - in any business - if someone says, "I've been in this business [x] years and this is the way we do it," that you've come up with a way to do something that puts their way of doing something in jeopardy. Or they feel threatened in some way. Or they hate change. Whatever, it's all their issue.

As for potty training and your granddaughter, she's adorable and she'll be potty trained whenever the time is right. 

 

Aug 16, 2015 09:44 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

A well prepared analogy along with a very happy looking smile on the little one.

Aug 17, 2015 12:30 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Mike - your point is very well made here.  When people learn and start is not important.  How they do there job now is what matter.

Aug 19, 2015 03:37 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Mike, this post is great; makes me smile; and--it's true, too!

Aug 19, 2015 02:51 PM