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What is the obsession with signage?

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Real Estate Agent with Jameson Sotheby's International Realty

My mother's Alzheimer's causes her to have a very short attention span.  I'd say that she behaves like a child, but it's really more like a puppy, distracted by every sound, every leaf and every shiny thing.

One of the things she seems obsessed with lately is reading everything.  Not books or newspapers... but billboards, street signs, and posters.

On the way to the doctor's office: "No left turn... 7:00 am - 9:00 am."  

At the doctor's office: "Say goodbye to blurry vision with the lastest in cataract lenses"... and on the screen "O - F - C - L - H"... (pretty impressive...her post-cataract-surgery-vision is better than mine).

On the way home: "No right turn on red".

And, of course, since she has Alzheimer's she doesn't remember that she's read them to me... so she reads each of those things over and over and over again.

I don't understand this obsession with reading signage... let alone reading it out loud... but it seems to make her happy... seems to hold her interest.

"I'm loving it".

Posted by

 ALAN MAY, Realtor®   
Specializing in Evanston Real Estate and North Shore Real Estate

Jameson Sotheby's International Realty, 2934 Central Street, Evanston, IL 60201
Office: 847.869.7300      Cell: 847.924.3313      Email: Almay@aol.com

Evanston Real Estate & North Shore Real Estate
Licensed in Illinois

   

Comments(7)

Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I have experience.... And perhaps an answer.  They go back in time to when they were being taught to read and expected to read everything they saw to please those who were teaching them. Just tell her what a help and great job she's doing and roll with it. 

And a prayer for you both.

Mar 10, 2016 12:11 PM
Tammy Lankford,

I lost an agent in 2007 who had both Alzheimer's and ALS. His wife did not drive prior to his death and I drove/accompanied many doctor appointments.  I learned a lot and when Marvin went through his "formative" thinking period (as the dr. referred to it)  he read aloud everything he saw too.  It was the ALS that took him at just age 62, the Alzheimer's diagnosis came at 59. 

Mar 10, 2016 01:37 PM
Alan May

It's as good an explanation as any... and thank you for the prayer.

Mar 10, 2016 12:47 PM
Alan May

wow... that's early.  Formative period... I love it..

Mar 10, 2016 10:04 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

My mother was doing that..... She kind wondered why she could not recall. Then she does not remember her loved ones....

Mar 10, 2016 01:01 PM
Alan May

at the moment... she still recognizes us... but I'm sure that'll be coming.

Mar 10, 2016 09:38 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Alan, if she enjoys it, encourage her to read away!  It's so hard to watch a parent fall prey to dementia.  And as people live longer, I think we're going to see more of this.  

Mar 10, 2016 01:21 PM
Alan May

she surely does enjoy it.

Mar 10, 2016 09:39 PM
Mark Piscitelli & Theresa Ziebro
Remax Trinity - Brecksville, OH

This is sweet, Alan.  I wish you courage as you make this journey with your mom.  . ..  God bless you both.

Mar 10, 2016 08:36 PM
Alan May

thank you very much.

Mar 10, 2016 09:39 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Alan. I think it may be as Tammy suggested but whatever it is I will keep you both in my prayers too.

Mar 10, 2016 10:03 PM
Alan May

Tamy's definitely got some good insights.

Mar 10, 2016 10:05 PM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

Alan May Good luck with this "journey." It is not all bad, you know.

Bill Roberts

Mar 10, 2016 10:45 PM
Alan May

thank you, sir.  Good thing we brought snacks.

Mar 10, 2016 10:56 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

My Mom has started to read signage to me aloud too.  Who knows why they do it.

Mar 11, 2016 07:20 AM
Alan May

it's a quirky thing...

Mar 11, 2016 08:50 AM