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Moving is never easy for young children in school, do you have a plan?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Potranco Realty 492107

Moving is never easy for young children in school, do you have a plan?

 

Have you ever been in the position where your job had to transfer you to another city are family needs caused you to relocate your family? Today technology allows for easier moves to keep in touch with friends however studies show that children are affected differently with frequent moves than their parents.  

 

Psychology studies of children show they’re affected by moves caused from divorce, loss of job loss of home. Changing schools, going through puberty and changing cities familiarities can affect young people adversely.


Understanding ways to help Children when Moving:

 

  1. Parents can work together to keep anxiety levels to a minimum. Get the kiddos involved with the move by allowing them to map out their new destination, attractions and new schools.

  2. Communication can be hard for children, psychologist recommend playing games with younger children and asking question while they play board games, iPad games. Talk with your children and learn their concerns and fears.

  3. Visiting their new city prior to moving allowing them to participate in local summer camps, churches, and other activities where children of the same age gather.

  4. Keep in mind children experience moves differently, loss of friends and loss familiar settings can cause poor performance in school, behavioral problems and disconnect with family members. Focus on child's emotions.

 

Journal of Adolescent Health study found ages 12 through 17 who had moved over the past years had 20% higher odds of visiting emergency room for psychiatric issues. Children between 6 through 11 had about 3% higher odds of having an office visit for mental health reasons.


Moving is never easy for young children in school, do you have a plan? get your children involved, ask question and concerns giving your child enough time to adapt to the new situation.

 

Moving is never easy for young children in school, do you have a plan? is being brought to you by Bob Ratliff, REALTOR® for Austin, Cedar Park, Leander and Northwest Austin areas, if you need help relocating to buy a home, condo, or towhhouse in any of these cities I would like to help make your families move easier. (512) 587-5689

Comments (46)

Erin Newington
5305573559 - Grass Valley, CA
Sierra Foothills Realtor

Isn't funny how you get so caught up on te other details you forget about how the kids are handling the change! 

Feb 29, 2016 06:34 AM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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You're right Erin with so much happening with the parents often times they slip up and forget.... moving can be very stressful.

Feb 29, 2016 06:39 AM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

Very good advice Bob, a plan will make this so much easier. 

Feb 29, 2016 09:05 AM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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thanks Noah

Feb 29, 2016 09:10 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

Ohhhh...what a great post, Bob. I remember when we moved. My daugher was already potty trained ( she was two when we moved ) and had never made a mistake in her bed. After we started getting settled in the new house was when she made her only mistake in bed. I attributed it to moving. I think I was right. It was a big deal for her. 

Feb 29, 2016 01:08 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Thanks for sharing your story Debbie Laity, its is so hard on the young people

Feb 29, 2016 07:33 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thanks Bob.  This is a wonderful post that brings back the memories of moving back in my childhood.

Feb 29, 2016 08:09 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Bob -- this is an interesting post.   Many times, there are more people involved in a transaction than those who are signing the contract.   

Mar 01, 2016 12:21 AM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Thanks Gabe, have a great Tuesday...

Mar 01, 2016 12:22 AM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Very true Michael 

Mar 01, 2016 12:22 AM
Heather Tawes Nelson
Live Better in Arizona - Scottsdale, AZ
Associate Broker, ABR, CLHMS, CRS - Scottsdale, AZ

What a great post and full of really helpful information. It is so easy to get caught up in the physical logistics of a move, when is it key to make sure everyone in the family is doing OK.

Mar 01, 2016 10:59 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Children have a big impact on the moves before and after. These are great suggestions to make the transition smooth and happy.

Mar 01, 2016 11:34 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Bob. Wonderful post, when there are kids involved in the moving process, we need to make sure they are actually part of the process. You shared some great suggestions.

Mar 01, 2016 07:50 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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thank you heather.....

Mar 01, 2016 09:34 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Thanks Debbie R

Mar 01, 2016 09:34 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Thanks Joe

Mar 01, 2016 09:34 PM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Bob Ratliff - I can't agree more. Due to life changing events, I moved my children several times.  Their biggest transition was from the Philippines to NY.

Then from NY to MA ...then to CT.

It was not easy for all of us but it was for the best. I felt bad that they had to go through all these but they were able to adapt easily. Thank goodness.

Mar 02, 2016 09:51 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Great information for anyone with children who is considering a move.

Mar 02, 2016 11:19 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Maria Gilda Racelis when there is supporting parent like you and move isn't so bad and children will adapt to how their parents are acting. Glad it all worked out for your family.

Mar 02, 2016 11:39 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
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Thank you Sharon Tara....

Mar 02, 2016 11:39 PM