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The Parallels of Life and a Real Estate Purchase

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Real Estate Agent with Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 REB.0759001

The Parallels of Life and a Real Estate Purchase

There is much angst that transpires while working through the real estate transaction. The stress of waiting for the seller to accept the contract and hopefully not reject our terms.

stressedThen there's the inspections which we so hope will go through with no surprises and if there are issues that they can be worked through favorably for all.

Then there's the period of time, I call the dark days, while the underwriters do their thing and on occasion crack open the entrance to their caves and ask for additional information, only to hunker back down to complete their tasks.

All of this leading to the anticipated day when we get the news, yes it is a go, or no you do not qualify and then the feelings are shattered maybe even resolved to not do it again.

Or in a life situation, you are told you may have issues and testing must be done. Prodding, poking, analysis, more poking, and the stress as the process began with, there is a problem.

After weeks of anticipation, that door opens, and the papers are shuffled while you anxiously await the towards, knowing that the possibilities exist of trying times ahead.

Then the words are spoken: it's benign. It's the weight of the world taken off your shoulders and for the first time in weeks a genuine smile of joy.  Merry Christmas you think, yes it is.

After hearing those words this morning, I know I will have a lot more sympathy for my clients in the future.

The Parallels of Life and a Real Estate Purchase

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Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Great analogy - and yes, I hope you have a very merry Christmas! and that 2016 is a happy new year! 

Dec 22, 2015 12:50 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Ed very well written and I loved the analogy, Merry Christmas to you as well, Endre

Dec 22, 2015 02:23 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great news in life and in Real Estate, Merry Christmas to you and yours Ed!

Dec 22, 2015 02:47 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Ed. You analogy make good sense. I know one thing for sure, you clients are very fortunate to be working with you.

Dec 22, 2015 07:07 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Ed.  Great analogy.  Congratulations on being a double millionaire next month.

Dec 22, 2015 07:51 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Good morning Ed. I totally understand. This business is not for the faint of heart - no matter what side of the fence you are on.

Dec 22, 2015 08:44 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Ed, life and purchasing a home can be very stressful, and when you hear clear to close, it does get easier! 

Dec 22, 2015 09:41 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Oh, Ed!!!! Wow, that one packed a punch at the end. I am thrilled for you and your wife that the "B" word is not the "M" word! Blessings upon you and well-written. 

Dec 23, 2015 01:43 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Gayle, when the doctor said Hi, and then said I was better than I thought I almost jumped off my seat.  That's when he gave me the news.  I floated for the rest of the day after being on nerves for almost 2 months

Dec 23, 2015 02:18 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate

I can't think of a better "gift" for this holiday. 

Dec 23, 2015 02:25 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed glad to hear it will be a Merry Christmas.  You and your family deserve nothing less, and hope there will many, many more Merry Christmas's to come.

Dec 23, 2015 08:37 AM
Karen Winters, Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices KoenigRubloff
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Koenig Rubloff Realty Group - Chicago, IL - Chicago, IL
Chicago, IL

"while the underwriters do their thing and on occasion crack open the entrance to their caves and ask for additional information, only to hunker back down to complete their tasks."  --Yep, that's exactly how it seems!  LOL 

So happy for your good news.  Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Dec 23, 2015 10:54 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

oh yes I know the feeling well Merry Christmas Ed Silva 

Dec 23, 2015 12:54 PM