| My training call is every Thursday at 3pm, with the exception of once a month. When I get off the phone, I have homework to do and pride myself on completing it before the following Thursday. Well, all I can say is that this was a tough week. I am not going to bore you with all the details, just know... It was REALLY a tough week. Are you getting the picture yet? LOL I have been learning how to change my way of thinking. Not just in business, but also as a person. The whole thinking creates action which gives us our results thought process. I can tell you that it is true. Mentally I had so much happening that I didn't accomplish anything of real substance except for putting two properties under contract. My thinking process had been altered and it was my fault. I
let my surroundings make my week unproductive. |
| Ok, for some two contracts would be a fantastic week. That part was great. However, here is where I let things get out of control. It is "The Secret", the law of attraction. There was a lot of negative vibes around me this week and I was roped in. It was weird this time though, it was different than any other way I have ever been roped in. I became angry. I couldn't understand why people can't understand how we think, how we act, or that who we associate with all effects our direction and and who we become. Is it that hard? For some, it is. The entire week, I just felt beat down. I felt like everyone was trying to destroy everything I have been working so hard to live by and the changes that I have been trying to implement. I really needed my Thursday call with Katerina. I somehow missed an email from Katerina
needing to change the time of our call. So, since I didn't know better, I called at 3pm, straight up. Her and Nestor were heading out the door. Sigh, I needed the call and it had to wait. That is when it happened. A realization...No one had ruined my week, but me! I put myself in that situation, I allowed those people to beat me down. I allowed their negativism to bring me down from my three week high. What was I thinking? How could I let this happen? I am still human....lol Just a few minutes ago, I hung up the phone from Katerina. We spent our hour talking about a mixture of things, but I did something that I have never done before with anyone, not even my husband. I opened up and shared some things from growing up that was really painful, but yet it allowed Katrina to figure out where some of my thoughts come from. It felt good to share this with her, I felt a weird kind of relief. Katerina and I
actually have quite a few things in common. I think that this is why I am so comfortable talking to her. We have the same point of view on a lot of subjects. We have similar issues with our children...lol What I like most though, she is very down to earth, understands that we all have things we have to deal with and most importantly isn't judgmental at all. So I have my homework assignment for the week. I committed to doing something and she will hold me accountable to that. My lesson learned this week: People can try and rain on my parade, but I am the only one who can allow it. From now on, they need to find a new parade. |
