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Family under values Mom's Castle of 46 years.

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Managing Real Estate Broker with Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions"

How do families value homes when the parents have lived in them for decades?  Hopefully they call a professional thahomet has market and neighborhood knowledge!

I get a call from a family member that outlines a story of Mom being moved into assisted living.  She is a meer 89 years young and not missing a step!  She has resisted selling the car, resisted adding a couple hearing aids, resisted going into a community that offers meals every day.   According to her son.....she has been a real pill!  Heck she is still very active and stronger than her children.

The eldest son...now retired, calls and says we have an offer from one of his nieces.  I get the address, do some preliminary comps, meet the son at the home for a personal tour.  I sold a home four doors away several years ago.  The son tells me the price...I ask if I can give him a thousand dollars more and write a check right now!  He looks at me with a puzzled look.

I had pulled the comps on the property...even though Mom had not painted or changed carpets in at least 30 years it was still worth twice what the niece was graciously willing to offer.  The home next door is listed for nearly three times what the neice has offered.

The little darling was going to "flip" the home and make a quick $40,000.00 and never look back at her Aunt's and Uncle's situation of still having expenses and care requirements.  The look on the Uncle's face was a Kodak moment!  He was less than happy when he grasp the stituation.  We went over the listings and sales in the area for the last six months...he could not believe they had really thought the price the neice offered was a good one based on paint, carpet and wall paper.  piggy bank

People do not know the market....in today's market the home is not worth what it would have sold for three years ago but is certainly not a fire trap either!  Newer furnace, roof, all appliances stay including a washer and dryer...discounted $25-35,000 for cosmetics and clean-up and the home will not be on the market a week!

The most interesting result of this call and finally the follow-up was the neice's reaction when they came back with a new price.  She said, hey I was going to sell it and make some quick money...if you guys didn't know what you had it was your fault!  Her dad was standing a few feet away....he looked at us and said...I have no idea why she is so greedy or would treat family like this but she is not going to buy my mom's home....

I quickly interject that if she has the money and wants the home she is allowed under the law to purchase the home.  She said forget it...that price is to high...and walked off giving me a hand gesture because I ruined her scheme of making a quick buck.

I know both the son's of the lady who is now in assisted living.  They were very embarrassed...which they had no reason to be.  The daughter is the one that should brought to task for trying to cheat her family.  I doubt she will ever have a chance to purchase anything from the family again. 

This is why clients call, they need guidence understanding the market, current home values. 

Grand Rapids Michigan like so many communities has a wide divergence of neighborhoods and listings on our local real estate board (GRAR).  The Grand Rapids Association of Realtors provides statistics for the public to review.  Home sales are down significantly in Michigan and in our local market as well.  The Michigan Association of Realtors supplies statistics for Realtors and the public to keep them up to date on market conditions state wide. 

I subscribe to Realty Times and have a direct feed on my website offering national an local market information to further help my clients with daily updates of the real estate market and trends.

Many times clients do not understand or can not read the charts and graphs...we as Realtors provide a valuable service in offering key market information for sellers and buyers.

This is just one more page in a list of real estate issues that can happen to families if they do not seek professional help.

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Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Gary--Sad to think that someone would take advantage of a family member but it happens everyday. Good for you that you stopped the situation...Too bad the niece flipped out (and off) without a flipped house. But good for everyone else involved. It doesn't take long to make a call and have a CMA done to verify that an offer by a friend or family member is fair.
Apr 26, 2008 08:56 AM
John Walters
Frank Rubi Real Estate - Slidell, LA
Licensed in Louisiana
What a shame.  Here are elderly people thinking they could trust their family and one of them was out for themselves.
Apr 26, 2008 12:00 PM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro
Gary, all I can say is THANK GOD they called you before selling to her!!! 
Apr 26, 2008 12:37 PM
Terry Lynch
LAR Notary and Closing Services - Saint Clair Shores, MI

Gary

It's always amazing to me that a lifetime of values of a family member will disappear over a few dollars. 

Apr 27, 2008 03:38 AM
Kelly Sibilsky
Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD. - Lake Zurich, IL
Whoa, what a scheming little you-know-what. Thank goodness they spoke with you before doing anything!
Apr 27, 2008 04:19 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi June, People live in homes and the children move away and they have no idea what the market value is at the time of selling or listing without competent help.  Thanks for the comments June.
Apr 27, 2008 04:55 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Patty and Scott, it is very simple for us to create a price range...but people that have lived in homes a long time they have very little reference to the market because they have had no reason to keep up with it.

Thanks for your comments Patty and Scott.

Apr 27, 2008 04:57 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Margaret, seems so logical for agents...but the fact is elderly clients usually do not pay attention to the news or care about market reports.  They have heard this "stuff" years and have tuned it out.  So this little encounter also produced another listing and possible sale.  Just for doing what I am supposed to do!  Thanks for the comments Margaret.
Apr 27, 2008 05:00 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Duane, the niece was a bit miffed that a family member contacted me for paperwork and then I asked my usual questions and run a quick CMA to verify the price.  OOPS!  On the other side of the coin...they are giving me the mom's home as a listing and I am also getting another family members home as a listing along with helping purchase a third home...so the niece didn't have things work out well but I must say it was a very productive meeting for me and the family!

Apr 27, 2008 05:04 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Teri, checking with a professional before making a final agreement in real estate is one of the ways of double checking information accuracy...and safe guarding your investment.  Thanks for your comments Teri.  Finally we have had some wonderful weather, hopefully you have too!
Apr 27, 2008 05:07 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi John it was shocking to me the behavior of the niece but at the same time if the family would have felt comfortable they probably would not have called me.  Being family may not be enough of a reason for some people to act respectful or fairly.  Thanks for the comments John.
Apr 27, 2008 05:09 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Marchel, it is surprising that family will take advantage of their elderly family members but that is happening more than is reported I am sure.  Thanks for the comments Marchel.
Apr 27, 2008 05:11 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Kelly,  the niece made me smile...when she was made aware of the real value...she mixed no words with the family telling them if they were dumb enough to sell it to her at the price she offered she was going to show them how smart she was by making some quick money!  The didn't give her to much attitude other than the father made it very clear...he was more than unhappy.  The daughter is in her 30's this is not a kid.  Thanks for the comments Kelly.
Apr 27, 2008 05:15 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Terry, some times they just never subscribe to the family values they have learned.  This was very difficult for the family to swallow.  Thanks for the comments Terry.

Apr 27, 2008 05:17 AM
South Austin Real Estate Blog
Sky Realty South Austin - Austin, TX
HI Gary, it never ceases to amaze me the out and out GREED some folks have inside their sorry hides. :)  Great catch that you could inform the family and help them out .. and proof once again that you get paid back over and over for the good one does in life...  3 possible sales for 1 good fair catch.  Way to go!!
Apr 27, 2008 09:56 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Gail, we never know what the next phone call is going to bring.  These people were very greatful and the results will be more referrals from them over the years.  Thanks for your comments Gail...it is hard to believe people deal with each other this way...then have it family is the last straw!
Apr 27, 2008 10:06 AM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Gary,

This is an interesting business, for sure!  Thanks for relating the story.

Mike in Tucson

Apr 27, 2008 10:39 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation
'Just want to let you know that I highlighted this post on my "outside" blog, Focus On Crofton.
May 01, 2008 10:36 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!
Hi Mike, we do have a different story everyday...sometimes the same faces!  Thanks for the comments Mike.
May 02, 2008 10:26 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!
Hi Margaret, hope you get some readers to take advantage of it.  It does not matter what part of the country your property is located...this same issue can happen all over the country.  Without local market knowledge people with not sell or price their properties correctly and could leave thousands of dollars their family could have used to help their loved one.  Thanks for the comments and post Margaret.
May 02, 2008 10:29 AM