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No Show on a By Appointment Only ~ Doing What's Right

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Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 141871

No Show on a By Appointment Only

 

hairdresser integrity real estate servicesI was a no-show.  I made the appointment with my hair dresser 8 weeks in advance as I've been doing for the last 5 years.  Tammy is such a wonderfully talented and skilled person.  She stays booked up.  When I made the appointment she sent the date to me in a Facebook Message.  That way it would be there for me to put on my calendar.  Problem is, I didn't.  

 

One afternoon, I got a text from her asking if I was OK.  Then it hit me.. I was a no-show.  No-Shows are irritating unless there's a valid reason.  I work by appointment.  She had allowed two hours in her schedule to color and cut my hair and now she's sitting there twiddling her thumbs when she could have been doing someone else's hair if I had cancelled.  

 

She kindly and graciously booked me 3 weeks later in the rare opening that she had available.  I told her that I would take care of the missed appointment.  She didn't want me to compensate her for it.. but it was the right thing to do.. so when she did my hair, I doubled the payment to pay her for the missed appointment.  

 

I'm not patting myself on the back.   It was actually a very selfish thing to do.. It made me feel good to do the right thing and that's the only way I got her to accept it, by saying to her that she needed to let me do the right thing.  

 

Wouldn't it be wonderful if everyone could get compensated for no-show appointments???  To make up for that time that was especially set aside for someone but they didn't think it was important enough to either make the appointment or cancel it.   I always appreciate someone letting me know ahead of time if they can't make it and I usually call or text before the appointment time, to confirm an appointment that someone has made with me.  I considered my hair appointment important but it didn't dawn on me that it the appointment day had arrived, usually my hair starts driving me nuts right before it's time to go see Tammy.  BUT I had not put it on the calendar.  That was inexcusable.  Thank you, Tammy, for letting me do the right thing... this client greatly appreciates you taking care of her mop!  

 

This image is NOT of Tammy.   It is courtesy of Morguefile user, Bonnie Henderson. 

Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Judi... you did a nice thing. I can tell you that 20+ years ago in NYC stylists and other service people would charge for the appointment if you were a no-show. And you were asked for your credit card up front and told it would be so. It probably cut down on a lot of no-shows.

Jun 15, 2016 10:24 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Congratulations on your feature recognition and thanks for sharing this story.

Jun 15, 2016 10:25 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Judi K Barrett ,

Congratulations on a well deserved featured post!! You absolutely did the right thing and I know your hairdresser appreciated it!

Jun 15, 2016 10:39 PM
Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR

We are all busy people. I always call the customer to confirm the time and place to meet. If they do not respond back, then I do not go.

Jun 15, 2016 11:28 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

The NO show is a NO NO in any profession. The coming together is what it is all about.

Jun 15, 2016 11:42 PM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Everybody has committed this sin - but not everybody makes up for it like you did!

Jun 15, 2016 11:48 PM
Athina Boukas
Virginia Capital Realty - Richmond, VA
Certified Residential Specialist (CRS)

It was a nice gesture to compensate your stylist.  It is no different than a late payment fee on a faceless bill, so why wouldn't we want to pay for the time someone set aside for us to service us face-to-face?

Jun 16, 2016 12:26 AM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Getting no showed is horrible - you twiddle your thumbs and think of all the things you could be doing. Glad you did the right thing.

Jun 16, 2016 12:53 AM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

Miss Tran or Nguyen has the wrong platform-FB. I wil do the traditional call to confirm it.

I thought the blog was about clients not showing up. Not you forgot an appointment.

Jun 16, 2016 01:06 AM
Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Not all the blame falls on you. In this day and age, every appointment especially made so far in advance (dentist, doctor, spa, etc. including real estate) that I know of gets a call the day before to make sure I'm still on board. But you are a good person to make it up for her.

Jun 16, 2016 02:38 AM
Jon Quist
REALTY EXECUTIVES ARIZONA TERRITORY - Tucson, AZ
Tucson's BUYERS ONLY Realtor since 1996

You  did the right thing. Long term relationships are to be treasured. Tuesday I almost missed a doctor's appointment made long in advance. I bet they wouldn't have been so gracious.

Jun 16, 2016 05:33 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Tammy is very lucky you are so conscientious. Most people today wouldn't have paid her. Many would have made excuses. You did a good thing!

Jun 16, 2016 12:30 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

It is a terrible feeling - been there and done that!  Good for you for paying her for it.  Not everyone would be so gracious!

Jun 16, 2016 12:50 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

You definitely did the right thing and yes, everyone who is a no-show should do something to make up for it. I had a buyer who was a no-show the other day and this person didn't even show any regret or apologize. I fired him. I feel a post brewing! Thank you.

Jun 16, 2016 08:09 PM
Chrissi Chapman Topoleski
Coldwell Banker Realty - Woodbridge, VA
Helping agents live an exceptional life!

I've been a no show as well from simply forgetting. My stylist is awesome, too, and the salon charges for missed appointments.  Thankfully I've caught those in time. That was very nice of you to make it up to her!

Jun 16, 2016 09:18 PM
Sammy Shrimali
Aacer Realty - Pleasanton, CA
Real Estate Broker Serving the San Francisco Bay

Hi Judi,

That was very kind of you to reimburse your hair dresser for her time.  It's the right thing to do.  

Many service providers charge in advance for "no shows". 

Thanks for sharing your story.

Jun 17, 2016 01:07 AM
Theresa Akin
CORPUS CHRISTI REALTY GROUP - Corpus Christi, TX

Judi, You are one of the very few who would compensate for your own forgetfulness. I had a very large clientele when I was a hairdresser but none matched you. I have learned to make the "no show" into an advantage to take care of another quick task.  Great story! 

Jun 17, 2016 06:06 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

While I understand and agree with your pos,t, what most strikes out to me is the kernel of understanding when you state that paying her double is selfish ultimately, because it allows you to let yourself off the hook.

That's true wisdom.

Yes, the correct way to be too.

Jun 17, 2016 12:40 PM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Ahhhh, you got a lesson from the other side. I am glad Tammy let you do the right thing.  Both of you feel better!

Jun 17, 2016 01:41 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Judi K Barrett - well, you did the right thing.

None of us like 'NO SHOW' - and who else can understand better than us?

Jun 18, 2016 02:05 PM