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Feelings of Snarkiness And My Letter From A Utah Real Estate Student

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Feelings of Snarkiness And My Letter From A Utah Real Estate Student

 

The ActiveRain Q&A SectionYeah, I know what you may be thinking.  

 

Some kind of weird prank by that Jacobs guy.

 

No, not this time.  

 

Yesterday, I received a letter from a former Utah real estate student.  

 

Scott Parrish wrote and informed me that he was attending online real estate school and was told to “Ask A Professional” about topics that were being studied. ActiveRain was his way of connecting with real estate practitioners.   He was utilizing the Q&A section as part of his training.  

 

He wrote “thank you for answering my questions.  They actually helped me learn more about real estate and what to expect.  You  have given back to the real estate business…”.   Scott went on to tell me he is now a licensed real estate agent in the state of Utah.  

 

It was interesting that yesterday was the same day I read a featured post by Chris Ann Cleland about her thoughts on the Q&A section, AR rudeness and the general professionalism of this forum.  I admit to feeling a little guilty because of my snarkiness at times so receiving that letter made me recognize that what we do here can make a difference.    

 

I don’t recall answering any questions by Scott but I certainly appreciated his letter even if I wasn't the only one to receive it. You don’t always know who is reading  your posts let alone your comments, questions or answers.  I hope my online persona matches the real me. Genuine.  Knowledgeable.  Helpful.  And yes, Snarky at times.   

 

 

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

mtj916@gmail.com

 

 

Brian Rugg
Rugg Realty LLC Sun City Texas 512-818-6700 - Georgetown, TX
Sun City TX Real Estate - Georgetown, TX Real Est

 

I don't know you to be snarky, but I am certain you have reach......at least all the way to Utah:)

Jun 20, 2016 11:07 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

There may have been a bit of snarky, but I remember the kind, thoughtful, and intelligent comments more.

And apparently so does Scott.

Jun 20, 2016 11:47 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

Let's agree Scott is making himself and Utah look good.

The power of a thank you is immeasurable at times.

Jun 20, 2016 01:47 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Interesting situation.  Good for you for being helpful and to the newbie for his letter!

Jun 20, 2016 02:56 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

That is really sweet, Michael.  Yes, I have seen way more good than bad in the Q&A section.  So glad Scott graduated.  I remember him in there.  Glad you were able to make a difference for him.

Jun 20, 2016 08:34 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Michael Jacobs 

Looks like you did make a difference for Scott..what a nice letter! I agree with Claude Labbe "The power of a thank you is immeasurable at times!"

Jun 20, 2016 09:16 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I am reminded of the Beauty and the Beast story. The Prince, who is arrogant by nature, answers the door and standing there is an old woman who can either bless or curse you. He gives her his worse and she gives him her curse. Heed this

Jun 20, 2016 10:57 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thanks very much for stopping by and your comments.  I hope Scott Parrish is on his way to a successful real estate career.

Jun 21, 2016 02:02 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Goodfor you. It hurts nothing to be nice, and perhaps you've set a new agent on that same path. 

Jun 21, 2016 03:28 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Michael Jacobs , I have read some of those snarkiness answers by a few of the AR members and maybe a former member or two.  That letter makes us stand up and realize why we are here.  We all say we are here to help. We all apparently did, especially you, since you're the one that got the letter.

Oh, and congratulations on your Feature.

Jun 21, 2016 11:07 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

I'm glad this post got featured. I've put away my sarcastic side (for the most part) with the Utah students. I'm glad you received a letter, and it shows that we do make a difference. 

Jun 21, 2016 12:04 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Michael Jacobs - one thing I know about you - you are a thorough professional and you deserve this credit from the student of Utah real estate school.

 

Jun 21, 2016 01:23 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Here's what I have to say...the snarkier the better. Is that a word?

Jun 21, 2016 02:26 PM
Michael Jacobs

Tammie White, why not?

Jun 22, 2016 02:35 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Michael, Your posts usually come from a helpful standpoint and that clearly shows in the letter written. Congrats!

Jun 21, 2016 11:26 PM
Lesley Wilson-VanGoethem
Innovative Realty Solutions Group - Winter Springs, FL
Residential Real Estate Broker Associate

So rewarding to know you did make a difference!

Jun 22, 2016 12:17 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thanks for your comments.  I appreciate it very much.

Jun 22, 2016 02:36 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

There are many occasions during the day we get irritable, however, learning to control and not express it has always been a challenge. So, changing my emotion to gratitude keeps everything in perspective. Great post and a constant reminder to maintain your attitude through genuine gratitude. 

Jun 22, 2016 06:10 AM
Kelly Willey
Coco Plum Real Estate, Kelly Willey, FLORIDA KEYS - Marathon, FL
Florida Keys Luxury Sales, Marathon, Key Colony

Snarky is my middle name...keep it coming....Kelly "Snarky" Willey in the Keys

 

PS. The personal letter is a dying breed but in my opinion that makes it all the more powerful, just like the hand written thank you note or birthday card.

Jun 26, 2016 01:19 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren

I think it is great he sent you that letter and you know what as far as the snarkiness. In a perfect world we would be that robotic human. Ummmmm NO! We have good days and bad days and sometimes we are a little agressive in our message. It just happens! And guess what? It's okay. Shouldn't identify us as a person because of our passion for that particular topic.  Koodos..... Michael Jacobs 

Jun 26, 2016 03:24 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

I got a letter from him too. 

May 29, 2017 04:00 PM