Musings on the Soul of the Blogger

Are we angelic?What is at the soul of a real estate blogger?

I have often wondered over the months since I became one. At least I envision myself as a blogger. Maybe I’m fooling myself. But unless someone tells me otherwise…

  • What is it that causes us to put fingers to keyboard to try and create literary masterpieces?
  • What motivates folks to spend countless hours composing, editing, taking photos, and creating videos, and forgoing personal and family time to sit hunched over a keyboard?

Is it points here on AR?  If so, what is the impetus for writing when no points are earned?  What rewards do we accrue?

Is it the potential for new business? What about when no business is forthcoming or is elusive?

The mechanics of blogging are relatively simple. You need your brain (although some may dispute this, given what we sometimes read), your fingers (well, you can record short blogs on your phone via JOTT), a keyboard and computer, Internet access, a blogging platform and you’re good to go. Heck, you can create a vlog with your voice and your digital camera (yep, still need the computer), a simple undertaking save for those who are digitally challenged or overly cautious.

Apart from what we have learned about SEO and other intricacies of acquiring traffic, improving rank, and gaining trust from the search engines, it seems it is the soul of the blogger…our values, our emotional maturity, and, yes, our egos…that converts the simple mechanics of blogging to something more eloquent and emotive. It is the soul whereby words become the person, convey a reputation, reveal a personality, and create a bond with those who peruse our writings.

I would argue there is a bit of ego involved, like it or not. Consider this – the possibility of hundreds, perhaps thousands of potential readers of any given post. A bit scary, true, when starting out, but who does not feel a tab bit proud of having lots of eyes tracing our humble words on a screen? Of having accolades heaped upon us for a job well done, a perspective no one has considered, a revelation. But can this not lead to an arrogance of attitude, a belief that one knows better than others, or is right while others are not? Or is that the motive for the blogger, not the result of blogging?

Angry manThe blogger’s soul emerges in ways that, perhaps, are unintended or outside our awareness. The anonymity of the Internet allows, even encourages, an outpouring of emotions and attitudes, both negative and positive, which may enthrall or irritate. One can revel in sharing one’s feelings, beliefs and values without the fear of direct confrontation and retribution. It is this anonymity that allows the deeper reaches of the blogger’s soul to seek recognition, to express itself where the normal parameters of society might otherwise intervene. It gives the soul a freedom to express, as well as permission to misbehave.

I contend that much of what the blogger’s soul reveals is less intentional than we might like to think. While we might consciously insert keywords, and tags to play the elusive SEO game and convince the search engines of our worthiness, or actively strive to write what we believe or are told we should, much more is revealed unintentionally, and as a by-product of our inner motivations, values, beliefs and emotions.

An ego modelPerhaps it is a need to control, to demonstrate superiority, to put down those who we somehow see as threatening. It may be feelings of inadequacy or insecurity that cause the soul to lash out in harmful, bitter ways – with name calling, flaming, chastising, complaining, and ridicule. But, more importantly, it is the need to provide comfort and reassurance, to assist, to share and to educate, to empathize and sympathize, to seek out the companionship and bond among humans that emerges, and unleashes, a voice capable of changing the way in which we look at the world and inspiring us to a greater good.

That is the soul of the blogger.

 

Like it or not, it is that soul that IS the foundation of blogging and what ultimately emerges on the computer screen. While one might try to persuade others we are something we are not in our writing, the very nature of blogging itself unveils the true blogger’s soul, baring ourselves to the scrutiny of our readers, and exposing our innermost feelings, motivations and attitudes…our true self.

What does YOUR soul reveal in YOUR blogging?

 
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60 Comments on Musings on the Soul of the Blogger

I think blogging and real estate agent is the "perfect storm!"  Good post and I am pleased with the educational aspect of blogging.  I love to see what the rest of the country is doing.

04/22/2008 11:22 PM by Leslie Stewart – Realtor ®, CRS, eCertified (Prudential Real Estate Professionals)


I like it as a creative outlet.... it just feels good to craft a well balanced post... sort of like making a patchwork quilt, but a lot quicker and easier!

04/22/2008 11:29 PM by Georgina Hunter Maui Realtor (Jim Sanders Realty Inc. - Maui)


I find that blogging is a way of relaxing for me, to share my voice. Plus I love to talk to others in my trade, share ideas, inspire others, network, even educate. Excellent post! - Carla

04/22/2008 11:48 PM by Carla Harbert - RE/MAX Pros (www.LorainCountyHomeSales.com)


What a timely post Jeff, I have been wrestling with many questions you raised. I have never been a quitter but sometimes I really wonder if I shouldn't. Then I write something that touches someone and I am supercharged again. The highs and lows I suppose also reveal who I am, that I care that much and what my own needs are. Which then suggests that I may be doing this for other reasons beyond trying to keep my head above water in business ( eventually when I learn that it is all in the tags and being consistent - or being very lucky, which some have also proved they are). I have a lot to offer with a lot of experiences that most haven't had. The irony is that I can only write about that here on AR and it doesn't fit well for the public community on my own blog. What's in it for them if its about me? Nothing. It becomes a challenge but one that can be overcome with effort and knowledge of the consumers wants and needs.

 

04/23/2008 12:14 AM by The Real Estate Text Book authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


I blog specifically for business. I try to keep everything else out.  But I have issues that I care deeply about and my strong feelings come through loud and clear....you can like them or hate them - but you know if you read me where I stand. So a contradiction.....

04/23/2008 12:55 AM by Ruthmarie Hicks (Nelson-Vrooman GMAC)


I enjoy blogging for the exchange of knowledge and experiences with others who do this for a living.  It is also a great way for potential clients to check us out.

04/23/2008 03:26 AM by Randy L. Prothero - Hawaii REALTOR® (Century 21 Liberty Homes)


Jeff, it's a great morning to be philosophical as it is cloudy and dreary outside drawing me to be introspective rather than feeling guilty for not being outside.  I'm sure everyone will have a unique response to these thoughts and questions yet there are definitely some common threads that you describe beautifully.  For me, blogging started out as a business and then grew into a full-blown passion and even an obsession at times.  On AR it is definitely about the relationships and mutual support.  On my own blog it is about SEO Ranking.  But, it has also awakened a part of me that has been dormant since college...writing, researching and THINKING more deeply.  Does that make sense?  Thanks for this thoughtful post.

04/23/2008 07:36 AM by Lake Norman Real Estate ~ Diane Aurit (RE/MAX at the Lake)


Thanks for weighing in, Leslie. The educational piece is a big part of it for me.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:10 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Georgina - the creative side of many, I suspect, comes out in their blogging, perhaps when they did not even realize they had it in them.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:12 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Carla - relaxing. Hmm, interesting thought. I think that is often true, although I sometimes find blogging to NOT be relaxing when I am really busy, or struggling to put words on the screen.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:13 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Thanks for your thoughtful comments, William. As always you bring a perspective born of experience and sensitivity. I have the same struggles at times.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:16 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Ruthmarie - I suspect that no matter how focused one is on blogging for business you cannot keep out that which is you. And that's what draws in the reader, IMO.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:19 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Diane - thank you for your thoughts and compliment. You've said, very eloquently, what I imagine is true for many here. Too bad your day is gloomy - I won't say anything about my day here. :)

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:24 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Great post to make you think exactly why it is we do what we do, whether it be blogging or something else...maybe it is the opportunity to connect with others that share a similar interest and excitment about the same thing as we do...what ever it is I am glad that I have found the art.

04/23/2008 11:00 AM by Misty Thomas, Realtor Crosby, TX (Alliance Properties)


Blogging  is such a creative way to talk about and share what we do. I like to relate everyday life with my real estate experience whether it is about an actual listing, how I got a listing, how I market a listing or whether it is about feeding the birds and relating that to advertising. Seems like personal stories generate the most interest. Here on AR I do love the instant gratification of comments from people like you, Jeff.

 Keep having fun and thanks for sharing.

04/23/2008 11:10 AM by Margaret Rome- Baltimore, Md.-HomeRome.com (TREC-Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome)


I'll take the positive side of soul blogging any day. You mean I have a ego??? lol!

04/23/2008 12:35 PM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), Hawaii Real Estate & Hawaii Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


I love reading "farm" marketing ideas in blogs. I also love bragging about the city I live in, San Bruno! Ego? Tee hee hee!

04/23/2008 12:41 PM by Karin Cunningham (Prudential California Realty)


Misty - it actually took me forever to formulate my thinking on this. I agree - no matter your motivation, life is good here in the blogging world.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 01:41 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Thank you Margaret. So well put, as always. I agree there are many aspects of blogging that appeal to both those who blog and those bloggers who read and comment on blogs. The soul emerges in many ways, doesn't it?

Jeff 

04/23/2008 01:44 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Sally - well of course! LOL. Ego can be a good thing and a bad one, depending on how it reveals itself. But I won't stray into the psychological aspects of our ego, despite that being a part of my former life.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 01:45 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Karin - bragging about San Bruno (or Carlsbad for that matter) is cool. Bragging about oneself is not.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 01:47 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Though I am still new to the rain I'm trying to figure out my identity here as a blogger 

04/23/2008 02:27 PM by Alan Robinson (PTE REAL ESTATE GROUP)


Wow, excellent musings on why we blog. As a person who journaled all through high school and college, quite frankly I love to write. 

04/23/2008 04:03 PM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor, Michigan)


Great post,  it is interesting different people blog for different reasons.

It is really interesting to me that the personal stories, motivators and non-business related stories seem to get more interest and comments.

All the Best!

04/23/2008 04:23 PM by Kevin O'Shea, White Plains, NY Real Estate (American Classic Homes, Inc.)


Sometimes blogging feels like a cold beer in the shade on a blistering hot day.

Cheers! 

04/23/2008 04:35 PM by Roberta Murphy ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (Villa Sotheby's International Realty)


Jeff, as always you are eloquent, insightful, deeply thoughtful and well written. I often wonder just where my true intent and motivation is coming from. I look deep inside and question if my time, energy and efforts are being well spent.

Will I be on my death bed looking to heaven saying, "I wish I had spent more time on Active Rain," or will I wish for more time with my family?

Should I actually place so much importance on that "next blog" or should I go sell a house?

All I know is that I like it here. And, you must look at my latest masterpiece of dancing cows...yes, really. It is the perfect example of "time well spent".

I enjoyed it as always, Later in the rain~Deb

04/23/2008 06:17 PM by Brooks Prime Properties


Jeff, as always you are eloquent, insightful, deeply thoughtful and well written. I often wonder just where my true intent and motivation is coming from. I look deep inside and question if my time, energy and efforts are being well spent.

Will I be on my death bed looking to heaven saying, "I wish I had spent more time on Active Rain," or will I wish for more time with my family?

Should I actually place so much importance on that "next blog" or should I go sell a house?

All I know is that I like it here. And, you must look at my latest masterpiece of dancing cows...yes, really. It is the perfect example of "time well spent".

I enjoyed it as always, Later in the rain~Deb

04/23/2008 06:17 PM by Brooks Prime Properties


Wow, I was wondering why it took soooooooo long to load! I even exed out early and gave up! Must be a busy time. I'll delete.

04/23/2008 06:21 PM by Brooks Prime Properties


Alan - don't fret about it. Your identity will emerge of it;s own accord. Don't try to force it, just let it happen (sounds like a song, doesn't it?!).

Jeff 

04/23/2008 06:51 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Missy - and your love of writing shows in what you do so well!

Jeff 

04/23/2008 06:52 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Kevin - I think many are here for a variety of reasons, and take much pleasure in the sharing that comes from others when it is not directly related to business. It's all part of the human side of us that allows us to be successful with others in this business.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 06:54 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Roberta - short, sweet, to the point and a great analogy. Cheers to you too! Bottoms up.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 06:56 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


That is what I like so much about blogging - it is that the customer feels like they know a little something about you BEFORE they call!  And if they are attracted by the personality that I show them through my blog, then I feel I can truly be myself!

04/23/2008 07:33 PM by Emily Lowe - Nashville, TN Realtor (Prudential Woodmont Realty)


I've been told that I write so it is easy enough for people to understand.  I think consumers are bombarded and overwhelmed by media.  I put my fingers to the keyboard for consumers, now.

04/23/2008 08:08 PM by Chris Elizabeth Griffith ~ Bonita Springs Fl Real Estate (Keller Williams Elite Realty, Bonita Springs, FL)


Jeff, I was thinking about this very thing today! The why's of blogging and the fact that we each get "something" from blogging both from new business and on an emotional level. Blogging puts us out there for all to see. I have met some nice clients because they had already read about me on my blogs. It's a nice feeling.

04/23/2008 08:36 PM by Karen Hurst ~ Real Estate Broker ~ Warwick ~ Rhode Island (Storm Realty LLC)


I am amused about how addicting it can be!  I just started blogging a few weeks ago, and now I LOVE it!  It's a great place to spill those questions that never seem to get the right answer or write about that one thing that excites you.  My ultimate goal in life is to positively impact one million lives...this is a great way to help a little at a time.

Barb

04/23/2008 08:38 PM by Barb Overman (Century 21 Bob Capes Realtors)


Jeff, I've already logged off for the evening, but I saw your post and couldn't resist taking a peek.  WOW, my friend, you have outdone yourself with this insightful treastice.  Blogging at it's best...It's soulful...and egoless. :)

04/23/2008 09:22 PM by Lola Audu


I've been reading RE blogs for many months, but only started writing my own blog in January.  What I've found through both reading and writing is that the personality of the writer is so evident that after awhile you really come to know (like? dislike?) that person.  It's a fascinating experience and if there is such a thing as a soul, it definitely comes out through the blogs.

04/23/2008 09:26 PM by Gretchen Faber ~ LifeStyleDenver (The Kentwood Company at Cherry Creek)


Jeff - I'm still intimidated when I write because I read your posts and I think your localism pieces just rock, then I read Lenn's and she's a walking encyclopedia on real estate and then, there's little old me who is all over the place when I write.

I just know that I love the writing and sharing back and forth and getting to know wonderful people like you and others here in the Rain..and it sure helps my soul out a lot! It's not about the points for me...it's about friendships and sharing.

04/23/2008 09:41 PM by Linda Scanlan (The Real Estate Referral Company)


ARDELL - why thank you! I'm honored.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:33 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Emily - that, I think is the real value to oue readers. If we cannot be ourselves, then we should not be here.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:34 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Chris - and you are an expert at it. not matter what you write. I can't imagine you being anything other than how you are on-line. Don;t tell me that's NOT true...

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:36 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Karen - that is so true. The relationship begins before we are even aware of it.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:37 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Barb - welcome to the crowd. So glad to hear you are joining the ranks of the "addicted." What a nice sentiment - your personality shows through even in the thoughts you shared.

Jeff 

04/23/2008 10:39 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Jeff - great stuff as usual my friend.  I think the heart is a key part of blogging, it must join in with the soul to reveal our greatest and most valuable blogging.

04/23/2008 11:30 PM by Brad Andersohn ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corp)


I think its a soul searching for a soul connection....Aloha bruddah

04/23/2008 11:41 PM by Kehaulani Kea (JDS Consulting, Staging & Interiors)


Lola - well thank you for jumping back in to comment. I very much appreciate the fine compliment. This actually was a tough article to write.

Jeff 

04/24/2008 09:21 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Gretchen - what a thoughtful comment! I think what you say is true for many, those of us who write blogs as well as consumers who are reading them.

Jeff 

04/24/2008 09:23 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Linda - well, I can understand that feeling, becuase there are so many here who I admire, and who I feel are better writers than I am. What is important is that you write because you enjoy it, because it brings you pleasure, and it has meaning for YOU. And the sharing of yourself, our soul, in your writing is what it is all about. Thank you for the compliment. :)

Jeff 

04/24/2008 09:29 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Kehaulani - You've captured the essence of blogging perfectly.

Jeff 

04/24/2008 09:31 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Blogging is moreabout connections. Active Rain is a great place to connect to other professionals in real estate related fields to learn, to share, and to become friends. We do the same with consumers and other professionals as well.    

04/24/2008 11:03 AM by Christy Powers - Pooler, Savannah Real Estate Agent (Keller Williams Coastal Area Partners)


What I hope is that through my blogging, people can get to know me. Who I am, how I work, what type of person I am...I hope to be able to "reach out and touch someone" through my words.

04/24/2008 05:10 PM by Kelly Sibilsky - Lake Zurich, IL RE/MAX Real Estate Agent (RE/MAX Unlimited Northwest)


Jeff, you were kind enough to chat with me for a few minutes about blogging before I started, so thanks.

Writing can be a superior form of communication than conversation because you can take the time to form your thoughts into an organized, coherent form.  Writing something, then having someone actually read it and comment, well, it wasn't that easy to do before blogging.  I could write something, but I might have trouble getting someone to read it! LOL  Blogging is very gratifying and a great way to share thoughts with people.

Emailing, and texting are rapid, incomplete modes of communication, typical of our hectic, stressed out lifestyles.  Blogging brings us back a little to letter writing, taking the time to say our thoughts more eloquently.

04/24/2008 08:01 PM by Peter Tamura (RE/MAX Executives)


Christy - connections is a great way to think about it. You never know where the connection will come from or how it will happen.

Jeff 

04/25/2008 09:04 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Kelly - and I think you accomplish that well.

Jeff 

04/25/2008 09:05 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Peter - it was a pleasure, What a well thought out commentary you have shared with us.

Jeff 

04/25/2008 09:07 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


As a reluctant blogger, I found your questions and answers to be interesting.  My first thought when told that I had to blog to get points to...you know...was Why would I want to do that, what would I say, and who would care.  A few months later I find that although still a bit unsure about the effectiveness of blogging, I find it most rewarding when there is a connection, despite the anonymity.  My enjoyment in posting a reading has nothing to do with business and a lot to do with personal connection.  Go figure.

04/25/2008 02:37 PM by Annie & Bob Pacieznik, Real Estate and Home Staging Experts. Edina, Minnesota (REMAX Action West)


Bob ( or is it Annie?):

Thanks for your thoughts. Clearly blogging means different things to different people, and some have more success from a business standpoint than others. And some focus more on business while others are interested in the social networking. I think you will find that your perspective will evolve over time, and will your blogging.

Jeff 

04/28/2008 10:39 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


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