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Are You Growth Focused? Inspiration Series

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752

Are You Growth Focused? Inspiration Series

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I heard a great quote the other day by a leading professional coach/mentor, Christian Simpson.  I was on a coaching call with him when he said, "There is no growth in your comfort zone."  How very true this statement is!

 

As a former Biology teacher one of the first lessons I taught my students was regarding growth. For a living thing to be considered "living", it has to be growing. When the growth stops, the organism dies.

 

As people, why do many of us believe that we no longer need to grow? Personal, emotional, spiritual, business and interpersonal growth is essential if we are to get out of that comfort zone and continue in a growth zone. Stagnation stinks and is ugly.

 

As I listened to John Maxwell last week, he spoke on what he has observed in growing older. No mind you he is no spring chicken at the age of 68, yet he is choosing to not BE old. He pointed out the distinct differences between people growing older and those who choose to"BE" old.  Big difference!

 

Old people he said: (those who choose to be OLD)

  • Stop asking questions, stop learning & lose their curiosity.
  • Lose interest in life.
  • Lower their standards.
  • Self-absorbed by health, medications, etc.
  • Talk about yesterday.  They focus on where they are rather than experiencing where they could be.

 

We are all growing older.  That is a fact.  This fact doesn't mean however, that we still can't learn new things, keep our minds sharp and make a difference in this world.

 

I am choosing the path of continuous challenge, learning and growth. God gifted each one of us with unlimited potential. Don't allow your potential to be lost because you think you don't have anything of value to give.  Choose to grow today, tomorrow and the next day! 

 

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Comments(25)

Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Growing... Your post reminds of an old Navy Master Chief who taught at a school I attended.  He said something like "You need to keep learning because if not you are in a rut.  And a rut is just a grave with the ends cut out."  His message may have been a bit crude but it was true.  You learn, you grow.

Aug 19, 2015 12:37 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Gary L. Waters, Broker Owner Waters Realty of Brevard, LLC I think your old Navy Master hit the nail on the head.  I love this.

Aug 19, 2015 12:39 AM
Kate McQueen
Realty Associates Texas - Cypress, TX
Tailored service for your real estate needs!

Very inspiriting post!  Not only is there no growth in your comfort zone, it's terribly boring as well!  I had never thought of aging quite that way, choosing to BE old or choosing to GROW old.  Love it!

Aug 19, 2015 12:45 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Thank you Kate McQueen, REALTOR® I know that I am choosing to NOT BE old!  No way, no how!  My 56th birthday is in a few months and I am embracing it.

Aug 19, 2015 12:51 AM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

There are moments in life where we need to "jog in place" but never long enough to wear out the sidewalk underneath us. We still ultimately need to keep moving forward.

Aug 19, 2015 01:21 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

So right Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert and great way of putting this!

Aug 19, 2015 01:26 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Getting old is a fact of life - acting old is not.  My mother used to exclaim that she didn't recognize the old woman in the mirror because her inside didn't match her outside.  That's what I'm aiming for.

Aug 19, 2015 01:31 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Good for you Margaret Goss I am right there with you. Let's kick up our heels!

Aug 19, 2015 01:33 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Paula I had to smile when I thought of 'old' people. My Mom was never 'old' she was young at heart, always learning new stuff, fun and full of life and never considered herself 'old'. Even when they lived in a 'senior' community she'd say - I'm going over to the other wing to visit the 'old' folks. Then she laugh and say - Oh I suppose some think that would be me - naaaaa!  I am grateful to have had such a fabulous mentor of life!

Aug 19, 2015 02:33 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Thanks Paula, I choose not to be old but to continue learning. Keep them coming so we can continue growing!

Aug 19, 2015 02:38 AM
Sonja Patterson
Keller Williams - BV - College Station, TX
Texas Monthly 5-Star Realtor Recipient for the Hou

Paula, I love your post! I especially like how you highlighted we need to grow in all areas:  "Personal, emotional, spiritual, business and interpersonal growth is essential "

Aug 19, 2015 03:25 AM
Thomas F. Scanlon
Borgida & Company P. C., CPA's - Manchester, CT
CPA, CFP

Paula McDonald - Well done.  Having an abundance mentality keeps me young at heart.

Cheers,

Tom

Aug 19, 2015 04:17 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Anna Banana Kruchten your mother sounds like my kind of person.  Love the picture you painted of her!

Aug 19, 2015 06:04 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Growing and learning are very important to me and I spend considerable hours making sure I am doing both! Great post Paula!

Aug 19, 2015 11:34 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Paula.  When I  grow up I want to be a successful leader of real estate agents.  When I get there I'll let you know 

Aug 19, 2015 07:55 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I know people who were "old" in their forties.  Sad, really.  It's so true that if we are in our comfort zone, we are not growing. Stepping outside that zone can lead to wonderful things.

Aug 19, 2015 08:49 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Plenty of time for comfort...How about some adventure? Exploration? Mystery?

Aug 19, 2015 11:47 PM
Christine Faeth
The Faeth Team - Ann Arbor, MI
"Helping You Make the Right Move"

Great inspirational post! 

 

Aug 20, 2015 04:29 AM
S. Leanne Paynter ☼ Broward County, FL
United Realty Group, Inc. - Davie, FL
Davie, Plantation, Cooper City & Weston Specialist

I'm loving your inspiration series!  It's so important to stay focused & inspired.

Aug 20, 2015 05:00 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thanks Paula!

It is so important to get out of our comfort zones and live.

Aug 21, 2015 02:06 PM