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Having a Bad Day?...Don't Use Social Media to Vent

Reblogger Roy Kelley
Industry Observer with Retired

NAR has an article on social media posts that can get you into trouble. This article has guidelines on what social media topics to avoid. Discussions of commissions and bad experiences with other agents are on this list.

Original content by Debbie Laity

Having a Bad Day?...Don't Use Social Media to Vent

OK...the transaction didn't close, or is delayed, and you've worked really hard. You feel like you've done all of the work yourself, and maybe tensions are running high on both the buying and selling side. Then a discussion of commission comes up, and the seller doesn't feel you're worth it. You just need to vent, and writing a blog post might be the perfect way to get some release.

 

DON'T DO IT!

Don't Use Social Media to Vent Because You've Had a Bad DayDo you want to be that agent that gets caught using social media to slam another agent, or discussing commissions? This could be a violation of the Code of Ethics. I don't want to be that agent. Read your Code of Ethics. 

Personally I find it disheartening to hear agents talk about how unprofessional other agents behave. It only adds to the negative stigma that some people already have of our business. I don't talk commissions, either. That's no ones business.  

NAR has an article on social media posts that can get you into trouble. This article has guidelines on what social media topics to avoid. Discussions of commissions and bad experiences with other agents are on this list.

 

Don't Use Social Media to Vent Because You've Had a Bad DayIf there's a question about whether or not I would share what I've written with the masses, then I won't share it. For me the answer to the question is...yes, no or maybe. If in doubt I won't publish the piece...even as a members only post here on Active Rain. This is one situation where I do make assumptions.

I assume that even if I'm posting to members only, the information is still out there for the rest of the world to see. All someone has to do is copy and paste your information into an email, and it's out there in cyber space to be seen by anyone that cares to find it.  

Is what you are putting on the internet something you really want to share with the world? Sharing your frustrations online could turn your bad day into something worse like a ethics complaint. If you need to vent after a bad day, don't share it online...get a punching bag.  

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Posted by

Roy Kelley, Retired, Former Associate Broker, RE/MAX Realty Group

Gaithersburg, Maryland  

TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 Good morning Roy Kelley . I never could understand the reason people used social media to vent.

Mar 20, 2016 06:36 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Roy. I can't say that I haven't done it, but not very often. Debbie Laity did a good job getting the message across. Good choice for a re-blog.

Mar 20, 2016 07:00 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Please be sure to leave comments at the original blog by Debbie Laity. She will be happy to hear from you. 

Mar 20, 2016 08:06 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Good morning Roy. Thank you for the reblog. It should be read by all agents.

Mar 20, 2016 09:01 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Roy Kelley ,

Thanks for the re-blog..I've been gone on Spring Break and getting back in the groove..this is an excellent post..it should be read by all agents!!

Mar 20, 2016 10:01 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for your comments. It is always good to hear from you.

Mar 20, 2016 10:05 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

It sort of defeats the purpose. Social media is our space to express ourselves, to vent, if we feel like that.

I do not buy this that if we say something about the poor state of our industry, it affects it. What affects it is the poor state of the industry, and it creates the stigma, not the other way around.

What I hear more and more is the unprecendented attempt at control of speach. We should stand against it. If we are still a free country. Since when we live not in America, but in NAR?

Mar 20, 2016 11:20 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Great choice to reblog Roy. I'm amazed at some of the stuff people say online.

Mar 20, 2016 11:56 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Another great reblog Roy!  You always find the greatest one to reshare

Mar 20, 2016 11:57 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Your comments are always welcome and are very much appreciated.

Mar 21, 2016 12:14 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

Hi, Roy. Thank so much for sharing this information. 

Mar 21, 2016 01:14 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Good Monday afternoon Roy.  I know Debbie Laity appreciates you sharing this very important information.  Ranting on social media is totally unacceptable in my world.

Mar 21, 2016 09:18 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, again, for stopping by. Have a great Monday evening.

Mar 21, 2016 11:18 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good morning to all. We have a rainy Easter Monday in Maryland. 

Have an outstanding week!

Mar 27, 2016 08:09 PM