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Does He Really Care?

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Real Estate Agent with Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 SA5376460000

Today included a check up after recent back surgery with a pain doctor.  I arrived on time for my appointment, checked in and filled out all of the accompanying paperwork.  I didn't wait long and was called back to a room for the "doctor" to show up.  After waiting for at least 40 minutes in the exam room, I drifted off to sleep in my chair.  Not surprising.  After all, what else is there to do in a sterile room with no magazines. 

 

When the doctor came in to see me the first thing he asked was, "Did I see you or did Dr. XYZ see you? "  After answering him, I felt puzzled.  How does he not know the answer to his own question?Does He Really Care?

 

Now I'm no doctor, but I would assume  the records in front of him would give such big news.  I'd only been there once and he was doing following up treatment for me.  

 

The first question I ask myself is, "Does He Really Care?  He asked one other question before prescribing the needed meds.  After waiting that long with not much conversation and with no clue as to who I was or why I was there, you'd think he'd ask more questions.  

 

This made me think of our business.  In every day course of business, do we delve into people's history and situation like we should.  My business is always founded on repeat business and referrals and if I treated my clients the way this "doctor" treated me today, I doubt I'd still be in business.  

 

It's amazing to me how some businesses stay in business.  And this is one of them.  Does He Really Care?  Or is he just writing prescriptions?  

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Robert Havana
Park and Protect- Alberta Real Estate License Parking - Calgary, AB
Alberta Real Estate License Parking

i avoid the doctor, but do have a few good dentist stories that are pretty similar.  I had one dentist who kept asking me everytime i seen him if it was my first appointment there.  After about 4 years and 9 appointments of having him ask me that same quesiton I finally snapped and said WTF?

May 18, 2016 01:28 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Right!  Amazing Robert May how some people remain in business!

May 18, 2016 01:37 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Jan

Hmm, well that was certainly time well spent in the company of someone who clearly has little interest in the patient. Churn them through, write those scripts, and move on. Glad my experience with my doc is far better and someone I would recommend.

Hope things continue to improve...with no more visits to that doctor!

Jeff

May 18, 2016 03:13 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Sorry that happened to you, but great analogy.  We need to take the time to get all the necessary information.

May 18, 2016 09:40 PM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

Great analogy; sadly, I must say I hear so many agents talking about commission checks and "it's a numbers game," they should heed your advice as well. 

May 18, 2016 11:46 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Jan. I think you are right and I would be finding another Doctor.

May 19, 2016 12:25 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Showing that you really care is so easy, but only if you actually listen and pay attention to what is going on with your clients.

May 19, 2016 01:22 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Jan - What has happened to healthcare in the last decade is really sad. Mary's doctor's practice got bought by a big healthcare company and they fired all of them for taking too much time with clients - bad for the bottom line. (Loved your form!)

May 19, 2016 02:00 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

My own experience with an orthobutcher makes me leery of all things "MD" . . . This is an amazing little thing that might present with a bigger issue.  Is the doctor overworked, drunk, an idiot, all three, or something else.  WOW!  Glad you made it out okay after the back surgery.  Sorry to hear you had to endure it.  Hope you're feeling better.

May 19, 2016 04:09 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Sorry to be a buzz kill here but I'm going with "just writing prescriptions." I fired a series of doctors when I was undergoing treatment for cancer.  

I walked out after waiting for a radiologist to show up in my exam room. I never returned. 

I am sorry you were treated so poorly.  

May 19, 2016 05:54 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Jan fire this dude. That is just seriously bad behavior on all levels for a guy who at the very least should at look at your file and know what he's seeing you for.  Craziness abounds in our health care system now. It's not easy finding a good, caring doctor.

May 19, 2016 07:22 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Jan Green ,  That scenerio sure sounds familiar. I guess the bottom line is how much they can make instead of how can I make his person happy and whole again.  I know some Agents that are like that too.  I hope I never get that way.

May 19, 2016 11:23 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Sorry to hear about this inattentive doctor Jan, I have had a few like this in the past.

Our current doctor, who we have followed, even when she switched clinics, is always attentive, knows us well, and sometimes nags me if I don't do what she recommends.

May 19, 2016 11:55 AM
Michael O'Donnell
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Arizona Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
GRI, ePRO, Accessible Homes

I was raised to believe that physicians are tradesmen, who work on people rather than things. (This from a father who was and M.D. and a mother who was an R.N.)

Like any service provider, they must meet your expectations of competence, service, and value, or else you move on.

Unfortunately the economics fo running a medical practice in this age, requires assembly-line behavior, but this was egregious.

Time to move on? 

May 20, 2016 01:00 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Jeff Dowler CRS Good for you for having a doctor you trust and provides good bed side manner.  I won't be with this guy long!

Roger D. Mucci Being thorough in our job is so important, too!

Susan Haughton - It is sad.  Too bad that's their most important aspect of the job!

Sheila Anderson - Good thing I won't be seeing much more of him.  He's a pain doctor who obvioiusly has no clue!  

 Chris Ann Cleland And you must be very good at it to know that it's that easy!  Seriously, I was shocked at his response to me when entering the room.  No apology for the extra long wait.

May 20, 2016 01:09 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Dick Greenberg - That is very sad!  It's frustrating this day and age.  One of my clients is in town from East Coast and is a retired Primary Care doc who agrees with you!   Have a great day Dick!

Carla Muss-Jacobs, Principal Broker/Owner - Thank you for your well wishes.  Getting better every day.  Surgeons and pain doctors have zero empathy!

Kathleen Daniels - Yes he was just writing a script.  He's a pain doctor who obviously is clueless.  I'm getting better and diminishing need for scripts so he just "wrote" me off!

Anna Banana Kruchten - I would fire him except that he's a pain doctor and in a group with my surgeon.  What a royal mess up he is!  When I hit the exam room I was told that there was one patient ahead of me.  40 minutes later I was seriously nodding off in my chair.  He comes in and I say, "Sorry I dozed off."  I was testing him.  He just sat down and started in on the computer.  What a whack job!

May 20, 2016 01:13 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

I agree, unfortunately.  What I find interesting is the disassocation with all things.  For example, the use of the word: routine.  "Oh, it's a routine procedure."


Hmmmmmmm . . . not for me!  I've never had it done before.  While it may be "routine" for the MD, etc. that procedure is new to me and my body.  Act accordingly!!   But, they never do.  Okay off the soap box now. 

May 20, 2016 03:52 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Larry Johnston - You won't get that way because of the person that you are.  Good for you! 

Bob Crane - That's what a doctor should do, look out for your best results . Good for you for finding one that cares!     

Michael O'Donnell - Hopefully I won't be seeing him again!  Thanks to my back recovering and my exercise program, I'm rebounding nicely!  See you soon :)

May 20, 2016 01:16 AM