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Winning Over The Naysayers

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Winning Over The Naysayers

BoomTown has challenged us to write about our most common or most annoying objection we receive online. I’ve enjoyed reading the posts and get a positive feeling after seeing how many objections Rainer’s have overcome. Winning over the naysayers can be done and it’s a big feeling of accomplishment when we do it.

 

I inquired on a FSBO last year that my clients were interested in. I called the number on the post that was online and after getting some more information I asked if they were willing to compensate a buyer’s agent. As soon as I asked about compensation the tone changed, I could feel the defensiveness through the phone. She said they might but, had not decided on how much they’d be willing to pay and that all agents were just out for the money.

 

NaysayersI didn’t comment and proceeded to ask if I could bring my buyers for a tour and she agreed. We went and saw the home and it was overpriced so they decided to make an offer on a house we had already seen down the street. I emailed the owner with an update and thanked her for her time. What I got back was a brutal email and bad Facebook review that they probably weren’t even real buyers and that I had just brought them to try and get into her home and convince her to list with me. I knew it wasn’t me that it was really directed too, I never mentioned anything about listing but, it still stung to read everything. Somewhere along the line there had been a bad experience that I had nothing to do with.

 

I don’t honestly know what made me respond, I actually felt bad that they were having trouble selling what was a very nice home and I knew from our first conversation her husband was in the Military and being transferred soon. I responded and offered to let them use one of my signs that advertises a number that’s attached to a tracking software so that they could take buyer calls and told her I didn’t want anything for it just wanted to help. The home was on a main street with no sign and I knew there was a ton of traffic going by every day. There were a lot of emails that went back and forth making sure I didn’t expect compensation and eventually said she’d like to use the sign. I dropped it off and said just let me know when you’re under contract and I’ll come pick it up. The next day I saw the Facebook review was deleted.

 

A couple weeks later she called to tell me she had an offer but, it was well below list price and she didn’t know what to do. She asked if she could pay me a flat fee for advice. I declined the fee but, was honest and let her know the house was overpriced and that the offer was fair. We talked comps and the house has since closed. When I went to pick my sign up she asked me why I declined collecting a fee and I let her know that while this is my business and I’m very good at what I do it’s not always about the money. I thanked her husband for his service, thanked her for the sacrifice I know military wives make and said if they ever know someone that needs an honest and trustworthy agent in the area to please give them my name. About a month after they moved I received a call from a friend of hers who was looking to buy. We successfully closed on her home last year and she has since referred a co-worker to me that's planning to buy this summer.

 

 

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Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good afternoon Amanda,

A great story of perseverance even with a bad review. Many would have stopped the presses and moved onto the next client. Sometimes we have to defend ourselves even though we feel it is unnecessary. In this case the free advice paid over into a profit with really little out of pocket expense.

It would have been nice of her to write you a recommendation for your efforts as well.

Make yourself an astonishing day.

Feb 24, 2016 05:08 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Raymond E. Camp you're right, sometimes we do. I'm glad I responded, not something I always do when it's such a harsh email. I wish she had but, didn't feel right asking - just wanted to try to show her not all agents are the same. Thank you for stopping by!

Feb 24, 2016 09:39 PM
Ellen Caruso
Daniel Gale Sotheby's International Realty - Glen Head, NY

Hi Amanda, Vegas Bob, re-blogged you and that got me to come over and say Hi.

I liked your story and have to say....I'm that same kind of Realtor. As much as my broker would not like to hear this, on occassion, I've forfieted my commission, lowered my commission, loaned a sign....all for the sake of the seller and perhaps a referral in the future. You give, and you get back!

Feb 24, 2016 05:34 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz

Thanks for the shout Ellen 

Feb 24, 2016 06:23 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Ellen Caruso thank you for coming over! I fully believe you're doing the right thing - as you said you give and you get back. It really is so true.

Feb 24, 2016 09:39 PM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

Excellent blog Amanda, this shows why you are so successful.

Feb 24, 2016 12:05 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Amanda. I looked and this is not a feature, it should be.  In the in we all like to make money, but sometimes good will and helping out other people goes a long way.  

Feb 24, 2016 06:56 PM
Amanda S. Davidson

James Dray Thank you, I agree - sometimes it's just about helping and I've always been taught you get what you give.

Feb 24, 2016 09:40 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

What a wonderful story, Amanda.  Your help for these people was above and beyond and I', glad to see that it now is coming back and repaying you.

Feb 24, 2016 08:09 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Amanda, what a great story, and you ROCK!   Nice of you to do all this without receiving a penny, and glad you are seeing referrals from this!  

Feb 24, 2016 09:41 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

You handled this so professionally and glad the outcome was a good one. I am glad you helped her and could identify with the stressful place she was in.

Feb 24, 2016 10:27 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

"Professionalism" Amanda...that's what this resonates to me!

Feb 25, 2016 01:47 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Amanda, you are a true professional who cares about her clients and puts their interest before her compensation. 

Feb 25, 2016 03:59 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

That is a wonderful story Amanda! You are right, it is not always about the money. Sometimes you have to do, what you have to do! And it came back to you!

Feb 25, 2016 09:59 AM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By Real - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Thank you all for your kind comments. I do believe you get what you give and sometimes it's just about giving. I'm humbled that she referred me, shows me she ended up trusting me and that matters the most.

Feb 25, 2016 10:57 PM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

Just one of the reasons why you are so successful at what you do, Amanda. This could have gone very wrong but you handled it with grace and came out the other side with her respect and new referral clients too.

Feb 26, 2016 05:14 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Thank you so much Anita.

Feb 27, 2016 01:59 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Sweet post, Amanda.  A lot of the time what we earn comes from houses we don't sell.

Feb 26, 2016 11:57 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Patricia Kennedy you're right - it really does. Thank you for stopping by.

Feb 27, 2016 01:59 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Amanda, excellent entry for the contest. Your honesty, sincerity and helpfulness really paid off. Enjoyed reading this post.

Feb 27, 2016 12:22 PM
Amanda S. Davidson

Thank you Rebecca, I hope you're having a great weekend! 

Feb 27, 2016 07:04 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
"Sold with Potranco Realty"

It's funny how Karma works and in the end you're the winning person. I'm sure this FSBO will never forget your kindness and support. Many would never do what you did..... 

Feb 27, 2016 10:29 PM
Amanda S. Davidson

Thank you Bob! Karma does have a funny way of working :)

Feb 28, 2016 09:18 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

And there you have the rest of the story. A class act for sure. You are the epitome of what this business should look like to the public. Bravo, Amanda. 

Feb 28, 2016 12:31 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Debb, thank you so much. The feeling is mutual, you uphold the highest standards and I've always admired that about you.

Feb 28, 2016 09:18 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Amanda S. Davidson - It was the HIGH ROAD that got you to that sale down the road. You are a credit to the Real Estate Industry. What I admire the most about this story, is your empathy and compassion without taking it personal. That's something only a true professional could do. Many would be offended and defensive. But you showed your true colors. Obviously, the Sellers appreciated your honesty and rewarded you with a referral.

This is a terrific testimonial to your credibility and honor. It's such a privilege to know you as a result of ActiveRain. I consider you one of the very best there are in the industry Nationwide and I mean that sincerely. 

Feb 28, 2016 09:07 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Patricia Feager I just took a picture of your comment so that on the rough days I can read it and put a smile on my face. I am humbled by such a genuine and kind comment. Thank you so much.

Feb 28, 2016 09:20 PM
DEANNA C. SMITH CERTIFIED MOBILE NOTARY
Certified Mobile Notary Signing Agent - Smith Mountain Lake, VA
Highest Ranked Certified Mobile Notary in Virginia

Professionalism wins the day Amanda S. Davidson .   Do things right and your reward will come.

Feb 29, 2016 03:34 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

It is a great story. Thanks for sharing it. This lady will never think bad about ALL Realtors. You are like a little candle who bring light and kindness around you:) 

Mar 09, 2016 11:55 AM
Amanda S. Davidson

Thank you Inna, your comment made me smile.

Mar 09, 2016 10:32 PM
Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

I really enjoyed your post, glad I came across it in the archives. Much Success for you in 2016.

Mar 25, 2016 01:05 PM
Amanda S. Davidson

Thank you so much Winston.

Mar 26, 2016 02:52 AM