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Dalmatians aren't born with Spots and Neither are You

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Zion Realty

Did you know that Dalmatians are not born with their signature spots? They get their spots as they grow and mature. Each dalmatian puppy gets their spots at their own pace as nature intended. Their patterns are unique. Some have more spots than others yet their health and wellness is not dependent upon the markings, whether they be in abundance or sparse. 

Generally speaking, successful entrepreneurs and business owners are much like the dalmatian. They come in to the world of commerce like the many others that came before them. Their dreams and ideas were cultivated in the womb of thought and preparation before thought gave birth to action. 

Every professional grows and matures at their own pace. Some walk quicker than the rest of the litter while others stumble as they learn how to navigate the ground below them. There are those who are naturally gifted with the confidence and ability to venture out from the herd the first chance they get. Meanwhile, the not so self-assured take a little more time to wander from safety.

Everyone has a different background and upbringing. Our parents, friends, neighborhoods, and schools weave in to us our social and professional DNA. We all have our own roads we've traveled. Some have experienced a more winding and bumpy road than the rest. There are those who had college and trust funds set up for them by parents or grandparents. If you were lucky enough to be born in to an affluent part of the Country you may have had a better chance at internships, scholarships, or business opportunities. 

But just because you developed more spots than others early on doesn't guarantee you'll be first pick of the litter when it comes down to finding your home in the business world. There's a lot to be said about that scrappy, rambunctious, go-getter who may not have the best markings but they are running circles around the rest of the group. 

Dalmatians can't do math(as far as I know). They can't count how many spots each of them have and even if they could I doubt they would care. There is no pecking order or hierarchy when it comes to spots on dogs. The different personalities is what sets them apart. If you stand back and watch puppies play you can tell who is dominant, shy, playful, reserved, friendly, or aggressive. It has nothing to do with the skin that they're in. 

So as a business professional are you worried about the spots on others? Do you look at their coat and yours to see if you measure up? What if your competition was spawned by a top level pedigree while you came from two mangy mutts? I'm suggesting to you that it doesn't matter one bit where you came from or how many spots you have versus others. Be the professional you were born to be. 

There is one exception to the spotted rule of dalmatians. On occasion there is a puppy born with one solitary spot which can be located anywhere on their bodies. They call it a "patch". You could look at these special select puppies and say they are born with a decided advantage to their counterparts. After all they got a jump start on the competition and they didn't do anything to earn or achieve it. 

The "patch" dalmatian puppies are a perfect example to show us that the beginning does not dictate the ending. The initial and special patch is in no way an indicator of total overall spot production. Every other puppy in the litter may end up with more spots than the one who appeared to have a jump start on the rest. 

But what if someone wasn't happy with their spot count? What if they decided to paint a few fake ones on themselves thinking others would see the plethora of markings and surely give them the attention they aren't getting currently? The problem with fake spots is that they fade, wash away, and disappear over time. You'll also find yourself constantly reapplying and touching up those spots that were never supposed to be there which will leave you exhausted. 

Time, maturity, productivity and personality is what will set you apart. You might not have started out with a perceived advantage and you may not end up with the most spots on your coat but not everyone is looking for those distinctions. You were born to be you. Don't worry about how many spots you have versus others. Just go out there and play. Roll around in the grass, chase some cats, and bark at passing cars. Over time, you'll end up with the exact amount of spots you were always meant to have. 

Comments(65)

Nancy Chenevey
The Chenevey Group - Ann Arbor, MI
"Showing You the Way Home"

This is a fantastic post. And the cute puppy pictures don't hurt either!

Aug 28, 2015 04:29 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert ~ what a great post and analogy, Nicole, and also very well thought out. The puppy pictures too cute for words!

Aug 28, 2015 04:45 AM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Endre - Thanks so much Endre. That means a lot from such a well respected blogger such as yourself!

Debbie - Share away! Thanks Debbie!

Nancy - Who can resist a puppy?

Nina - New blogging rule; If you're ever at a loss for what to write about just write about puppies!

Aug 28, 2015 08:04 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Nicole

We all are born spot free . . . . in our lives journey we develop our character . . . . and earn our spots to become the person that we are meant to be.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Aug 28, 2015 11:07 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

 

                  Thank you, Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert  for my ah ha moment. 

Aug 29, 2015 10:35 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

This is a really cool post. I love dogs and this message. Have a great Sunday!

Aug 29, 2015 10:20 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert  I love this post.... and the photo of the pups....the points and analogy is just perfect.... soooo nicely written.... and congrats on the feature by AR and Kathy....

Aug 29, 2015 10:26 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

You never cease to amaze me.  Love the analogy.....very well written post my friend.

Aug 29, 2015 10:28 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Nicole,"born to be you" says it all! It is up to you! Enjoy your day!

Aug 29, 2015 11:43 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I am glad that I didnt miss your post, thanks to Kathy's weekly summary!

Aug 30, 2015 12:13 AM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Lou - Exactly Lou. We earn our spots. 

Kathy - Thanks so much Kathy! It's always an honor!

Gary - It's hard not to love puppies! 

Barbara - Thank you Barbara. That means a lot coming from you!

Roger - I'll have to think of an analogy between having two knee replacements and being a success in life. Just you wait, I'll do it!

Wayne - It goes against the principle of "everyone gets a trophy". No, everyone is different and you need to play to your strengths.

Kristin - Thanks for stopping by. I'm glad you enjoyed the post!

Aug 30, 2015 01:08 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

First of all, those pictures are fabulous. Such cute puppies.

Second, this was really a wonderful analogy. We do all grow at our own pace, both within our careers and within our own skin.  

Aug 30, 2015 02:04 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

What a beautiful post. Thanks Nicole - and thanks for the lesson about Dalmations, too. I didn't know that about them. 

Aug 30, 2015 04:16 AM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Nicole...What a great analogy. You taught me something about Dalmations. Thanks for that and for the reminder that we are individuals with our own unique attributes and it is up to us to be the best we can be. 

Kate

Aug 30, 2015 12:45 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Nicole -- Great post and a well-deserved gold star.  Lots of insight.   A wonderful analogy.   And you can't go wrong with cute puppy pics. 

Aug 30, 2015 10:26 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Good morning Nicole, how did I miss this great post? Thanks to Kathy, I read a great one.

Aug 30, 2015 11:45 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Kat - Especially in our own skin. It took me until my early 30's for that.

Marte - Thanks Marte! I'm glad you liked it.

Kate - We all have our own personalities and we should play to our strengths.

Michael - You can never go wrong with puppies!

Beth - I'm so honored to be featured by Kathy and I'm glad you liked it!

Aug 31, 2015 12:05 AM
Mery Fernandez Empire Network Realty Luxury Brokerage
Empire Network Realty INC. - Orlando, FL
The Rise of An Empire, Let's Build Yours!

Hello and congratulations on your featured blog post! Well done and hope to see you have many more featured post. 

Sep 01, 2015 01:12 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

I love what you did with this post Nicole and you got the message across loud and clear! I think everyone Broker should get you to sign this one and ask permission to hang it up in their Brokerage firm.

Outstanding Nicole!!!

Nov 27, 2015 09:17 PM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

As always Patricia Feager, MBA, GRI, Cert Negotiations Expert, Military Relo Prof  you are so generous and kind with your words! Thank you so much for your support! I had forgotten about this post. 

Nov 27, 2015 11:36 PM