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My Own List of Banished Words

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My Own List of Banished Words

 

Yesterday, Lake Superior State University published its 41st Annual list of words that should be banished.  Perhaps it is a sign of my banished words 2016narrow sheltered world or being of a certain age, I was unfamiliar with many of the words that suffer from “Over-use, Mis-use and general uselessness.” Oh, I knew the words but have not used them in that manner.

 

Admittedly, the #1 word on their list happens to be a pet peeve of mine as well…. the word “so” when used at the beginning of a sentence when you are answering a question.

For example:

Q: How did you learn about ActiveRain?

A: So, my broker told me about it.

Don’t feel alone if you use “so” in this manner.  Just after I read this article, I heard it at least 4 times on the television when someone was being interviewed.

 

One word that they suggested banning is one I was not familiar with but is an accurate description of what men do….. Manspreading.

I like it!  In fact, Larry is guilty of it.  I sat next to someone on a plane once who thought he was going to get away with it but I wouldn’t let him. (You know-hogging the armrest!)

I would be ok with keeping this word around… at least for a bit.

You can find a list of all 13 banished words from Lake Superior State University.

Just for fun, I added a few more words of my own that I would love not to hear again… or at least not hear as much.

I left #’s 9 and 10 in the hopes that you would add some words that you would like to see banished.

 

1.My bad

2.Just sayin’

3.Ginormous

5.Actionable

6.Robust

7.Low hanging fruit

8.Drill down

9. ?

10.?

 

Come on...you know you have some words that are like nails on a chalkboard to you.

 

 

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Comments (33)

Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

The one that gets me Kathy is "to be honest" as I always expect honesty and if you have to tell me now you are finally being honest I wonder about all the other stuff you told me that was lies.

Jan 05, 2016 11:33 PM
Kathy Streib

I totally agree with you and I think many people have no idea what it is implying when they say it. Debbie Reynolds 

Jan 06, 2016 03:24 AM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

So Kathy Streib what's wrong with "low hanging fruit'? If we drill down, we just might find a robust answer to that question.

I would BAN almost everything that comes out of a Millennial's mouth. I just don't understand them at all.

And women that are so sensitive to "manspreading" are insensitive to the differences in anatomy. Give me a break, and enough room (and it's not about armrests).

Bill Roberts

 

Jan 05, 2016 11:34 PM
Kathy Streib

Ok Bill Roberts I agree with you with the exception of manspreading.  You guys need to stay out of our space!!  LOL

Jan 06, 2016 03:25 AM
Janice Ankrett
Burlington, ON
Staging Professional

"Like" would top my list along with ending the sentence in a higher tone making a statement sound like a question.

Jan 06, 2016 12:37 AM
Kathy Streib

OMG Janice Ankrett you notice it too.  So many people end their sentence with a higher tone.  To me it shows me that they're not sure of what they're saying.  

Jan 06, 2016 03:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, I have not seen this before, but I am sure there are some words that Roger D. Mucci says that should be banned, haha.

Jan 06, 2016 01:31 AM
Brian England

Haha, I know, I just like teasing your BARFF, only because we have a good rapport with each other.  I hope you are having a nice day!

Jan 06, 2016 04:42 AM
Kathy Streib

Oh Brian England All of us have words that flow out of our mouths that should be limited in their use. 

Jan 06, 2016 03:27 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Roger Mucci should be banned from saying certain words Brian England  but good luck finding someone to make that happen.

Jan 06, 2016 01:37 AM
Brian England

Haha, I can just hear the conversation now, it would likely be filled with a lot of #$%&, #$%&, haha

Jan 06, 2016 01:57 AM
Kathy Streib

Roger D. Mucci I probably wouldn't banish certain words... maybe if I could hit a mute button for some of them. The   #%$&** words never bother me. 

Jan 06, 2016 03:27 AM
Brian England

Oh, so perhaps Kathy Streib has a sailors mouth?

Jan 06, 2016 04:43 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England you have no idea!!!

Jan 06, 2016 08:57 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

"the verb boast".  The house boasts a Viking kitchen.  A house is an inanimate object.

Awesome...overused!  

A

Jan 06, 2016 01:50 AM
Debb Janes

Agree - house's don't boast, people do. 

Jan 06, 2016 03:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Good one!  I'm picturing a puffed up house boasting. Ron and Alexandra Seigel 

Jan 06, 2016 03:28 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate

Oh, definitely!! Never never never....

Jan 06, 2016 12:56 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

At the end of the day...let's be done with it! I'm sick of hearing it, Kathy. Ha. I too think "boast" is misused in Real Estate. 

Jan 06, 2016 03:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Debb Janes I may head to some listings and see how many times boast is used.

Jan 06, 2016 08:59 AM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Kathy, 

Numbers one and two on your list drive me nuts. 

From a real estate standpoint,  I hate the term, "stick built" which is used a lot around here in Colorado when someone is trying to explain that a house that looks a lot like a manufactured home isn't a manufactured home.  

Jan 06, 2016 04:59 AM
Kathy Streib

Sondra Meyer: we don't hear that much here, at least I don't.  And yes, #'s one and two drive me nuts. 

Jan 06, 2016 09:02 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate

Sondra, that one is a definition that I have to use because people want to try to tweak the HOA rules. I have to say "stickbuilt" and let them know it has to be built on the premises AND have a foundation. 

Jan 06, 2016 12:58 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Kathy -  in my work I would say that numbers 5 through 8 are becoming clichés.

Jan 06, 2016 06:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Grant Schneider I love eavesdropping on the conversations of business people and counting the number of buzz words that come out of their mouths. 

Jan 06, 2016 09:03 AM
Mark Loewenberg
KW of the Palm Beaches - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
KW 561-214-0370

my list is simple, hate.. that is a word I try never to say and I am trying to teach my youngest son not to say it either, really no reason to use it

Jan 06, 2016 06:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Mark Loewenberg You're right and we all use it too loosely.  Hate is a very strong word. 

Jan 06, 2016 09:04 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I'm guilty of using "awesome" and aware of it and trying to avoid it. I'm a work in progress.

I laughed when I read this post because last night Rick and I were watching Shark Tank and every answer people give the sharks begins with "so" and it was making Rick crazy!

Jan 06, 2016 08:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Sharon Tara I cringe when I hear it. 

Jan 06, 2016 09:04 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Literally.  I am tired of people trying to make and saying literally for extra punch when it doesn't even apply.

Jan 06, 2016 09:13 AM
Rob Thomas
Prestige Homes of The Tri Cities, Inc. CALL....423-341-6954 - Bristol, TN
Bristol TN-VA & Tri Cities Agent, ABR, GRI, e-Pro

I like ...."Does that make sense"? ....I like all of yours also .....

Lake says ....Have a great night!

Lake

Jan 06, 2016 10:01 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Kathy

I will go IRS . . . .

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 06, 2016 10:47 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

I've got one that drives me nuts: Well, it's one, followed by another: "REallllllly??? Seriously???"

Another one that seems to be coming up frequently as-of-late: resonate, as in "that really resonates with/for me". I used to like that word, but don't use it anymore!

I guess that's two, there ya go, missy, 9 and 10 covered. 

I am guilty of the "so" in my writing, and when I'm self-editing, I realize it needs to go. Sometimes I miss it and it slips through--"my bad" (couldn't resist)!!

Jan 06, 2016 12:55 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I enjoyed reading the post and the comments. I learned a couple of new words fom this post.

Jan 06, 2016 07:33 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

I was reading the list and the article and my peeve words were ringing in my mind, and then I got to the end.  I found them there and while not meant to be offensive,  they were there,     you know.

Jan 06, 2016 10:56 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Kathy, so, as I was reading your post...ohh that drives me nuts!!!

Jan 07, 2016 03:46 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Let's add, 'like' to the list.  I here young people using 'like' as a filler word way too often. How about 'you know' and 'you'ns' which a few servers use, 'How's you'ns' doing today?'

Love your humor Kathy Streib 

Jan 11, 2016 02:35 AM
Nancy Herrmann

Yes, a college student that responds "word" whenver I ask him to do something!  Let's put that on the list!

Jan 13, 2016 06:58 AM