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I Finally Met an Active Rain Friend - my Accountability Partner!

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Real Estate Agent with @Properties

In August of 2012 I wrote a blog about starting a relationship with an "accountability partner" (Want to Accountability PartnerKnow How to Achieve Your Goals?  Get an Accountability Partner.)  I can proudly say that Deb McNeil from Ft. Worth, Texas and I have talked almost every week since that date.  

We have talked about illnesses, children, vacations, husbands, the weather, and, oh yeah . . goals.  We speak every Monday and discuss what we are going to do that week to enhance and advance our business.  

It's the verbalization of those goals to someone else that makes it real for me.  After I've told Deb what I plan to work on for that week, darn it, I do it.  I can't NOT do it.  I'd be a liar!

I'll admit, some of those tasks have been completed Sunday night at bedtime, but as I said, they got done. I want to be able to tell her that I accomplished the goal.  Life isn't perfect though and sometimes real estate deals intrude upon our little goal-achieving scheme, and some goals do get put off.  But never for long.

When Deb and I talked two weeks ago she surprised me by telling me that she and her husband  were going to spend a long weekend in Chicago.  We would finally get to meet in person!

Today, I picked Deb and her husband Tim up at the Winnetka train station.  We had lunch and I proceeded to take them for a tour of Winnetka, Wilmette, and Glencoe - just like I would for relocating buyers.  

We had a really good time and it was wonderful to meet this special friend and her pilot husband in person.  It's another Active Rain perk that so many of us talk about -  the people we meet here that become friends - even when we don't meet in person.  I just got lucky.

So get ready Deb - one of these days I'll appear at your Texas doorstep in the middle of one of our Chicago winters!  We can have lunch and it'll be your turn to drive around.

 

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Comments(14)

Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

It's always a great day when you are able to finally meet a long time Rainer friend in person.  And what a great idea to have an accountability partner.  Love it!

Aug 28, 2015 07:53 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Featured in the group:  BARTENDER, MAKE IT A DOUBLE.

Aug 28, 2015 07:53 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Chris Ann Cleland - thank you, I love it too.  

Aug 28, 2015 07:55 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Margaret -- I love this post -- accountability and friendship -- a perfect combination and a feature in one of my favorite groups.   

Aug 28, 2015 07:58 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

hi Michael Jacobs - it is a good combo - and what a thrill to finally meet!

 

Aug 28, 2015 08:06 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Margaret it is always such a treat to meet AR friends in person. So glad you two were finally able to meet in person. Love that your accountability partners!

Aug 28, 2015 08:28 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Margaret,  This inspired me to recruit an accountability partner. I used to have one years ago and life got in the way. It's time to revisit having an accountability partner.  Such a wonderful thing that you got to met Deb and her husband and spend some quality time together.  Where else but in the Rain?

Aug 28, 2015 09:05 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Margaret - It is one thing to develop a friendship here on AR, but you take it to the next level when you actually get to meet that person. Glad you two were finally able to meet.

Having someone make you accountable for your goals/actions does put a little added pressure on you to get it done.

Aug 28, 2015 09:36 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Anna Banana Kruchten - thank you - I really love that we do this too

Kathleen Daniels - really, where else but in the Rain!

Troy Erickson - yes, and I'm the type of person that needs that added pressure 

Aug 28, 2015 09:47 AM
David Gibson CNE, 719-304-4684 ~ Colorado Springs Relocation
Colorado Real Estate Advisers LLC - Colorado Springs, CO
Relocation, Luxury & Lifestyle residential

Margaret,

That is super and you are both ahead of the game because of it. Thanks for the good example.

Aug 28, 2015 10:15 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Your post is the essence of what AR is all about, Margaret Goss.  It's certainly been a bonus of membership here ... and a very welcome surprise.  Who knew?  But now future members do via your post ...

Gene

Sep 02, 2015 03:20 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Love that you two speak on a weekly schedule and finally got to meet in person.

Sep 05, 2015 12:38 PM
Anonymous
"TLC" Tammy

Hello, I'm looking for an accountability partner for my real estate business. I signed up for a productivity course and the 7 other agents in my assigned group have every excuse why they are unavailable to keep their commitment to our 30 minute accountability call. The instructor's solution was for me to sign up for a Coach commitment which of course costs money. I'm committed to finding another realtor who truly wants an accountability partner on a daily basis. Any ideas?

Sep 06, 2015 07:24 AM
#13
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

"TLC" Tammy - why don't you join Active Rain - it doesn't seem like you're a member.  If you do that, you can reach out to thousands of agents across the country.  That's how I found Deb.

Sep 06, 2015 09:05 AM