To put life in a good or bad arena is not a fair assessment. Life is bigger than good or bad, happy or sad, and right or wrong. These choice or points view have been with us for centuries and influence us today in almost everything. I say, come if you will but I will determine what is or is not the news of the day
POINT OF VIEW
There are so many ways to look at something. Perspective is a valuable tool in the personal and professional worlds. I like hearing and learning about a subject or the focus in detail sometimes while practicing my listening and research skills. I refrain from a decision during this phase
CALL THE PLAY!
There is no end to input, analysis and ways to approach something... anything, of this we can be sure. What I look for and trust in...in the majority of times, is what my heart is telling me. If the decision is up to me, and my comfort/clarity levels are functioning, then I take on the privilege of making a decision
IF I DON'T SEE...
There are times when I realize that the situation calls for an outside source to kick in and have its way based on common sense, reality and it being a good starting place. I am not stubborn to the point where I become closed minded or ignore another prized view point if it holds upon examination
THE NATURE OF OPINIONS
It is interesting to note when opinions surface, they tend toward being negative, fearful and have a confusion about them which says quite a bit about the people who are opinionated. Separating ones fears & beliefs from what is actually taking place is required to see the light more clearly if you will
WHAT'S APPROVAL GOT TO DO WITH IT?
Be weary of the opinion that gives a sort of approval but is really a safe way to proceed. That doesn't mean its the best way or practical way but perhaps safe way. Approval has many invisible dynamics that interfere with simplicity. We shouldn't need someones permission to do what we believe is right and in our hearts yet there is always someone/thing trying to do so
WHAT'S THE HURRY?
On major events that require decisions, my speed is slow but sure sort of like the tortoise at times. I don't like to undo once I do so I have learned to not do until I am sure of what I am doing. This pausing or caution comes from me and is my speed. Objections from other opinions increase when I slow down
NOT EVERYTHING IS 911
I don't like making decisions under pressure. Who does? Sometimes we must rise to occasions, but they would have to be more of emergencies rather than life improvements or professional gains. I respect time is of the essence but in that world, staying proactive is the way the go. Travel at your own speed
PRACTICE DOES PERFECT
In all endeavors, there will always be a risk dynamic at work simply because gain requires risk taking. Let it come. Practice on the smaller, non essential lower levels of taking risks just to get familiar on how you operate and feel under those dynamics. Learn about yourself. Then, work your way up from there
KNOW AND THEN GO
If outsourcing an important decision, consult with seasoned, experienced professionals when it comes to business. If it is on personal matters, focus more on credibility of the person (s) involved. From there, we are all compelled to then enter into whatever is before us because it is required of us to do so
LEARN FROM IT
If and when something doesn't go right, and who hasn't had that chicken come home to roost, if you made the decisions, if you gave what you had, then that is what took place. Learn from it. If you trusted someone else, learn from that too. The point is: Do not blame! Look for what actually took place instead
TURN IT ON!
My good news for you? Life is upon you! Within you are all these values contained in your personally designed skills bank that are awaiting activation from you. All that takes place outside is meant to trigger this system inside, and in the use of it, creates your character and maturity levels when engaged
ACTIVATE ALL SYSTEMS
In other words. LIVE! Seek, ask, explore, adventure, inquire and have at it in this brief space of time and have not just the gains that come from risking and making your own decisions but to be able to say that you truly lived and not just existed or played safe....travel well here
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