Life can surprise you.

This has been a week of good and bad.  The weather has been absolutely spectacular.  Warm, sunny.  There are daffodils and flowering trees everywhere.  My two favorite trees are in bloom at the same time.  my two favorite treesI got one listing under contract and did a successful agreement on another.  (God willing they will both pass inspection).  Worked out 4 days at the gym and had a lot of laughs with the friends I have made there. 

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In a seemingly good week, a dear friend got some very bad news about her health and had surgery yesterday.  Then she got some better news following it but we are still waiting for the biopsy reports. 

prayingShe's in wonderful spirits today and not feeling much pain. 

Wednesday night I got home late from work, made a plate of nachos and poured a glass of wine.  I stood up with the empty plate of nachos and the almost full glass of wine and felt dizzy.  Tried to lean on the wall for a second and the next thing I knew, my 11 year old was standing next to me and I was on the floor.  Red wine and broken glass everywhere.  I hit my head very badly and got a cut over my left eye.  I get these little dizzy spells every now and again, but they pass in seconds.  I've had them all my life and have never found a doctor who felt they were important enough to pay attention to before. 

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Never fell down before, and as for the bang on the head, well, I think God could have found a gentler way of reminding me that maybe I should go and try to talk to a doctor about it. 

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Which brings me to the subject of my blog.  Life is full of surprises.  Both good and bad.  As Realtors, we all understand this instinctively as we live it every day.  One minute you are on top of the world, 3 sales in a week, 4 lisings.  The next minute, 3 bad home inspections and the sellers of the 4 listings decide not to take the transfers.  On the other hand, one minute you are down in the dumps because you have no settlements coming up and absolutely no prospects and then the next minute you check your email and an old client is moving back into the area.  I think our profession teaches us to roll with the punches.  Every day we are reminded to celebrate the good news and take the bad news with a grain of salt (sometimes on the glass of a tall drink).

I've written a lot about the many good friends I have been so blessed to have.  Two of them insisted I go the doctor's office yesterday.  There's a new doc in town (Dr. Tanya Zelensky, M.D.) and she actually listened to the story of my brief dizzy spells and mini black outs and decided it was time to run some tests.  First off was a cat scan just to make sure the fall on my noggin didn't shake anything important loose.  I don't have the results yet, but I'm thinking, if anything shakes loose, maybe it will be a good thing.  Because in this business, you never know.

 

 
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16 Comments on Life can surprise you.

Susan - Great post - thanks for sharing about your situation.  I hope things turn out well for both you and your friend.  It's so true that this business brings a lot of ups and downs and we have to roll with the flow.  I always find that when one opprotunity disappears another one presents itself - just like you said.  Best wishes.

04/19/2008 11:37 AM by Lynn Johnson, Owatonna, MN Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Home Connection)


Susan - lots to think about - and you're right about the ups and downs come as they may..hmm....I hope that the tests with your daughter turn out all right - i don't know what the problems might be but I hope for both you and your daughter they're informative and positive.

04/19/2008 11:40 AM by Liz Moras, Re/Max Associate Broker Chilliwack (Vancouver), B.C. (Remax Nyda Realty Chilliwack B.C.)


I can't wait until our trees start to flower around here, a few daffodils and crocus have gotten brave enough to pop out, but no buds of leaves are flowers yet on the trees.  Hope your doctor finds a simple, easy to fix cause for your dizzy spells.  When I was younger and thinner I had very low blood pressure, when I would stand up I often lost my vision for a few moments and everything would go totally black.  Funny what you get used to, I would just stand still until my vision returned and think nothing of it.  I haven't had that happen in years but your situation brought it back to mind,  

04/19/2008 12:09 PM by Beth Anderson ~ Tecumseh / Lenawee County ~Realtor (Success, Realtors)


Susan:  Thank you for joining the Optimist Group!  Thank you for posting this insightful blog here!

As for the dizzy spells:  have you been tested for anemia?  Your symptoms are so blatantly indicative of that, I can't believe that doctors would not test you for that first.  If you are anemic, please consider some very easy holistic remedies like folic acid (from the health food store), along with Floradix iron (also from the health food store) and a change in diet (no more nachos for dinner; green leafy vegetables instead, along with some broiled fish or chicken).  Sometimes chronic digestive problems can lead to chronic anemia, in which case you need to cure the underlying issue, along with treating the anemia.  There is a very good book you can find readily available: Prescription for Nutritional Healingby Phyllis Balch.

I like the points you make in your blog! 

 

 

 

04/19/2008 01:26 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


Dear Mirela,  thanks for the reply.  What I didn't add in my blog was that these episodes are always preceeded by eating and embarrassingly enough, a small, swallowed burp.  Right after I do that, it happens.  I am sure it is related to that and to my lower than average blood pressure but the doctor wants an EEG next week because it sounds like something called Absent Seizures.  Thanks for the reply and enjoy the day!

04/19/2008 02:04 PM by Susan Mangigian, West Chester PA Realtor RE/MAX Preferred, ABR (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A)


Great post. It's very true to be able to roll with the punches in this business and to never get to high or low. We have to continue to be happy and to feel good and great things will continue to come are way. Thanks.

04/19/2008 02:12 PM by Team Harpers (West USA Premier Properties)


Susan!  I'm glad you found a doctor to take you seriously, and that you have good friends to insist on it.  You can't let them blow you off with something that important!  Let us know how the tests turn out. (haha you're being scolded from california!  how do you like that?)

04/19/2008 04:08 PM by Chris Fisher of StagersLIST.com Buy Stage Sell (StagersLIST.com)


It's true, life is full of unexpected ups and downs. As you so wisely observe, the best we can do is take it as it comes.

04/19/2008 05:58 PM by Rosario Lewis, GRI ~ DDR Realty, Orange County, NY (DDR Realty)


Glad to hear that this last spell was enough to get you to the doctor:) Thank goodness you have friends that care about you!  Take care

It's a Good Life!

Fran

04/19/2008 06:18 PM by Frances C. Rokicki, Broker~Mentor (Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC)


Magnolia Ave. LARKSPUR

 

Hope to make you feel better... when the beauty smiles at us, we smile right back!

I have a friend of mine with "petit mal seizures" symptom. After several investigations and lab tests they came out to be a calcium deficiency. Some times also can be magnesium deficiency or hypoparathyroidism.

I am sure you'll be ok.

Take care!

 

 

 

04/20/2008 03:12 AM by Arina Hanciulescu (ELITE REALTY)


Dear Arina,  Many thanks for the beautiful picture and your good wishes.  I appreciate them both.

Fran & Chris, Thanks for the messages.  I have a hard head, but when I hit it, I paid attention!

Lynn, Liz, Beth, Rosario,  Thanks!!

 

04/20/2008 07:07 PM by Susan Mangigian, West Chester PA Realtor RE/MAX Preferred, ABR (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A)


Susan, I'm glad you found a doctor who has taken some interest in your situation.  That is not a ordinary way of life, and your other doctors should have done some testing long ago.  I do hope the outcome is good.  My prayers are with you and your family.

04/20/2008 07:50 PM by Bob Cumiskey, US Army Retired, Your Sun City Center, Florida ~ Realtor (A 1 Connection Realty, Inc.)


Great post...In this business or life you never know what you will get. I couldn't agree with you more.....Each circumstance will only make us stronger in the end..Best wishes

04/26/2008 11:58 AM by Aundrea Damrell (Pennington Realty Company)


Susan, as a woman we usually put everyone else above ourselves, but you must take care of yourself. Glad you found a doctor and hope everything is okay with your health, because the sells will come!

04/28/2008 08:16 AM by Sharon Hampton (Re/Max Around The Mountains)


Sharon,  Thanks for the kind words.  So far, I appear to be fine.  I haven't gotten the result of the last test.  From your mouth to God's ears about the sales coming!

04/28/2008 09:32 AM by Susan Mangigian, West Chester PA Realtor RE/MAX Preferred, ABR (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A)


Susan, today was my day to dig through Susan's old posts since I think you are such a TERRIFIC writer when it comes to human nature. This title and topic caught my eye because it has been a life lesson I learned. Life will surprise you and People will DEFINITELY surprise you at times. I am so amazed how wrong I have been about life AND people at times with each surprising me positively or negatively when I thought the opposite. You, my dear friend, have always exceeded my wildest expectations with your niceness, your sense of humor, and your honesty. I just wanted to drop by and wish you well and hope you had/have a wonderful Mothers Day. Hope whatever dizzy spells you mentioned here in this particular post about getting conked on the head have cleared up by now, or you may be saying Gary, Gary who? : )

05/11/2008 04:12 PM by Gary Woltal - REALTORĀ® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty)


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