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Ask An Ambassador: I Respect Your Right To Act An Idiot

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Real Estate Agent with Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com SAL.2002007747

'Tis the season.

Politics.

Pfffffft.

There's a reason you don't see politics discussed much in the Rain.

The topic is among the world's most divisive. 

It CAN (and often does) invoke hostile reactions.

"You either think like me or you're an idiot.  Your spouse is ugly, your mama's fat, your kids are going to need to repeat preschool...and don't get me started on what a moron your dog is!!"

Kind of sound familiar?  Just a few moments scrolling Facebook on a daily basis and you'll find similar enough.  Both red and blue backers are convinced the other's candidate is demonic and taking this country to Hades if they're elected.  While they gleefully point out the mistakes of the other side they'll put on blinders to their candidate DOING THE EXACT SAME THING.

Rational discussion?  Fuhgedabout it.

Facts don't apply if we see the slightest opportunity to throw some mud and insult the other side.

America, the land of free speech, right?

But what gets forgotten in the haste to make sure we condemn the other side in support of OUR candidate is that free speech isn't always without consequences.

Even if you express yourself TOTALLY civilly, rationally, respectfully, some will want nothing to do with you strictly because YOU are now associated with the OTHER side.

Business can be impacted.  Potential clients seek someone with similar political views.  Referrals can go elsewhere.  And that's even playing nicely in the sandbox. Now imagine how much worse it gets if you're a total jerk about it your Facebook posts and discussions?

Now you MIGHT be able to get away with it if your market is HEAVILY tilted to one side of the political spectrum or the other and you're aligned with your market's population.  You MIGHT even attract some business because you think the same as the general public.

Personally, I'd rather the merits of my hiring be based on my expertise and my professionalism rather than which candidate I'm likely to vote for.  Who I will vote for has ZERO to do with my ability to price and market a home, or negotiate a great deal for my buyers.

So when it comes to politics, I respect your right to act an idiot if you choose to...but even engineers have limits :)

Until next Tuesday, just Ask An Ambassador if you need help!

Bill of BLiz

P.S.  Now I'm off to help a client that I've never discussed politics with.

 

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Comments(45)

Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Richie, Unfortunately for some there is no desire for enlightenment.  My way or the highway.  Think my way or go away now.  Some part of life are pretty black and white, but there's a lot of gray zone where we can seek to understand, even if we don't agree.  And reminders every day, Life is short.  Why waste it?

Jul 19, 2016 11:25 PM
Pam Orzan Broker, Owner
Coastal Living South Florida Real Estate - Delray Beach, FL
Selling Delray, Boca Raton, & Boynton Beach

Great topic! I am always shocked about the rude, ignorant or opinionated comments from people in our industry on FB. My business is relationship based, I never want to turn a potential customer off with my opinions. We all have our opinions on politics or current events, but there is no place for that in real estate!

Jul 19, 2016 11:29 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Pam, I don't think some realize the permanent harm they can do to their professional reputations when they go tactical nuclear warfare with their political attacks.

Jul 20, 2016 12:26 AM
Jennifer Mackay
Counts Real Estate Group, Inc. - Panama City, FL
Your Bay County Florida Realtor 850.774.6582

My area is not only heavily tilted it's down right one sided completely LOL

Jul 20, 2016 12:35 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

So much static out there on social media sites, here too Bliz. I just continue to scroll past and get on with business. You can't support a household on meaningless diatribes and skewed opinions! Congrats on the feature.

Jul 20, 2016 04:18 AM
Theresa Akin
CORPUS CHRISTI REALTY GROUP - Corpus Christi, TX

Excellent post. I have stated before I was a hairdresser for many years (30+). Every once in a while a client would come in and ask how I was voting. I just flat out told them it was not up for discussion. She was a bit of a bigot; always a negative remark for someone's religion or political convictions. Then one day she and another both had a very nasty discussion and tried to have a "convention" right there to where it almost got into fisticuffs. Two grown women. We decided it was better for the rest of the clients safety not to book them any more future appointments.  Yes it got that bad.  I will not discuss religion or politics with any customers or clients.

Jul 20, 2016 05:18 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

We believe politcally correct is mum the word .

Jul 20, 2016 06:45 AM
Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Farm & Commercial Land Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
Farm & Commercial Property For Sale 308-627-3700

Half empty...half full...

It is hard to goto some sites because of all the sewage being spewed by keyboard warriors.

I have lost respect for many people this year on both sides of the aisle...some I will never do business with again...and unless they specifically ask why...they will never know how their tasteless acts turned me away.

How we act on Social Media is probably more impactful than in person because we cannot see the smile, or wink, or hear the joking voice.

Jul 20, 2016 07:03 AM
Margaret Goss

Love the term "keyboard warriors."  Brave, aren't they?


 

Jul 21, 2016 04:14 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

I like the way you "tell it like it is". I just shake my head when reading my Facebook feed, and it isn't just about politics. People can get so rude and abrasive if you disagree on ANY topic. Thanks, Bill.

Jul 20, 2016 09:26 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Jennifer, Our immediate market area is heavily tilted too.  Venture to the edges of our turf and the balance shifts noticeably.

Wanda, Great point!  Political tussles on FB don't pay the bills.

Theresa, A shame that it had to get to the point of banning customers, but sometimes you have to do what's best for the overall business, and showing them the door was the right move.

Sally & David, I don't mind a civil discussion, but it's tough to get that sometimes.

Mike, No doubt, keyboard courage is out of control.  Things that would get someone smacked if said in person are so easily typed and posted when they shouldn't be.  And without facial expressions, body language and other telltales it's really easy to assume worst case even when it's not meant.

Pat, I'm amazed at some of the fights and downright rudeness in some of the local FB groups I monitor.  And you're right, it often has zip to do with politics.

 

Jul 20, 2016 11:26 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Liz and Bill Spear - My philosophy - don't ask the directions for the road I do not want to travel!

Even if there is a difference of opinion, politics is something 'personal' to me. And that's the way I'd like to leave it.

Jul 20, 2016 03:08 PM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

Real estate transactions pay my bills, not political banter. Frankly I could care less which clown is elected. Each belong to overlapping corporate interests, so why bother?

The great thing about our field is we control our income.

Jul 20, 2016 10:36 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I'm not for the two party system so I dislike anything and everything that is going on right now. It's maddening to read what people are posting online and it sickens me how blinded both sides are.

Yes, you will lose friends if you express too much of your political views....it will change how people think of you.

Jul 20, 2016 10:37 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Praful, That's a good philosophy statement!

Doug, Day to day my life doesn't change much either way.  I'm going to keep my two job life and hope taxes don't go up so I can keep more of it.

Sharon, Maybe that Libertarian candidate will get enough support to tip the apple cart.  I know it's a long shot.

Jul 21, 2016 12:47 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

I wonder about those who don't understand that their expression of views can have consequences. 

Jul 21, 2016 01:35 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

I'm with you!  I don't talk politics and if it comes up, I shrug and say, "I have no idea who I'll vote for" even if I do!  

Jul 21, 2016 04:20 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Ditto, ditto, ditto, in other words I agree Liz and Bill Spear 

Jul 21, 2016 06:52 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Stay neutral that's my motto. You might want to correct your post title.

Jul 21, 2016 09:53 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Karen, It makes me question what else they don't grasp.

Jan, If pressed, I'll say who I like, or express my dissatisfaction with BOTH parties.

Mary, Thanks!

Lyn, Actually I left the "Like" out on purpose, it's " you wanna act an idiot??" was a phrase I heard a lot growing up :)

Jul 21, 2016 10:02 AM
Tammy Adams ~ Realtor / Podcaster
Maricopa Real Estate Co - Maricopa, AZ
A Maricopa Agent who Works, Lives & Loves Maricopa

I learned a long time ago that most folks are not interested in your opinion unless it agrees with theirs.  LOL

 

What kills me is these obviously photo shopped pictures go around and these fools believe them. (on both sides).  I just shake my head.

Jul 31, 2016 12:14 PM